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AIBU to be shocked at the violence towards women at the Reform conference?

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ILikeDinosaurs · Yesterday 11:03

Another video showing the violence against a woman at the Reform conference. They are actually PULLING A WOMAN DOWN ON THE FLOOR and KICKING HER.

A man in a suit and a man with a lanyard both kicking her. The man with the walking stick in the other videos (identified as Stephen Cooling) looks like he's pulling her down and possibly kicking her too. Women are just watching with no care for the victim.

This is Fascism. Given Nigel's horrifyingly GLEEFUL response to this, this violence will become the norm under Reform.

How can people defend this?

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Dc6q8iAuUzi/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&stkn=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Mods please don't take this down, this mustn't be allowed to be ignored.

Joshua ABD on Instagram: "I’ve now seen a third clip from Reform’s conference. It appears to show another so-called “patriot” kicking a female heckler while she is already on the floor. Three clips. Different protesters. Different attendees. Repeated...

1,718 likes, 438 comments - joshualabd on September 5, 2026: "I’ve now seen a third clip from Reform’s conference. It appears to show another so-called “patriot” kicking a female heckler while she is already on the floor. Three clips. Different prote...

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Dc6q8iAuUzi?stkn=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D

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iwishitwouldstartraining · Yesterday 18:55

Apparently Reform claimed that Farage's speech was delayed because 'counter terrorism police' wouldn't let him on stage.

Yet people also seem to be saying that there was little security at the venue and the audience had no other option but to take things into their own hands.

These stories down't tie up.

UnaGatita · Yesterday 19:05

kirinm · Yesterday 18:30

You need to get a grip.

What do I need to grip of?

I have not commented on the violence shown in the clips.

CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 19:07

iwishitwouldstartraining · Yesterday 18:55

Apparently Reform claimed that Farage's speech was delayed because 'counter terrorism police' wouldn't let him on stage.

Yet people also seem to be saying that there was little security at the venue and the audience had no other option but to take things into their own hands.

These stories down't tie up.

West Midlands Police denied this.

iwishitwouldstartraining · Yesterday 19:20

CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 19:07

West Midlands Police denied this.

Schrodinger's security precautions.

Simultaneously so strict that Farage couldn't attend the Clacton count (again some dispute over what the police advised), but so loose that anyone could turn up with anything at the conference, and the only thing that prevented a major incident was the intervention of audience members with a stick.

NotAtMyAge · Yesterday 19:36

5128gap · Yesterday 18:54

Unfortunately, male violence enacted against a woman they percieve to be misbehaving no longer shocks me. We know from the stats that there are far too many men who believe the use of physical force against a woman is justified if she 'deserves it'.
What has shocked me are the posters on here who have fallen so readily into victim blaming, become apologists for MVAWG because they share the politics of the assailants.

I agree that the vast majority of violence against women is by men, but in this case members of both sexes assaulted the protesters. The video clips show that quite clearly.

YourWatermelonship · Yesterday 19:53

iwishitwouldstartraining · Yesterday 19:20

Schrodinger's security precautions.

Simultaneously so strict that Farage couldn't attend the Clacton count (again some dispute over what the police advised), but so loose that anyone could turn up with anything at the conference, and the only thing that prevented a major incident was the intervention of audience members with a stick.

Wait... it couldn't be that Farage... was lying? Could it?

Surely not...

kirinm · Yesterday 19:56

Imagine being so cultish that you can’t even call out violence against a woman. As a woman. Disgraceful.

5128gap · Yesterday 20:31

NotAtMyAge · Yesterday 19:36

I agree that the vast majority of violence against women is by men, but in this case members of both sexes assaulted the protesters. The video clips show that quite clearly.

I'm not sure that changes my point? The perpetrators of violence against a woman are being excused and the victim blamed because some posters prefer the politics of the perpetrators to the victim's. This is a very different approach to attacks on women than we usually see on this forum and it surprises me. The fact that some of the assailants were women doesn't make it less surprising.

