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Masked men at Dover - KKK vibes

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MumofCandR · Yesterday 11:53

They are utter cowards and hypocritical. The same ilk will state they're against the burkha and protests by environmental groups etc. but are happy to mask their faces in 'protest' the reality is they're just nasty specimens of humanity, full of people with self righteous white supremacy tendencies. AIBU.

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5128gap · Today 10:38

Paganpentacle · Today 10:34

How would you know?

Oh please. Don't tell me you're one of these who tries to gaslight women into thinking we can't tell a male person from a female person? Height, gait, build, stance, mannerisms, voice. I can pretty reliably identify a man when I encounter one. Can't you?

Switchnow · Today 10:49

Paganpentacle · Today 10:35

I've no idea who is underneath a burka - have you?

I know it’s not a man with a history of domestic violence.

LuckyHazelFox · Today 10:51

Switchnow · Today 10:49

I know it’s not a man with a history of domestic violence.

Or a man with a history of forbidding his wife to have her face uncovered?

Paganpentacle · Today 10:51

5128gap · Today 10:38

Oh please. Don't tell me you're one of these who tries to gaslight women into thinking we can't tell a male person from a female person? Height, gait, build, stance, mannerisms, voice. I can pretty reliably identify a man when I encounter one. Can't you?

In trousers and hoodie - yes.
Head to toe in loose flowing material with full face covering?
Much more difficult.
There have been cases of men wearing burkas as a disguise to commit crimes.
Google it.

Paganpentacle · Today 10:51

Switchnow · Today 10:49

I know it’s not a man with a history of domestic violence.

How?

Switchnow · Today 10:56

WinterGold · Today 10:32

No, but when a face is completely covered by a veil or mesh screen, it limits non-verbal feedback, which can create uncertainty or discomfort in interpersonal interactions. We live in a society where public interactions depend on mutual visibility. Human communication relies heavily on reading facial expressions, eye contact, and subtle emotional signals.

You'll probably find if you visit certain Muslim countries, they would find the fact you are displaying flesh as equally as disturbing and unsettling. The difference is in those countries you would be expected to conform, whereas in the West, there is a choice.

Acceptance isn’t always a one way street.

It can feel difficult, and for people who have limited interaction with women in burqa I get it, it can feel odd. No doubt it is a limiting factor to integration in the lives of those women. However, if you ever do interact with them you will find its perfectly possible to talk to them and understand what they’re saying. I prefer to see people faces but I respect their choice not to show them. It’s entirely different to covering one’s face to hide one’s identity and the people who’ve compared them know that.

Our custom is to allow people to practise their religion freely. We allow women to cover their hair or face because of that custom. It would be a requirement for women to cover hair in some countries because they don’t allow freedom of expression. That’s not their custom. I don’t wish to change England for a country that doesn’t tolerate legally acceptable difference, whether that’s preventing or forcing people from observing their own custom.

Switchnow · Today 10:56

Paganpentacle · Today 10:51

How?

Because I can tell the difference between a man and a woman. Can’t you?

Switchnow · Today 10:58

Paganpentacle · Today 10:51

In trousers and hoodie - yes.
Head to toe in loose flowing material with full face covering?
Much more difficult.
There have been cases of men wearing burkas as a disguise to commit crimes.
Google it.

There have been - and from the images, they’re very obviously men. Burqa is pretty uncommon in England, more women (and still
hardly any) wear niqab and you can very easily see they are women.

Switchnow · Today 10:59

LuckyHazelFox · Today 10:51

Or a man with a history of forbidding his wife to have her face uncovered?

I thought you were opposed to stereotyping?

5128gap · Today 11:03

Paganpentacle · Today 10:51

In trousers and hoodie - yes.
Head to toe in loose flowing material with full face covering?
Much more difficult.
There have been cases of men wearing burkas as a disguise to commit crimes.
Google it.

So you are trying to tell me I can't tell a male person from a female person then? That I can't tell from height, build, gait, mannerism and voice? That when men try to conceal the fact they are male, women know no different?
Like I said, get away with your gaslighting. It doesn't wash.

LuckyHazelFox · Today 11:04

Switchnow · Today 10:59

I thought you were opposed to stereotyping?

You did exactly the same. Your attempts still aren't working. As I said, keep trying.

Paganpentacle · Today 11:04

Switchnow · Today 10:58

There have been - and from the images, they’re very obviously men. Burqa is pretty uncommon in England, more women (and still
hardly any) wear niqab and you can very easily see they are women.

