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Why hasn’t Michael Jackson been cancelled??

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PoliteSquid · 12/09/2026 19:56

I’ve been out at a 80s day disco today… loads of fun. But it struck me that people were still delighted by MJ… why? He was a wrong ‘un of the very worst kind. How come he hasn’t been cancelled?!

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Aluna · 13/09/2026 14:35

vickylou78 · 13/09/2026 14:26

It's not that we are defending him. It's that we believe he is innocent until proven otherwise. If there was a credible witness or victim that proves otherwise then I would change my view. Unt then innocent until proven guilty.

Innocent until proven guilty is simply a legal mechanism in court to the effect that the burden of proof falls to the prosecution.

It doesn’t oblige anyone outside a court not to come to their own conclusions.

There are credible witnesses but you simply deny and denigrate them so you don’t have to stop being a fan.

Aluna · 13/09/2026 14:42

localnotail · 13/09/2026 14:28

You are forgetting that Savills crimes were not "allegations", there were thousands of witnesses. With MJ, none of his accusations were turned into actual convictions, even now, after his death.

Edited: so while you at it, you need to stop listening to David Bowie, Led Zeppelin, Red Hot Chilly Peppers, Aerosmith - for starters.

Edited

Because only 2 were actually tried - Gavin Arviso and his brother.

I wonder what makes you think it likely that having survived cancer at 10 years old, which is how he crossed MJ’s path - he and his brother would bother to falsely accuse a global star and have to endure a court case over it.

WigglywagglyWanda · 13/09/2026 14:45

localnotail · 13/09/2026 14:28

You are forgetting that Savills crimes were not "allegations", there were thousands of witnesses. With MJ, none of his accusations were turned into actual convictions, even now, after his death.

Edited: so while you at it, you need to stop listening to David Bowie, Led Zeppelin, Red Hot Chilly Peppers, Aerosmith - for starters.

Edited

But but but

His supporters here are saying they are defending him because he was acquitted. There wasn't enough evidence

You posted yourself that more expert folk than us in court found him not guilty.

By that reasoning Saville was never in court so no matter if there were squillions of allegations hes never been found guilty?

So hy your own reasoning Saville is guilty but Muchael is not? Michael has accusers and I've no doubt there are others that just couldn't bring themselves to put themselves through it all.

Courts let guilty people go, OJ is the perfect example. Common sense and logic tells me Saville was guilty as was Michael.

WigglywagglyWanda · 13/09/2026 14:54

localnotail · 13/09/2026 14:28

You are forgetting that Savills crimes were not "allegations", there were thousands of witnesses. With MJ, none of his accusations were turned into actual convictions, even now, after his death.

Edited: so while you at it, you need to stop listening to David Bowie, Led Zeppelin, Red Hot Chilly Peppers, Aerosmith - for starters.

Edited

Sorry meant to add

No I don't need to stop listening to anyone actually. I've said he shouldn't be cancelled while still acknowledging that he was a predatory piece of shit. His music is a huge part of history and even though I didn't like it I acknowledge others did.

Acknowledging he abused children doesn't change that.

localnotail · 13/09/2026 14:54

WigglywagglyWanda · 13/09/2026 14:45

But but but

His supporters here are saying they are defending him because he was acquitted. There wasn't enough evidence

You posted yourself that more expert folk than us in court found him not guilty.

By that reasoning Saville was never in court so no matter if there were squillions of allegations hes never been found guilty?

So hy your own reasoning Saville is guilty but Muchael is not? Michael has accusers and I've no doubt there are others that just couldn't bring themselves to put themselves through it all.

Courts let guilty people go, OJ is the perfect example. Common sense and logic tells me Saville was guilty as was Michael.

You cant compare Saville with anyone - like I said, his crimes were not "allegations", they are a fact. There are witnesses and people literally saying he raped them and abused them in other ways. The stories and witness accounts never change and i doubt there would not be "not enough evidence" if he ever went to court. There would be too much evidence, if anything.

With MJ - I did say he definitely had a weird relationship with kids. He slept in a bed with them, and done some other weird stuff. However, I watched a few films about him and all the allegations are kind of vague, and witness accounts change over time. It is also difficult as there were large sums of money involved and all of his accusers benefited financially from the situation. I have zero doubt if it all was clear cut he would have been convicted - it would have been hard not to.

