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AIBU to think if we need to politely ask men not to rape women (or men), then we don't want such people in the UK? PART 2

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CoventryCity · 24/08/2026 11:09

'Don't rape, sexually assault or make kissing noises' at people, asylum seekers warned in guidance about living in UK

UK arrivals have been told to treat women equally, not sexually assault partners or have sex with children in a new Home Office pamphlet. As well as the guidebook, a series of posters have also been designed by the government.'

https://news.sky.com/story/asylum-seekers-warned-not-to-make-kissing-sounds-at-people-in-new-guidance-about-living-in-uk-13574744

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smallglassbottle · 26/08/2026 11:18

The end result is total demographic change, which they appear to want. The UK will cease to exist in any meaningful way. We've seen what the islamists do to historic monuments, libraries, places of learning. They have no regard for the environment, wildlife or sites of special scientific interest. This will get a lot worse.

I wonder if, at some point, the security services will just be instructed not to look for, or foil, any further islamist plots. The Soviets knew what it felt like to fear their governments. I wonder how long the government can keep pretending they represent us for. The Fabian logo is literally a wolf in sheep's clothing.

GunnelVallquist · 26/08/2026 11:08

The thing that gets me is that surely people over here who read and see the news would have known for a while what went on in my home country, in Germany (the Cologne incident all the way back in 2015)…but yet they don’t stop and think ‘Hang on, do we really want this here?’

No, despite being a few years behind and having the benefit of knowing what’s coming, they fully embrace it.

Shouting down anyone who dares to point out that it might not be such a great idea.

Why? What do they gain?

And especially if they’re women.

GunnelVallquist · 26/08/2026 11:04

BubbleAndLeek · 26/08/2026 11:03

Men are the problem.....but men from nations where the culture treats women like dogshit aren't?

It would seem that way.

Baffling.

Or just stupid?

BubbleAndLeek · 26/08/2026 11:03

Men are the problem.....but men from nations where the culture treats women like dogshit aren't?

GunnelVallquist · 26/08/2026 11:01

Did anyone hear about the protests in Scotland? (I’m sure it was Glasgow)

I saw part of it on the news yesterday.

5MinuteArgument · 26/08/2026 10:56

I do wonder where we will be in 20 years time. As other European countries get tougher, eg banning face coverings or cousin marriage and some elect far right parties, we are likely to become Jihadi Central.

They will all head here, to soft touch Britain where they can practice extremism and prey upon the British people, enabled by the useful idiots in our government and institutions.

GunnelVallquist · 26/08/2026 10:51

EasternStandard · 26/08/2026 10:49

Yes politicians, the media and all you list have done a very good job at convincing women not to mind or care and put safety last.

I mean sod that, I’m so glad these threads are not what they used to be. A couple of years ago to very recently you’d be hounded off with racism accusations etc

I don’t buy we can’t have a civilised society with new laws around this. We absolutely can, one that safeguards women and girls first.

I wonder what’s going to happen at the next General Election.

A lot of damage could still be caused over the next three years which is a scary thought.

EasternStandard · 26/08/2026 10:49

5MinuteArgument · 26/08/2026 10:45

The rot has set in very deep. Most politicians, media, academia, NHS, the criminal justice system, the civil service etc are all of a mindset that all immigration is good, national borders are bad, all men are the same and the UK needs to accept more asylum seekers.

Yes politicians, the media and all you list have done a very good job at convincing women not to mind or care and put safety last.

I mean sod that, I’m so glad these threads are not what they used to be. A couple of years ago to very recently you’d be hounded off with racism accusations etc

I don’t buy we can’t have a civilised society with new laws around this. We absolutely can, one that safeguards women and girls first.

GunnelVallquist · 26/08/2026 10:48

NancyThompson · 26/08/2026 10:46

Yes, the whole of Kempton is pretty much the Gay Village.

Thanks.

I don’t know Brighton at all, but I was sure I’d heard/ read something along those lines.

