AIBU to say 6:30am isn’t the middle of the night?

Why for goodness sake?
Just why?
Honest to goodness, do you really give that much of a damn that you look into other poster's previous posts?

I'm sorry but I find that to be a ridiculous thing to do. I wouldn't dream of it.
In any case, so what. Is nobody allowed an opinion on any new situation because of other things?
I find that to be ludicrous.

It's not a court of law. It's an Internet website. Yes, certain rules must be followed. I get that and I try to obey them.
I can't imagine myself giving as much of a toss about other people's posts that I'd trawl their history, though.

But you do you.

Last word though…

Imagine thinking a 4 year old child hearing his father tell his mother to fuck off, because he wanted a glass of milk!

Honestly the way some raise their children.

You know that is a fair comment.
Can't argue with that.

Yes. It's acceptable because nobody's a Saint 100% of the time. People are flawed.
If this was a pattern of behaviour it would be different but it is not.

What more do you want me to say?

Suddenly bow down to your greater wisdom?

I won't so for the love of whatever, please stop replying to me.

It's weird in my opinion to look at another poster's history.
Insulting too. Oh you can't have an opinion on anything because of X, y, z.

I don't even know what the heck's she's on about.

But it’s acceptable to tell your partner to fuck off in front of your child, because it’s all about tone! Your values are seriously skewed!

I rest my case…

I think if you come on a post where a new mum is struggling with a DH who is behaving badly and declare that she is the one who has a problem then it’s not unreasonable for a poster to point out that you’re position is unusual due to your own relationship issues.

The fact that you’re fixated on the OP being in the wrong and arguing with everyone who is giving sensible advice is odd

@Pinkchickenwine you have no idea how I parent.
Sorry, I forgot to say this in my previous reply.
So no personal attacks, OK. They're not allowed.

Yeah. I can justify his actions because to my mind it's no big deal.
What more do you want me to say?

People bicker. So what?

Insulting me won't change that.
And if you want me to stop replying to you stop replying to me.

I'm not going to change my mind.

If you want to express outrage, express it to the OP.

Not that I'm suggesting you do that at all, absolutely not, however, expressing outrage at another poster over their take on a situation is pointless.

I'm not ever going to agree with you so just agree to disagree and leave it be.

i rest my case….🤣🤣🤣

You’ve agreed that you may well tell your partner to fuck oof in front of children, you’ve says it was acceptable to choose to deny a glass of milk instead of water, why punish an unwell 4 year old!

It’s about tone? So a 4 year old going to school and saying fuck off is fine if his tone is ok?

Your parenting is very seriously off, if you can in anyway justify this man’s actions.

Hopefully you’ll realise that and stop accepting and giving out this type of behaviour, because unless you yourself act like this, I cannot understand you saying it’s acceptable.

Yes, we know OP had forgiven her DH, long may that not last and she’s expects and gets better treatment, or leaves him.

It really is that you must have the last word.

Oh do calm down.

Oh my gosh.

No she hasn't.

Seriously this is ridiculous.

The OP has imo quite correctly clearly ignored the advice given by most on this thread.

I've not 'hijacked' anything.
That's a ridiculous comment.

I think this is a great site but a lot of fun that is poked at it does come from people shouting 'ltb' over the slightest issue. Like this one here.

It’s almost lunch time in our house 😂

Telling you to fuck off and refusing an unwell toddler milk isn’t ok but sounds like you’re sorting things out.

This has been said by several posters

In my opinion you’re seriously over invested in this thread and determined to have the last word!

You’re an embarrassment!

I know the DH and OP have made it up, you’re like a stuck bloody record!

Go and have a lie down!

It is not my parenting style, no.

It might be others. A child not getting the drink it wants at the exact time it wants it is not the end of the world.

The dh did not actively stop the OP from getting a drink of milk, did he?
Like he absolutely forbade it.
Now that would be cause for concern. Yes I see that it would be.

In my opinion, the whole incident is a storm in a teacup.

The OP and her dh have made it up now.

Obviously people can continue to post but there's no point arguing with me about it.
I'm not the OP.

I'm not advocating arguing with the OP at all but surely if you are going to argue with anyone it should be her, not me.

I think that it's good that she had ignored what I consider to be the more over the top reactions on this thread.

6.30 am is very early. But a lot of kids do wake up at this unearthly hour time. You need to take turns getting up.

@Morethanalover you've hijacked a thread from a woman asking for advice and support for some pathetic attempt to have the last word and creating arguments that simply didn't need to be there.

This is the reason people take the piss out of Mumsnet. What an embarrassment.

Why bother trying to get them 'back to sleep' when it's a normal time to get up. Why cant he have milk when he wants it.