Cheese55 · 13/09/2026 14:54

WigglywagglyWanda · 13/09/2026 14:27

Do you believe OJ Simpson was innocent?

Tbf, he kinda confessed when he wrote that book.

Cheese55 · 13/09/2026 14:58

westcott · 13/09/2026 14:33

I think if the court case was now, he would be viewed differently.

Like A M Windsor paying off Virginia G?

localnotail · 13/09/2026 14:58

Aluna · 13/09/2026 14:42

Because only 2 were actually tried - Gavin Arviso and his brother.

I wonder what makes you think it likely that having survived cancer at 10 years old, which is how he crossed MJ’s path - he and his brother would bother to falsely accuse a global star and have to endure a court case over it.

Were there not two other boys? The ones that were in a film.

Gavin's family benefited financially from MJ's money and being close to him.

WigglywagglyWanda · 13/09/2026 15:02

localnotail · 13/09/2026 14:54

You cant compare Saville with anyone - like I said, his crimes were not "allegations", they are a fact. There are witnesses and people literally saying he raped them and abused them in other ways. The stories and witness accounts never change and i doubt there would not be "not enough evidence" if he ever went to court. There would be too much evidence, if anything.

With MJ - I did say he definitely had a weird relationship with kids. He slept in a bed with them, and done some other weird stuff. However, I watched a few films about him and all the allegations are kind of vague, and witness accounts change over time. It is also difficult as there were large sums of money involved and all of his accusers benefited financially from the situation. I have zero doubt if it all was clear cut he would have been convicted - it would have been hard not to.

Look i agree about Saville actually but it's the double standards. You can't say Michael is innocent as he wasnt found guilty in a court but Saville was never IN court.

I'll leave it here I think, we aren't going to agree and after watching the two young men on the Behavioural panel talking about what they went through i was in tears. And im getting angry at posters denigrating them and saying it's all about money...

So I should bow out as I get too invested when discussing child abuse

Ill watch the rest of the thread with interest.

MonteStory · 13/09/2026 15:03

Silverbirchleaf · 13/09/2026 14:08

I don’t understand the ‘he’s not a Saville’ arguement. In both cases, people have testified what has gone on. In the court of law, you only need one victim although more obviously helps to build a case. Yes, there is more evidence against Saville, but that doesn’t negate the fact that there is evidence against MJ.

Especially when they’re both very interesting studies of famous predators who acted in very similar ways.

Both cultivated the ‘weird’ persona so that anything odd might be easily explained away. Both engaged in public and ostentatious acts of charity/kindness to make them more untouchable. Both cultivated friendships with powerful people (no just Charles and Diana and famous people Saville had friends very high in the police and the mayor of Scarborough who was also a paedophile). Both encouraged the hysteria and fandom. Obviously saville didn’t have fans like Jackson but his events drew massive screaming crowds and he openly played up to and encouraged it. Both found ways of being around children/vulnerable people.

When you break it down he’s exactly like Saville. Their victims differ, their styles are very different - mostly because Saville was heterosexual and perving on underage girls was socially acceptable at the time. But they’re eerily similar. And people don’t like that because he’s a man who wasn’t convicted but it’s generally accepted that he did it.

Silverbirchleaf · 13/09/2026 15:05

localnotail · 13/09/2026 14:54

You cant compare Saville with anyone - like I said, his crimes were not "allegations", they are a fact. There are witnesses and people literally saying he raped them and abused them in other ways. The stories and witness accounts never change and i doubt there would not be "not enough evidence" if he ever went to court. There would be too much evidence, if anything.

With MJ - I did say he definitely had a weird relationship with kids. He slept in a bed with them, and done some other weird stuff. However, I watched a few films about him and all the allegations are kind of vague, and witness accounts change over time. It is also difficult as there were large sums of money involved and all of his accusers benefited financially from the situation. I have zero doubt if it all was clear cut he would have been convicted - it would have been hard not to.

When does an allegation become a fact?

Saville accusers say he ate blue smarties, therefore it must be true. MJ ‘s accusers say he ate blue smarties, but it may not be true. Same accusation, but different perpetrator. It it holds true for one, it holds true for both. (Obviously blue smarties analogy is made up).

