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To think that this was unacceptable from solicitors

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princessposy · 18/08/2026 20:09

DH doesn’t think this is a hugely big deal but I am really irritated by it.

I am selling a property. Estate agents recommended a solicitor so got a quote, paid them, sent some paperwork off then heard nothing for a few weeks. Probably should have chased it but there has been an awful lot on.

It transpires the solicitors have been sending forms and so on to an incorrect email address. It’s just my name at gmail dot com but my name is similar to a more common one. So as well as not getting the emails, they’ve been going to someone with a similar name to mine.

The solicitors didn’t seem bothered at all and just forwarded the emails to the correct email address.

AIBU to think that’s not acceptable? Or am I overreacting?

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independentfriend · 19/08/2026 18:17

With conveyancing either pick a firm where you have a personal recommendation or pick one that is convenient for you to visit in person. Proximity of the solicitor to the property or estate agent isn't important (unless you're buying in Scotland/ Northern Ireland where you need somebody who works in those areas where procedures aren't the same as in England & Wales).

Most solicitors are competent working electronically but the ability to go and see them helps if something isn't quite right.

I'm a non-practising solicitor at the moment in a completely different field with an England wide practice.

Solicitors are collectively terrible at taking proportionate action in response to errors. We under/over react. Yes they should apologise. I don't think any real harm has been done (you're not fleeing a stalker /abusive ex and you're not an MP or otherwise well known, so it's annoying and careless and shouldn't have happened but doesn't pose a risk to your safety or a financial penalty). They should be thinking about a procedure for sending one email saying not very much and getting a response to it before sending more detailed info and /or asking you to email them / not taking email addresses over the phone (to reduce the risk of typos) etc.

Coldcabbage · 19/08/2026 16:33

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MrsCarson · 19/08/2026 16:32

My sister was the recipient of emails like this. First was a house sale, she did reply to them and said check your email address and call your client for correct email.
Then came a solicitor letter for an arrest and court details. She replied again, and told them you're contacting wrong person. She's ended up changing her email so it's no longer her name and .gmail Hopefully this will stop her getting them again.

ginasevern · 19/08/2026 14:31

@princessposy They've breached GDPR. Firstly write to them and ask for an audit of your case. So detailing what specific data was leaked to the other "Mrs Smith", what steps they have taken to recall and contain the data and how they are going to deal with similar errors in future. Tell them that if you don't get a satisfactory reply you'll report them to the Solicitors Regulatory Authority (SRA). You could also push for compensation. Although you've suffered no material loss, it has caused you emotional distress.

Coldcabbage · 19/08/2026 14:04

How do you know that the mistaken email is actually a “real” email address?

OnGoldenPond · 19/08/2026 11:24

SaltyandSweet · 19/08/2026 08:08

You can report them to the Solicitors' Regulation Authority to be investigated for breach of client confidentiality ... though I would remove my business from them first!

You would need to go through the firm’s own complaints procedure first. Only if you have exhausted that procedure and not had a satisfactory outcome can you take it to the SRA. The complaints procedure should be outlined in the letter of engagement the firm should have sent you before they started work.

MalcomVexx · 19/08/2026 11:20

I’d be emailing them complaining and pointing out if their attention to detail is so shit they can’t write an email address that is literally the name of their client, how the fuck can you expect them to ensure all the details of the sale are accurate. Add to that sending details of the sale to someone else or ignoring a failed to deliver message. How are you meant to know that they sent you something you didn’t receive and why didn’t they call you if they weren’t getting a response? Sounds fairly shoddy.

WeddingDressguest · 19/08/2026 11:17

LakieLady · 19/08/2026 10:59

I'd have thought that the lack of any response might have made them think that something may be amiss, tbh.

Nope. Clients ignore emails all the time. Then, that sort to the first to complain they haven't heard from us quickly enough when they finally reply to us

tokennamechange · 19/08/2026 11:06

BoarBrush · 18/08/2026 21:52

Public sector but relying on Google for confidential emails. Behave.

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Wtf are you on?

Its not like OP can use her work email to send personal stuff, that would be deeply inappropriate.

Public sector doesnt equal "work for MI5" we use gmail, vodafone and tesco like everyone else 😄

What super special secure email account do you use to send all your emails?

There are some posters on here who are either just trolling or just bonkers....

LakieLady · 19/08/2026 10:59

iveseenthefilms · 19/08/2026 08:49

YABU - you haven’t bothered to chase once, you presumably gave your email address across expecting an email and didn’t bother to chase.

People make mistakes. Given they didn’t hear from you pointing out that you weren’t getting emails, how were they meant to know?

I'd have thought that the lack of any response might have made them think that something may be amiss, tbh.

LakieLady · 19/08/2026 10:57

7238SM · 18/08/2026 20:22

I would never use a solicitor, plumber, gardener etc recommended by the EA for a start. Surely they will be taking their own cut from the arrangement and if not, I still would always go with personal recommendations.

