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To call in sick?

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iminpain · 09/09/2026 07:50

I’m on my first day back at work after 10 days annual leave.

I was walking down the road this morning when I rolled my ankle and fell, I have horrific grazes on my knee and elbow, and my ankle is swelling up hugely and is painful even at rest.

AIBU to turn up, explain what’s happened and go home? When I’m cleaned up I could probably work but I’m in so much pain at the moment I feel sick, I have two fresh grazes that are about to bleed through my clothes and I don’t know whether the adrenaline carried me to the bus or if I can walk.

OP posts:
SylvanMoon · 09/09/2026 19:37

iminpain · 09/09/2026 16:49

I went to work, I’ll be going to work tomorrow as well

@iminpain I think your work "presenteeism" is misplaced here. You have an injury that can be further damaged if you don't let it heal properly. You also have an unsympathetic line manager and I would guess that your office situation is not going to provide the optimum conditions for keeping your foot raised and iced. You really do not "owe" your employers your health and despite your concern that your presence at work is absolutely necessary for the functioning of the company, I can guarantee you that it will indeed be able to go on without you. Please listen to the PP here (especially those who are health professionals) who are telling you to go to your GP and take at least this week off. I don't know how young you are, but you sound as if you think your body is invincible and will bounce right back from this. And perhaps it will. But as others have said, it may not and you may end up with years of suffering later in life because you failed to take a bit of care of what is not a major fracture, but something that can cause you distress if not healed properly.

passmeaglass · 09/09/2026 19:49

Speaking from experience be careful that you don’t try to do too much and injure your other leg over compensating. You obviously feel guilty about work, I probably would too but you need to put yourself and your recovery first so that you’re on the mend asap.

FeelingALittleWoozyHere · 09/09/2026 19:51

Gettingonabitnow · 09/09/2026 16:40

Unable to work but well enough to post about it on mumsnet 🙄 👍🏻

How on earth does an ankle injury stop someone posting on MN? What an odd post

Didimag48 · 09/09/2026 19:53

Go to A&E. You may have torn a ligament and need a splint. Retired physio here - I[ve done both of my ankles in - one had to be operated on.

JustLookingThanks · 09/09/2026 19:58

Didimag48 · 09/09/2026 19:53

Go to A&E. You may have torn a ligament and need a splint. Retired physio here - I[ve done both of my ankles in - one had to be operated on.

It's a avulsion fracture.

Redlightbulb · 09/09/2026 19:59

My sympathies to you OP. Years ago I sprained my ankle falling down the stairs at work... they sent me home straight away & my dad came to pick me up & took me to A&E. Thankfully nothing was broken but I was off work for a couple of days leading up to the weekend. It swelled up & was black & blue. I couldn't bear any weight on it & was stuck in bed. No way could I have worked for those couple of days. I had lingering pain in it for months & on and off swelling for a few years. I think once you have done something like that there will always be a weakness. Some of the nasty comments here don't realise just how painful of an injury it can be. I agree for an office job it is not something that you need to be off long term with but a few days for sure. They are probably thinking of a minor rolling of the ankle which we have all done at some point.

JustLookingThanks · 09/09/2026 19:59

You poor thing you must be in so much pain! I'd definitely have a few days at home and keep my legs up, my ankle iced and rest it. Any weight bearing will make the swelling and pain flair up. You'll be more productive at work if you're not in pain.

Thirteenblackcats · 09/09/2026 20:01

Gettingonabitnow · 09/09/2026 16:40

Unable to work but well enough to post about it on mumsnet 🙄 👍🏻

Do you not understand the post or something?

IFinishedTheBiscuits · 09/09/2026 20:06

Hoardasurass · 09/09/2026 08:00

A sprained ankle and skint knee is not a reason to skip work unless you work in a job that involves you being on your feet all day.
If you work in an office you are being absolutely ridiculous, take a couple of ibuprofen and ice your ankle at work and if needed im sure you can get a couple of plasters for your knee from the 1st aid box

Some of these comments are shocking. Did you mean a twisted ankle rather than sprained? A twisted ankle might just be quite uncomfortable for a few days.

