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To ask if my boyfriend doing this last night is ‘normal’?

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Helenaslide · 08/09/2026 15:45

I was having a bath last night and he came in and used the loo (no.2). I shouted and asked what he was playing at and he said he has always done this with partners and vice versa as have plenty of people he knows. He stayed for a couple of minutes until he had finished and left laughing.

For context - together 4 months, he was staying at mine last night.

He has said he won’t do it again but I feel a bit humiliated by it tbh.

OP posts:
Imdunfer · 14/09/2026 08:14

Plmnki · 13/09/2026 21:13

Massive drip feed that you have THREE LOOS. come on.

this is beyond ridiculous.

how could you not know this is bizarre / grotesque?

more to the point, why hasn’t mumsnet deleted yet another weirdo OP?

for crying out loud.

I think you've probably lived a narrow life if you don't think this thread could be true.

Insecurepapa · 18/09/2026 12:21

Male or female, you poo in an empty bathroom! Period!
Totally disgusting and disrespectful to do this when your partner is having a bath/shower.

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