TheCompactPussycat · Yesterday 21:00

HollyhocksandPeons · Yesterday 14:35

You are trying to talk sense - it won't be supported on this woke thread. People just want to bash Reform and Restore, no particular reason is needed. And virtue-signal as well.

I'm afraid that in this specific post, @LuckyHazelFox isn't talking much sense at all. Thought control is not a defining tenet of fascist ideology and to claim that someone must be a fascist because they want to control thought (a somewhat dubious analysis of the protester's intentions anyway), suggests either a lazy and inaccurate insult or a complete misunderstanding of political ideologies. Either way, what LHF is talking here is non-"sense". It's interesting that this is the post you chose to highlight.

NotAtMyAge · Yesterday 21:02

5128gap · Yesterday 20:31

I'm not sure that changes my point? The perpetrators of violence against a woman are being excused and the victim blamed because some posters prefer the politics of the perpetrators to the victim's. This is a very different approach to attacks on women than we usually see on this forum and it surprises me. The fact that some of the assailants were women doesn't make it less surprising.

I don't think it changes it. I simply felt that only mentioning violence by men overlooked the fact that in this case women were among the assailants and were openly cheering on their actions. That actually shocked me.

RedToothBrush · Yesterday 21:03

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · Yesterday 11:08

And Nigel was on the stage absolutely loving it…

So in addition to not being able to hear, he is unable to see?

Great qualities in an MP.

5128gap · Yesterday 21:04

NotAtMyAge · Yesterday 21:02

I don't think it changes it. I simply felt that only mentioning violence by men overlooked the fact that in this case women were among the assailants and were openly cheering on their actions. That actually shocked me.

Ah, I see what you mean.

Auspiciousminds · Yesterday 21:40

SocksAndTheCity · Yesterday 16:38

I agree with Robert Jenrick's response

There's a sentence you don't hear every day 🤣

Thankfully.

BlueSherbet · Yesterday 22:10

This thread seems to have been overtaken by myths, this sometimes happens on mumsnet.

I said that the only unsettling thimg I saw was a woman being held by her hair.

I asked for evidence of people being punched, kicked and hit with crutches. None has been provided. Some pictures were posted, but they did not show any of these alleged attacks.

Someone linked a BBC article which claimed the police are looking into an incident involving a woman being grabbed by the hair.

The Police are seemingly not looking for anyone over incidents involving being punched, kicked or hit with crutches.

In the article, Zia Yusuf was asked if he condones punching people and he said no. Thats the only reference to punching.

I am 100% open to revising my opinion if any evidence of these things is provided. But currently it seems we are getting all het up over myths or exaggerations.

Crutches indicate that someone who is injured or disabled was present. I think its remarkable that someone of this description is being painted as an violent assailant. Really?

Imagine the hecklers were Reform supporters. Then, the story would be flipped to "Reform thugs attack disabled pensioners". Its all so predictable.

I dont condone violence against anyone, and I dont think anyone on the thread has condoned violence. Rather, a lot of people have commented on the obvious point that if you going into someone's special event and try hard to get up their nose, you likely wont get a very friendly response. Especially in a climate where a Reform politician has recently been murdered.

Clavinova · Yesterday 22:29

IdaGlossop · Yesterday 16:25

Only because I expect some Reform supporters to be violent have I voted that you are being unreasonable. Farage enables such behaviour when he walks around surrounded by shaven-headed heavies, a display we do not see with any other party leader. It rather undermines Sarah Pochin's fringe event on reducing violence against women and girls when there is unseemly punching and kicking taking place on their own conference floor.

he walks around surrounded by shaven-headed heavies

To be fair, Andy Burnham's two protection officers here are both shaven-headed;

https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/andy-burnham-escorted-run-diplomatic-34279693

Andy Burnham escorted on run by Diplomatic Protection officers

The security detail also included two following vehicles and an armed response vehicle

https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/andy-burnham-escorted-run-diplomatic-34279693

IdaGlossop · Yesterday 22:44

Clavinova · Yesterday 22:29

he walks around surrounded by shaven-headed heavies

To be fair, Andy Burnham's two protection officers here are both shaven-headed;

https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/andy-burnham-escorted-run-diplomatic-34279693

Shaven-headed, true, but a different vibe. Burnham's look like their main purpose is to protect Burnham. Farage's look like they're hoping to be able to punch people in the face at the slightest provocation eg a mutinous milkshake flung at Farage's face.