Plus you say he did weird stuff with kids, ‘weird stuff’ Red Flag! Sleeping in bed with boys - red flag!

localnotail · 13/09/2026 15:13

Silverbirchleaf · 13/09/2026 15:05

When does an allegation become a fact?

Saville accusers say he ate blue smarties, therefore it must be true. MJ ‘s accusers say he ate blue smarties, but it may not be true. Same accusation, but different perpetrator. It it holds true for one, it holds true for both. (Obviously blue smarties analogy is made up).

Plus you say he did weird stuff with kids, ‘weird stuff’ Red Flag! Sleeping in bed with boys - red flag!

Like I said, there witnesses to Savills behaviour. Has anyone actually seen MJ come out of a room where he was with a child and wash his d**k in a sink? (Sorry, gross, I know, just had to get the message across).

I do think MJ was a perv but I'm not even 100% sure what exactly he was accused of - like, what did he do. I also think parents of these children have a lot to answer for - who TF lets their child sleep in a bed with a random man?

Spiffingdarling88 · 13/09/2026 15:14

Jimmy Savile donated 40 million in his lifetime to charities, you might as well be saying withdraw all that money and hand back all the hospital equipment he has funded over the years.

Reality is they are dead, if you want to be morally superior then no one is stopping you.

MonteStory · 13/09/2026 15:22

localnotail · 13/09/2026 15:13

Like I said, there witnesses to Savills behaviour. Has anyone actually seen MJ come out of a room where he was with a child and wash his d**k in a sink? (Sorry, gross, I know, just had to get the message across).

I do think MJ was a perv but I'm not even 100% sure what exactly he was accused of - like, what did he do. I also think parents of these children have a lot to answer for - who TF lets their child sleep in a bed with a random man?

His staff reported finding bloodied little boys underwear, several cups containing alcohol when he was the only adult in the room. Porn playing on the tv when, again, he’s an adult in the room with ten year olds. An excessive amount of tissues…you get the picture.

The fact Jackson didn’t feel the need to even turn off the porn tells everything we need to know about his relationship with his cleaning staff. He knew they wouldn’t tell.

The two men in the documentary go in to graphic detail and their stories are very similar. He was particularly interested in anuses so it started there. ‘Teaching’ them to masturbate. Progressed to mutual masturbation and anal sex as they got older. A particularly sad detail is that when Kackson would walk publically, in front of thousands of press, holding hands with a little boy, he would trace his fingers across the boys palm, giving him codes for what sexual things he wanted to do later. Im sorry but you did ask ‘but what did he actually do?

Who lets their kids sleep with an adult man? Well quite. Stupid vulnerable parents who Jackson hand picked. That’s why the ‘he never abused Macaulay culkin’ line is so ridiculous. Wow really he never abused the most famous child in the world with famously difficult parents and his own private security?! No shit.

CorporalJohn · 13/09/2026 16:31

Because "cancelling" an individual is a childish activity only indulged in by third-rate, small-minded, idiots and not particularly pleasant idiots at that!

localnotail · 13/09/2026 16:41

MonteStory · 13/09/2026 15:22

His staff reported finding bloodied little boys underwear, several cups containing alcohol when he was the only adult in the room. Porn playing on the tv when, again, he’s an adult in the room with ten year olds. An excessive amount of tissues…you get the picture.

The fact Jackson didn’t feel the need to even turn off the porn tells everything we need to know about his relationship with his cleaning staff. He knew they wouldn’t tell.

The two men in the documentary go in to graphic detail and their stories are very similar. He was particularly interested in anuses so it started there. ‘Teaching’ them to masturbate. Progressed to mutual masturbation and anal sex as they got older. A particularly sad detail is that when Kackson would walk publically, in front of thousands of press, holding hands with a little boy, he would trace his fingers across the boys palm, giving him codes for what sexual things he wanted to do later. Im sorry but you did ask ‘but what did he actually do?

Who lets their kids sleep with an adult man? Well quite. Stupid vulnerable parents who Jackson hand picked. That’s why the ‘he never abused Macaulay culkin’ line is so ridiculous. Wow really he never abused the most famous child in the world with famously difficult parents and his own private security?! No shit.

Wow, I missed all of that somehow despite watching two documentaries about MJ.