A sprain is ligament damage, and can be as painful as a break or fracture.

NotAtMyAge · 09/09/2026 20:08

thicklysettled · 09/09/2026 15:05

Truthfully, I think you need to pull yourself together and get on with your day. Have a cup of tea and a paracetamol. And move on.

Have you ever sprained your ankle or broken a bone in your foot? I've done both at different times and they they were both very painful indeed. Paracetamol won't even touch the sides if it's a bad sprain or fracture. As for moving on, rest and elevation of the affected leg for the first 48 to 72 hours is recommended to minimise the swelling and allow healing to begin. I really hate this tendency to brush injury aside and tell people to soldier on. Do that and you risk after-effects down the line. The body is a marvellous machine and has an amazing ability to heal itself, but not if you mistreat it

ruethewhirl · 09/09/2026 20:11

Gettingonabitnow · 09/09/2026 16:40

Unable to work but well enough to post about it on mumsnet 🙄 👍🏻

Yeah, dunno about you but most people tend to type with their fingers not their feet 🙄 👍🏻👍🏻

NotAtMyAge · 09/09/2026 20:13

Gettingonabitnow · 09/09/2026 16:40

Unable to work but well enough to post about it on mumsnet 🙄 👍🏻

It's her foot that's the problem, not her hands. 🙄 What's with the lack of sympathy for a painful injury to the OP?

lazyarse123 · 09/09/2026 20:14

Allergictoironing · 09/09/2026 19:28

The typing part isn't the issue here, it's getting to and from the office. OP will need to walk to the bus stop and wait there standing. Get on the bus with no guarantee of a seat and possible lurching. Then walk from the bus to her office at the other end. Not all jobs allow working from home at will, or even have the equipment for it e.g. desktops not laptops.

Then there's the interesting question of sitting with her leg up at least part of the time as advised by the doctor. They don't mean 2 inches off the floor, they mean a significant amount and ideally at least as high as whatever you are sitting on. The less you keep your leg up, the greater the swelling and attendant pain. Plus it's unlikely her office has a decent freezer there that she can put ice packs in.

See some of the other posts above regarding the same injury taking much longer than anticipated to heal when it wasn't looked after as suggested, including some where the after effects have lasted for years.

I was replying to the arsey poster who commented op was well enough to be on mn but not to work.

NotAtMyAge · 09/09/2026 20:15

iminpain · 09/09/2026 16:49

I went to work, I’ll be going to work tomorrow as well

Having had similar injuries in the past I really don't think that's a good idea. You could end up with chronic pain if you don't give your body a chance to start healing.

LakieLady · 09/09/2026 20:15

iminpain · 09/09/2026 19:25

Thank you. I think the adrenaline has fully worn off now as I’m aching all over. My arms feel all funny and the knee with the graze is agony.

That's pretty rough.

Hopefully it won't happen to you, but I find that sprains and fractures often feel worse the next day. (I'm very accident prone, so have a lot of experience in this area!) I'm glad you went, and didn't just try and work through.

But don't be surprised if it does hurt like mad when you wake up in the morning. Do you have anyone who can fetch and carry for you at home?

And could you work from home for a few days?

ruethewhirl · 09/09/2026 20:16

SylvanMoon · 09/09/2026 19:37

@iminpain I think your work "presenteeism" is misplaced here. You have an injury that can be further damaged if you don't let it heal properly. You also have an unsympathetic line manager and I would guess that your office situation is not going to provide the optimum conditions for keeping your foot raised and iced. You really do not "owe" your employers your health and despite your concern that your presence at work is absolutely necessary for the functioning of the company, I can guarantee you that it will indeed be able to go on without you. Please listen to the PP here (especially those who are health professionals) who are telling you to go to your GP and take at least this week off. I don't know how young you are, but you sound as if you think your body is invincible and will bounce right back from this. And perhaps it will. But as others have said, it may not and you may end up with years of suffering later in life because you failed to take a bit of care of what is not a major fracture, but something that can cause you distress if not healed properly.

