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Kids in Adult pools at hotel resorts

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GaaNeen · 17/08/2026 13:34

Why, why why do people do this ?
hotels with kids pools and adult only pools -
and the fuckers put their babies / toddlers / kids in the adult pool …

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damemaggiescurledupperlip · 18/08/2026 15:48

And invalidating their insurances

damemaggiescurledupperlip · 18/08/2026 15:48

A quick google suggests that adult and child pools have to be risk-evaluated in completely different ways in Ibiza/Spain. Depth, water re-circulation, rake, fencing - all different requirements.

They should be keeping a Plan de Autocontrol setting all this down. So if they are allowing kids into a pool without a fence and gates, and deeper than 60cm for under- 6yolds, they would seem to be breaking regulations if they are risk-evaluating and recording the adult pool as … an adult pool

ladyb2gw · 18/08/2026 08:33

WhatAMarvelousTune · 18/08/2026 08:21

Yes, the wording “adult pool to relax in” notably does not say “adult only”. I wonder if it’s a fudge, they’re calling it an adult pool but they simply mean it’s deeper and doesn’t have little kid “stuff” (mini slides, fountains etc) rather than that children are actually not allowed. Kind of like saying “a toddler playground and an older children’s playground” but no one thinks someone will come round telling a 4 year old to get off the big slide.
Would be shitty of them if they’ve advertised it like that though.

This is very possible. While looking for hotels earlier this year we noticed this subtle difference in wording. It’s quite misleading

WhatAMarvelousTune · 18/08/2026 08:21

3teens2cats · 18/08/2026 08:00

Is there signage to say its adult only? Could it be that different tour operators market it as a 'quiet pool' or 'relaxation pool'? I'm clutching at straws here....

Yes, the wording “adult pool to relax in” notably does not say “adult only”. I wonder if it’s a fudge, they’re calling it an adult pool but they simply mean it’s deeper and doesn’t have little kid “stuff” (mini slides, fountains etc) rather than that children are actually not allowed. Kind of like saying “a toddler playground and an older children’s playground” but no one thinks someone will come round telling a 4 year old to get off the big slide.
Would be shitty of them if they’ve advertised it like that though.

PollyBell · 18/08/2026 08:06

tellmesomethingtrue · 18/08/2026 01:52

Well, it’s the school holidays so…..?

What has that got to do with it? Do parents lose the ability to parent in holidays?

3teens2cats · 18/08/2026 08:00

Is there signage to say its adult only? Could it be that different tour operators market it as a 'quiet pool' or 'relaxation pool'? I'm clutching at straws here....

ilovesooty · 18/08/2026 07:44

They should be providing a facility as advertised.

Moonnstarz · 18/08/2026 07:14

tellmesomethingtrue · 18/08/2026 01:52

Well, it’s the school holidays so…..?

That's even more of a reason for the adult pool to remain adults only! I thought that was the whole purpose of a lot of resorts and they use it as a selling point - offering kids clubs and then adult only facilities.

Lavendersong · 18/08/2026 02:29

Tell them you want a refund if they don’t do anything about it plus negative reviews on Tripadvisor warning others

Teeheehee1579 · 18/08/2026 02:22

tellmesomethingtrue · 18/08/2026 01:52

Well, it’s the school holidays so…..?

So? There are separate pools for the kids. How entitled to think just because it’s the holidays you are entitled to ignore any rules. We’ve just been to a hotel (US) with an adults pool
and a large kids pool. Jacuzzi over 16 only. All clearly marked, was sitting in the jacuzzi when a selfish sod let her two kids (I’d say under 5) with their inflatable ball into the jacuzzi. Splashing went right over my book. I pointed out the sign and she huffed but did get out. They just hope no one will say anything/are selfish pricks and don’t care. I’d def be asking for a duty manager.

GrumpyPanda · 18/08/2026 02:21

tellmesomethingtrue · 18/08/2026 01:52

Well, it’s the school holidays so…..?

And your point is....?

tellmesomethingtrue · 18/08/2026 01:52

Well, it’s the school holidays so…..?