My only question is - how TF was he found not guilty with this amount of evidence?

MonteStory · 13/09/2026 16:44

localnotail · 13/09/2026 16:41

Wow, I missed all of that somehow despite watching two documentaries about MJ.

My only question is - how TF was he found not guilty with this amount of evidence?

Edited

He’s dead. The two men in Finding Nederland weren’t able to tell their stories until after he died. Very common in survivors of abuse.

DJKATIE · 13/09/2026 16:54

I really believe he was a very sad individual who wanted to be a child and have a childhood as he was denied one, rather than seeing children in a sexual way. Despite his fame and fortune he was a very screwed up person mainly due to his cruel and abusive father. I haven't seen the film Michael yet but belive it highlights this.

Aluna · 13/09/2026 16:56

MonteStory · 13/09/2026 15:22

His staff reported finding bloodied little boys underwear, several cups containing alcohol when he was the only adult in the room. Porn playing on the tv when, again, he’s an adult in the room with ten year olds. An excessive amount of tissues…you get the picture.

The fact Jackson didn’t feel the need to even turn off the porn tells everything we need to know about his relationship with his cleaning staff. He knew they wouldn’t tell.

The two men in the documentary go in to graphic detail and their stories are very similar. He was particularly interested in anuses so it started there. ‘Teaching’ them to masturbate. Progressed to mutual masturbation and anal sex as they got older. A particularly sad detail is that when Kackson would walk publically, in front of thousands of press, holding hands with a little boy, he would trace his fingers across the boys palm, giving him codes for what sexual things he wanted to do later. Im sorry but you did ask ‘but what did he actually do?

Who lets their kids sleep with an adult man? Well quite. Stupid vulnerable parents who Jackson hand picked. That’s why the ‘he never abused Macaulay culkin’ line is so ridiculous. Wow really he never abused the most famous child in the world with famously difficult parents and his own private security?! No shit.

And this is why I can’t listen to songs with lyrics like:

Ah, your butt is mine, gon' tell you right, ah…
Gonna hurt your mind, don't shoot to kill
(Bad)

He came into the apartment
He left the bloodstains on the carpet
(Smooth Criminal)

localnotail · 13/09/2026 16:56

MonteStory · 13/09/2026 16:44

He’s dead. The two men in Finding Nederland weren’t able to tell their stories until after he died. Very common in survivors of abuse.

Yes, but look at how it all fired up with Saville? Why not MJ?

CakesForAll · 13/09/2026 17:00

Whoachino · 12/09/2026 20:26

I'm glad he hasn't been cancelled. Nobody should be.

Why should "nobody" be cancelled?

Aluna · 13/09/2026 17:00

localnotail · 13/09/2026 14:58

Were there not two other boys? The ones that were in a film.

Gavin's family benefited financially from MJ's money and being close to him.

Well that’s what they thought at the time, but how much did they actually benefit in the long run?

Gavin had a brother called Star who also testified.

Do you mean Robson and Safechuck?

localnotail · 13/09/2026 17:01

Aluna · 13/09/2026 16:56

And this is why I can’t listen to songs with lyrics like:

Ah, your butt is mine, gon' tell you right, ah…
Gonna hurt your mind, don't shoot to kill
(Bad)

He came into the apartment
He left the bloodstains on the carpet
(Smooth Criminal)

These both songs are based on real life stories, Bad on a private school black student murder and Smooth Criminal on 1940s gangster I htink.

Aluna · 13/09/2026 17:03

localnotail · 13/09/2026 16:56

Yes, but look at how it all fired up with Saville? Why not MJ?

Sony didn’t pay $750 million for 50% of Savile’s back catalogue.

Turned out few people liked Savile much and many people knew he was a perv.

Sakura7 · 13/09/2026 17:04

DJKATIE · 13/09/2026 16:54

I really believe he was a very sad individual who wanted to be a child and have a childhood as he was denied one, rather than seeing children in a sexual way. Despite his fame and fortune he was a very screwed up person mainly due to his cruel and abusive father. I haven't seen the film Michael yet but belive it highlights this.

Then why was it always good looking boys of a certain age, whose 'friendship' was then discarded when they got older?

Honestly, trying to excuse a grown man having children in his bed is just revolting.

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