Couldn't agree more. Even with minor fractures you need to be careful how much stress you put on them while they're trying to heal. You sound like a conscientious employee OP, but it really wouldn't be wise to compromise healing so as not to let work down, this is definitely a time to put yourself first.

ruethewhirl · 09/09/2026 20:19

Olive123456 · 09/09/2026 19:21

Or you could go on the bus again.

What is wrong with you??

NNforthispost · 09/09/2026 20:20

iminpain · 09/09/2026 18:22

I’m not menopausal - this is a fairly common type of fracture, it’s specifically from a sprain where a small chip of bone comes off.

I had this a few years ago OP, also not given a boot, but was given crutches. I also had a d i c k manager who wouldn’t let me go to hospital so I went at 4am the next morning when it was quiet. Boss insisted I go to work after hospital and they’d given me an opiate and I was high as a kite. And drafting legal docs 😃

I didn’t take any time off work but it was a total PitA as I had to set off an hour earlier every day to get to work on time,

Be kind to yourself, ignore the a holes, elevate and look after yourself. I hope you’re feeling better soon,

PS when I changed jobs and fell on way to new job they immediately sent me to hospital in a taxi to get my foot checked. There are some good employers out there.

tartyflette · 09/09/2026 20:33

Something similar happened to me at work a few years ago. They called a cab on the company account to take me home.

It was a good workplace with decent people in charge.

Mamaof3monkeys · 09/09/2026 20:33

I had an avulsion fracture. Please do rest. I wasn't told to rest, or indeed that it was fractured. I was told it was a bad sprain. Then I went to the GP weeks later, still in pain and they told me I had an avulsion fracture. I had to go to physio and they told me it had been more damaged as it had been treated incorrectly. Nearly 2 years later and I still have problems with it. Rest up x

catherinewales · 09/09/2026 20:35

I hope you’re ok op. You didn’t get much sympathy on this post. I’m glad you got seen quickly. Keep on top of the painkillers don’t let them wear off and be in pain. Hope it heals quickly for you xx

Allergictoironing · 09/09/2026 20:37

lazyarse123 · 09/09/2026 20:14

I was replying to the arsey poster who commented op was well enough to be on mn but not to work.

Apologies, I thought you were agreeing with that poster & all the others who were suggesting as it's "only" a sprain the OP should go into work!

Jaichangecentfoisdenom · 09/09/2026 20:40

SylvanMoon · 09/09/2026 19:37

@iminpain I think your work "presenteeism" is misplaced here. You have an injury that can be further damaged if you don't let it heal properly. You also have an unsympathetic line manager and I would guess that your office situation is not going to provide the optimum conditions for keeping your foot raised and iced. You really do not "owe" your employers your health and despite your concern that your presence at work is absolutely necessary for the functioning of the company, I can guarantee you that it will indeed be able to go on without you. Please listen to the PP here (especially those who are health professionals) who are telling you to go to your GP and take at least this week off. I don't know how young you are, but you sound as if you think your body is invincible and will bounce right back from this. And perhaps it will. But as others have said, it may not and you may end up with years of suffering later in life because you failed to take a bit of care of what is not a major fracture, but something that can cause you distress if not healed properly.

@iminpain - please listen to @SylvanMoon. She's right. And at least get a proper boot for you to walk on, if you insist on walking. Much better than crutches at the moment. I fractured a small bone in my foot 3 years ago now, with a fall, and despite 6 weeks' rest without putting much weight on it and using a boot even whilst it was elevated, and for months afterward, I still have trouble with it now. I can't help but think that you've been poorly advised by the health professionals you saw, and I would suggest a visit to your GP for clarification (and a sick note).

PS5Gamer · 09/09/2026 20:43

Why go into work? You are replaceable, you won’t be any better thought of! You could end up doing even more damage to your ankle/foot.

DidYeAye16 · 09/09/2026 20:50

Fuck work op, if you're Monday to Friday then take Thursday and Friday off and rest. You could have a crap nights sleep when you're hurting everywhere. Theyl cope without you for two days.