GaaNeen · 17/08/2026 22:30

Cheers for the support and advise -
I’m on it now with complaint and review

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Shatenoeuf · 17/08/2026 22:15

GaaNeen · 17/08/2026 14:48

Ibiza
spoke to reception staff - not interested -

Post a review online saying no adult only pool

You'll find they swiftly sort it

Shatenoeuf · 17/08/2026 22:13

PinkyFlamingo · 17/08/2026 13:40

Are you sure they are adult only pools though? I've seen separate kids pools but I've never seen an adult only pool. Either way you just tell the staff surely.

This. We went to a hotel with a shallow kids pool (like 0.6 or 0.7m), and a bigger pool. A french lady went and whinged about kids in the bigger pool and was told its not adult only!

Bananacrepewithnuts · 17/08/2026 22:12

GaaNeen · 17/08/2026 13:53

The hotel proudly boasts on its online details blah blah blah …. Two family pools and an adult pool for relaxing ….

relaxing next to dive bomb Charlie and screaming Evie and baby Peter in his very heavy looking nappy …. My arse …

Yeah that would get on my tits.
Try again with reception or take it to management if still no joy.

Show them the wording on the website and ask them to show you where the adults oy pool is!
X

Trallers · 17/08/2026 22:07

Veilsofmorning · 17/08/2026 22:04

There’s always the online reviews! Just say what you’ve told us - I would certainly thank you for the heads up

Absolutely this. Write a review stating you're staying there right now, what happened and list the staff who aren't interested. Say if you're an adult hoping to relax then find another hotel as this one has kids running riot.

damemaggiescurledupperlip · 17/08/2026 22:07

Surely the lifeguard ratio needs to be higher for a pool with kids in? They may be invalidating their insurance or clearance or whatever

Veilsofmorning · 17/08/2026 22:04

GaaNeen · 17/08/2026 13:57

I’ve told the staff - they say the families are probably there to relax !
I’ve given Paddington bear hard stares To the offending dick heads
when I got knocked on head by a noodle I said to the parent - this is an adult pool -
blank / empty stare in response - no intelligent life could be detected
the dad looks like Vinnie Jones -
I think I’ll accept defeat

There’s always the online reviews! Just say what you’ve told us - I would certainly thank you for the heads up

ERthree · 17/08/2026 21:49

PinkyFlamingo · 17/08/2026 13:40

Are you sure they are adult only pools though? I've seen separate kids pools but I've never seen an adult only pool. Either way you just tell the staff surely.

Both hotels i have stayed in this summer have had adult only pools and the one i am heading to soon is adult only.

dh280125 · 17/08/2026 21:44

GaaNeen · 17/08/2026 13:34

Why, why why do people do this ?
hotels with kids pools and adult only pools -
and the fuckers put their babies / toddlers / kids in the adult pool …

Tell staff. Be clear you expect them to sort it out. If they don’t the hotel will have a manager on duty. Tell them you expect clearer signs and enforcement.

BerryTwister · 17/08/2026 16:06

GaaNeen · 17/08/2026 14:48

Ibiza
spoke to reception staff - not interested -

@GaaNeen get it in writing that it’s not an issue they’re prepared to address. Then you can claim a partial refund.

EarthlyNightshade · 17/08/2026 15:10

I have kids and still love an adult only pool.
Resort I was in a few years ago, had six pools and one was adult only.
Kids were too young to be unsupervised but DH and I took a couple of turns of hanging with the kids while the other slipped off to the adult pool.
If it's a thing, it should be a thing.

I would complain that this was one of the main reasons you booked the resort and ask them to take the adult pool off their details if they don't provide one.

Amsylou · 17/08/2026 15:04

Pre kids I used to go to adults only hotels for this exact reason. Much harder to invade the pool if no kids checked in. Highly recommend this next time. Otherwise, what can you do unless staff enforce it?

jeaux90 · 17/08/2026 14:56

GaaNeen · 17/08/2026 14:48

Ibiza
spoke to reception staff - not interested -

I would ask to speak to one of the on duty managers. Not the reception staff.