Its not uncommon in England in some parts of the country.
If it OK for Muslim women to completely obscure their identity I find it hypocritical to be outraged when other people feel the need do it.
And they do need to.. because protesting this issue gets you labelled as fascist /far right and loses you your job.

Paganpentacle · Today 11:05

5128gap · Today 11:03

So you are trying to tell me I can't tell a male person from a female person then? That I can't tell from height, build, gait, mannerism and voice? That when men try to conceal the fact they are male, women know no different?
Like I said, get away with your gaslighting. It doesn't wash.

If you're happy with the burka I can't see why you're not OK with other people completely obscuring their identify.
Hypocritical much.

Paganpentacle · Today 11:06

Switchnow · Today 10:56

Because I can tell the difference between a man and a woman. Can’t you?

Steady on... the TRA's will be coming for you.

scorpiogirly · Today 11:11

Just stop. Unless you're in favour of inviting unfathomable numbers of migrant men into our country to continue assaulting our women, children and men. You're not, are you?

5128gap · Today 11:14

Paganpentacle · Today 11:05

If you're happy with the burka I can't see why you're not OK with other people completely obscuring their identify.
Hypocritical much.

I've made no comment on my feelings about the burqa either way, so don't attribute views to me just because you're more comfortable arguing with those than what I've actually said.
I said I have never met a fighting age man in a burqa. You have tried to persuade me that I wouldn't realise if the women I have encountered in burqa were in fact men. Which is telling me that I can't correctly identify the sex of other people if they are wearing certain clothing and I can't see their face.
I'm telling you, yes I can. You are telling me I can't. You are gaslighting me. It won't work.

5128gap · Today 11:16

Paganpentacle · Today 11:06

Steady on... the TRA's will be coming for you.

I assumed from your ridiculous assertion that I can't tell a man from a woman unless I can see their face they were already here. Seems the extremists are morphing into each other.

Switchnow · Today 11:19

Paganpentacle · Today 11:06

Steady on... the TRA's will be coming for you.

So you accept that it’s perfectly possible to distinguish a man from a woman, regardless of clothing.

Switchnow · Today 11:21

LuckyHazelFox · Today 11:04

You did exactly the same. Your attempts still aren't working. As I said, keep trying.

No, I didn’t but you’re too high on your horse to have a normal conversation, it’s all point scoring and personal jibes with you. Tedious.

Switchnow · Today 11:26

Paganpentacle · Today 11:04

Its not uncommon in England in some parts of the country.
If it OK for Muslim women to completely obscure their identity I find it hypocritical to be outraged when other people feel the need do it.
And they do need to.. because protesting this issue gets you labelled as fascist /far right and loses you your job.

Sure it’s more common in places where Muslim women live. It’s still uncommon amongst the 60m people who live here, 95% of whom are not Muslim, and even among those who are.

Muslim women are not hiding their identity by covering their faces. Just as a courier delivering parcels or a person wearing a filtration mask on a building site isn’t hiding his identity. But I’d agree that if several hundred women in burqa, or cycling snoods, or any other kind of face covering were massed and stopped traffic at a port that should be stopped, because in that context it’s intimidating.

Protesting this issue didn’t get any of them arrested, did it? Just like saying Christmas or hanging a St George flag or buying Easter eggs doesn’t get anyone arrested.

Paganpentacle · Today 11:27

Switchnow · Today 11:19

So you accept that it’s perfectly possible to distinguish a man from a woman, regardless of clothing.

Not always, no.
Do you accept that too?

Paganpentacle · Today 11:29

5128gap · Today 11:16

I assumed from your ridiculous assertion that I can't tell a man from a woman unless I can see their face they were already here. Seems the extremists are morphing into each other.

You're brilliant... no need for biosecurity checks or facial recognition when you're around.

LuckyHazelFox · Today 11:32

Switchnow · Today 11:21

No, I didn’t but you’re too high on your horse to have a normal conversation, it’s all point scoring and personal jibes with you. Tedious.

No, it's called debating; the whole point of being here. I've not made one personal jibe but happy to be corrected.

Switchnow · Today 11:35

LuckyHazelFox · Today 11:32

No, it's called debating; the whole point of being here. I've not made one personal jibe but happy to be corrected.

You accused me of stereotyping, sharing sensitive info, making things up and various other things. I’ve asked numerous times for you to indicate where, but you’ve ignored. If you have a genuine interest in disagreeing and debating you explain your position, not fling mud.

5128gap · Today 11:36

Paganpentacle · Today 11:29

You're brilliant... no need for biosecurity checks or facial recognition when you're around.

You argument is that one needs to be 'brilliant' to correctly sex another human being without being able to see their face? That is your argument?