GunnelVallquist · 26/08/2026 10:47

5MinuteArgument · 26/08/2026 10:45

The rot has set in very deep. Most politicians, media, academia, NHS, the criminal justice system, the civil service etc are all of a mindset that all immigration is good, national borders are bad, all men are the same and the UK needs to accept more asylum seekers.

I bet the same can’t be said about the police though.

NancyThompson · 26/08/2026 10:46

GunnelVallquist · 26/08/2026 10:43

Doesn’t Brighton also have a sizeable ‘gay scene’ (apologies, trying to word it correctly)?

Yes, the whole of Kempton is pretty much the Gay Village.

5MinuteArgument · 26/08/2026 10:45

The rot has set in very deep. Most politicians, media, academia, NHS, the criminal justice system, the civil service etc are all of a mindset that all immigration is good, national borders are bad, all men are the same and the UK needs to accept more asylum seekers.

NancyThompson · 26/08/2026 10:45

Nuthatch26 · 26/08/2026 10:27

Yes I think you're right.
Am I right in thinking that this is not the first time a sexual assault has happened in the water too? I can't remember if the woman who was raped in the water was also in Brighton?

That one was Bournemouth, which has also had several incidents.

GunnelVallquist · 26/08/2026 10:43

Doesn’t Brighton also have a sizeable ‘gay scene’ (apologies, trying to word it correctly)?

GunnelVallquist · 26/08/2026 10:42

EasternStandard · 26/08/2026 10:40

There was a thread on here rejoicing the ‘anti far right’ crowd turned up recently, so I’m not sure. They’re still pushing for more.

I don’t get it.

I really don’t. Why?

EasternStandard · 26/08/2026 10:40

5MinuteArgument · 26/08/2026 10:38

Yes, I wonder if it will make some of the no-borders refugees-welcome brigade think again. Brighton is a very 'progressive' city. Are they starting to wake up and think 'oh shit'?

There was a thread on here rejoicing the ‘anti far right’ crowd turned up recently, so I’m not sure. They’re still pushing for more.

5MinuteArgument · 26/08/2026 10:38

Nuthatch26 · 26/08/2026 10:21

What the fuck is going on in Brighton? There seems to be so much of this happening there.

Yes, I wonder if it will make some of the no-borders refugees-welcome brigade think again. Brighton is a very 'progressive' city. Are they starting to wake up and think 'oh shit'?

GunnelVallquist · 26/08/2026 10:31

BubbleAndLeek · 26/08/2026 10:28

😂

You have to laugh don’t you?

Otherwise you’d scream.

Nuthatch26 · 26/08/2026 10:31

GunnelVallquist · 26/08/2026 10:29

They are dangerous.

I know Polanski is an idiot but I still think the party is dangerous.

So true. The current version of the Greens make my skin crawl.

GunnelVallquist · 26/08/2026 10:29

EasternStandard · 26/08/2026 10:26

There are posters who are more outraged that it’s in the headlines. Watch out for the Greens they’d probably suppress that.

They are dangerous.

I know Polanski is an idiot but I still think the party is dangerous.

Nuthatch26 · 26/08/2026 10:28

EasternStandard · 26/08/2026 10:26

There are posters who are more outraged that it’s in the headlines. Watch out for the Greens they’d probably suppress that.

Yes its all Reform propaganda 🙄

BubbleAndLeek · 26/08/2026 10:28

GunnelVallquist · 26/08/2026 10:28

Yes.

Followed by ‘I will cross the street to avoid white men but I am not scared of asylum seekers’.

😂

GunnelVallquist · 26/08/2026 10:28

BubbleAndLeek · 26/08/2026 10:24

Someone will respond "but a white man assaulted me"

Yes.

Followed by ‘I will cross the street to avoid white men but I am not scared of asylum seekers’.

Nuthatch26 · 26/08/2026 10:27

NancyThompson · 26/08/2026 10:25

It seems to have become really bad now. I don't even think the men are resident there, it just seems to be a draw to visit for a bit of sea air and sexual assault.

Yes I think you're right.
Am I right in thinking that this is not the first time a sexual assault has happened in the water too? I can't remember if the woman who was raped in the water was also in Brighton?

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