Typo

5128gap · Yesterday 23:32

BlueSherbet · Yesterday 22:10

This thread seems to have been overtaken by myths, this sometimes happens on mumsnet.

I said that the only unsettling thimg I saw was a woman being held by her hair.

I asked for evidence of people being punched, kicked and hit with crutches. None has been provided. Some pictures were posted, but they did not show any of these alleged attacks.

Someone linked a BBC article which claimed the police are looking into an incident involving a woman being grabbed by the hair.

The Police are seemingly not looking for anyone over incidents involving being punched, kicked or hit with crutches.

In the article, Zia Yusuf was asked if he condones punching people and he said no. Thats the only reference to punching.

I am 100% open to revising my opinion if any evidence of these things is provided. But currently it seems we are getting all het up over myths or exaggerations.

Crutches indicate that someone who is injured or disabled was present. I think its remarkable that someone of this description is being painted as an violent assailant. Really?

Imagine the hecklers were Reform supporters. Then, the story would be flipped to "Reform thugs attack disabled pensioners". Its all so predictable.

I dont condone violence against anyone, and I dont think anyone on the thread has condoned violence. Rather, a lot of people have commented on the obvious point that if you going into someone's special event and try hard to get up their nose, you likely wont get a very friendly response. Especially in a climate where a Reform politician has recently been murdered.

Its perfectly clear from the video the woman is being attacked by multiple people and that the way she was treated was violent.
I'm not sure we need to fuss about crutches versus walking sticks, whether a person with a mobility aid is capable of assault or argue that she wasn't kicked when we can all see her being held by her hair.
Reform supporters will twitter about the details to minimise and justify turning a blind eye to the violence. Other people will see the violence and judge for themselves.
That's the tricky thing with video footage. You can't persuade people it's not that bad when they've seen it themselves.

HRTQueen · Yesterday 23:40

I’m not surprised at all

Farage is stirring up and lot of angry and hate and this is the result of that

BackToLurk · Yesterday 23:43

iwishitwouldstartraining · Yesterday 19:20

Schrodinger's security precautions.

Simultaneously so strict that Farage couldn't attend the Clacton count (again some dispute over what the police advised), but so loose that anyone could turn up with anything at the conference, and the only thing that prevented a major incident was the intervention of audience members with a stick.

Could he find someone to give him money ‘for security’?

NobodyAsked · Yesterday 23:56

I don’t understand why BBC hasn’t reported on this or the C4 takedown. I need our 70+ year old relatives to see this footage! The cheek of it was, some Reform campaigners came to our door today and I actually felt scared of them. It’s awful.

SevenYellowHammers · Today 00:18

YourWatermelonship · Yesterday 19:53

Wait... it couldn't be that Farage... was lying? Could it?

Surely not...

Like the time someone tried to kill him by loosening his wheel nuts in France? Another of his fantasies.

SevenYellowHammers · Today 00:27

NobodyAsked · Yesterday 23:56

I don’t understand why BBC hasn’t reported on this or the C4 takedown. I need our 70+ year old relatives to see this footage! The cheek of it was, some Reform campaigners came to our door today and I actually felt scared of them. It’s awful.

The BBC did: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cwyznj31l3no

Reform UK leader Nigel Farage delivers his keynote speech on the second day of Reform UK Annual Conference at NEC in Birmingham, Britain, 04 September 2026.

Police appeal to woman after Reform UK audience incident

A video circulating online has shown a protester's head being pulled during the Birmingham event.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cwyznj31l3no

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