Do the emails contain confidential data or blank forms to complete?

I worked as an estate agent for a few years in the early 80s.

Every firm I worked for had at least a couple of firms of solicitors that they would recommend to clients. None of them took an actual "cut".

However, every one of those solicitors would recommend that agent for anyone who had to sell a property, eg in probate cases and divorces. Funny, that...

OnGoldenPond · 19/08/2026 10:46

Didn’t your buyer chase you about the lack of progress with the sale?

princessposy · 19/08/2026 10:14

WeddingDressguest · 19/08/2026 09:28

Mistakes happen.

It won't have been without consequences at their end.They'll have to fill in a risk management report at their firm and make a GDPR report.

The firm will take it very seriously and they will do something, but they won't necessarily tell you what that something is.

Also, why didn't you chase them? It's your purchase.

I’m selling - it isn’t actually my purchase. I have explained why: I thought I’d filled in everything I’d needed to fill in and didn’t think I needed to ring them to check they weren’t sending emails I didn’t know they were sending.

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Collaborate · 19/08/2026 10:00

That constitutes a data breach and they are obliged to report it to the ICO. If they haven't done so then you can report it yourself.

WeddingDressguest · 19/08/2026 09:28

Innerearitch · 18/08/2026 20:11

Probably should have chased it but there has been an awful lot on.

yup.

Weeks have passed and you haven’t enquired how your house sale is developing with your solicitor?

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Mistakes happen.

It won't have been without consequences at their end.They'll have to fill in a risk management report at their firm and make a GDPR report.

The firm will take it very seriously and they will do something, but they won't necessarily tell you what that something is.

Also, why didn't you chase them? It's your purchase.

listitorchuckit · 19/08/2026 09:26

wherearemypeople · 19/08/2026 07:53

If they are making that kind of mistake make sure you read the paperwork you sign before signing - it's amazing how often names are wrong on documentation that then creates more hassle to sort out later on.

Very true, and yet again minimised rather than apologised for in my case.

iamnotalemon · 19/08/2026 09:20

I’ve changed solicitors before due to their lack of attention to detail. If they can’t get my name right, I don’t trust them to deal with my affairs correctly.

princessposy · 19/08/2026 09:13

@iveseenthefilms i didn’t ’give my email address expecting to receive an email.’ I filled in a long form with lots of information on it about both me and the property and amongst hundreds of other pieces of information (such as how many light switches are in the property!) my email address was there.

Sorry you went through that @FortnamsTea Flowers

Thanks all. I don’t doubt I should have chased them before now but honestly assumed they had the necessary info to be getting on with things at their end.

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Kimmers4334 · 19/08/2026 09:08

An apology to acknowledge their mistake would be the normal and professional thing to do. Even if the docs weren’t confidential, they’re still pretty important and the other person could’ve replied saying anything and they’d have thought it was you. Buying and selling takes ages so I would be annoyed at the delay. If they don’t pay attention to details, didn’t think it was weird that you weren’t replying, and weren’t bothered about their mistake then I would not have a huge amount of faith in them

iveseenthefilms · 19/08/2026 08:49

YABU - you haven’t bothered to chase once, you presumably gave your email address across expecting an email and didn’t bother to chase.

People make mistakes. Given they didn’t hear from you pointing out that you weren’t getting emails, how were they meant to know?

FortnamsTea · 19/08/2026 08:49

Sorry to vent OP. Yes, it's both frustrating & affects confidence in them going forward that they've not apologised & reassured you they're on the ball.
Best of luck with it x

Wingingit73 · 19/08/2026 08:48

Its a breach of gdlr. Send them an email asking what their policy is in such an instance. Send it to the head partner in the practice.

FortnamsTea · 19/08/2026 08:46

Mumtotornadoes · 18/08/2026 20:39

You have to be on top of solicitors constantly. The best thing to do is just get in the mindset that you're just paying for their signature and do everything else yourself. They really don't give a damn at all. It makes no difference to them.

Indeed. I was Divorcing. Abusive exH. Agreed house would be transferred to my sole name. They sent him papers to sign transferring it to his sole name. I became aware (he turned up at my door saying I was a 'mad bitch'). They then did the same thing, 2 weeks later & to top it off, accidentally copied me in to an Internal email saying: 'has she stopped complaining yet?'. Bloody cowboys.

Missscentsation · 19/08/2026 08:39

I would feel the same, I take my data privacy seriously, as should they. You could
out in an official complaint. You would then likely get the response you wanted and they will better understand data security is important to customers.

princessposy · 19/08/2026 08:11

SaltyandSweet · 19/08/2026 08:08

You can report them to the Solicitors' Regulation Authority to be investigated for breach of client confidentiality ... though I would remove my business from them first!

This is it; I don’t think I can face starting the process again - or afford to lose the £250 I paid!

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