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AIBU to think some weekly shops contain far too many snacks?and this is not grocery shopping!?

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Upsetbetty · 17/08/2026 10:59

AIBU to think that the amount of processed snacks people buy in their grocery shopping is getting ridiculous? Watching people share their grocery shop on instagram etc and I can’t see what meals they can even make as it’s all snacks?? And then they say oh grocery shopping is so expensive!Do people really do this? I don’t buy any biscuits, fizzy drinks (18-20 pack slabs) or crisps as a part of me weekly family shop. I buy the meat, veg and pantry items. That is my weekly shopping. I buy one packet of oat bars for my DCs lunches. If my dc want a snack they have fruit, yogurt, homemade flapjacks etc.

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QuizNight · 21/08/2026 20:55

I buy crisps and fizzy drinks every week and biscuits from time to time. I’ve been 9st - 9.5st at 5ft 7in for pretty much forever so I’m not going to stress over a packet of crisps and a glass of diet Dr Pepper. It’s far healthier to not have an exclusionary approach to any food. My weekly shop is around £75 for 2 adults.

Blued0t · 21/08/2026 20:48

I agree. My daughter moans that we’re an “ ingredients family” 🤔her words for having meals that are cooked from scratch which is bonkers. It’s eating real food!!!The Waitrose delivery guy joked today that my delivery was the healthiest he’d delivered all day. It had a sack of maltesers and a bottle of wine sticking out the top! I have a Riverford box and cook round that. A lot of veggie food which cuts down cost, huge jars of homemade granola, home made packed lunches etc.We have a tub of ice cream or chocolate at the weekend but just don’t buy or need crappy ultra processed high plastic packaging expensive snacks or foods the rest of the week. There is zero excuse not to cook from scratch with the internet. My husband has just fixed two toilets replacing flush mechanisms via YouTube. If he can do that anybody can follow a recipes.

Marroon · 21/08/2026 20:38

BleedinglyObvious · 21/08/2026 20:33

Biscuits, potato-based snacks, sweets, cakes, noodles etc are 'empty calories'.

They might be empty calories for you, sweets and sugar is a dietary essential for me to treat dangerous hypos. And no you can’t just use fruit.

You sound incredibly naive.

OonaStubbs · 21/08/2026 20:37

People should not be "enjoying themselves" by eating unhealthy snacks. We need to reprogram people's brains to remove the pleasure they get from junk food.

BleedinglyObvious · 21/08/2026 20:33

Marroon · 21/08/2026 20:26

God forbid someone enjoys themselves.

What are you classing as no nutritional content?

Biscuits, potato-based snacks, sweets, cakes, noodles etc are 'empty calories'.

BleedinglyObvious · 21/08/2026 20:30

@Lilyhatesjaz , but the snacks now would have been meals then.
I don't think people see an apple as a snack, but they would a pile of 'pringles'.

Portion sizes were smaller in the 1970s.

Marroon · 21/08/2026 20:26

OonaStubbs · 21/08/2026 19:29

Food needs to be much more tightly regulated and foodstuffs with little to no nutritional content should be banned outright.

God forbid someone enjoys themselves.

What are you classing as no nutritional content?

CandiedPrincess · 21/08/2026 20:25

OonaStubbs · 21/08/2026 19:29

Food needs to be much more tightly regulated and foodstuffs with little to no nutritional content should be banned outright.

Why? Genuinely, why?

I enjoy them as part of a well-balanced diet. I eat super healthy through the week, at weekends I chill the fuck out. As likelihood is something else will kill me first.

Why should anything be banned? People need self control. They shouldn’t have to be babysat through life.

OonaStubbs · 21/08/2026 19:29

Food needs to be much more tightly regulated and foodstuffs with little to no nutritional content should be banned outright.

MidnightMeltdown · 21/08/2026 18:49

Lilyhatesjaz · 19/08/2026 20:33

I don't think that obesity is all down to snacking. I was brought up in the 60s and 70s and I have a theory that the real reason many more people are overweight today than in the past is that we are the first generation to actually be able to eat food that we enjoy the taste of rather than what was available.
I remember roast and veg Sunday, cold meat and fried potatoes Tuesday and Wednesday, the same meat minced up as cottage pie Thursdays, may be some stew or beans on toast.
It was all the same all boring and I ate the minimum.
These days we have access to food from all around the world, we eat things we actually like so we eat more and get bigger.

Well not if you’re snacking on apples and nuts.

But UPFs are deliberately manufactured to make you crave and buy more.

HauntedBungalow · 21/08/2026 14:25

Upsetbetty · 17/08/2026 11:05

Well I rejoined instagram for content on certain dietary needs and these are popping up. There are a lot of “normal” people tbh not those in USA doing Costco hauls etc.

Normal people don't unpack their shopping on Instagram.

Put the internet down.

BleedinglyObvious · 21/08/2026 14:23

Voices: 'Ban empty calories': Readers on the UK's weight loss problem (from The Independent)

sashh · 20/08/2026 11:20

RosieHosie · 20/08/2026 09:35

I used to like that and have the cookery book, but wouldn't watch the UK version now (Gregg Wallace 😐)

I know what you mean, but he was replaced with Jordan Banjo.

RosieHosie · 20/08/2026 09:35

sashh · 20/08/2026 09:13

Have a look at 'eat well for less' I'm currently working through the NZ version. There are a lot of reasons people buy snacks, and they are not all straight forward.

I used to like that and have the cookery book, but wouldn't watch the UK version now (Gregg Wallace 😐)

sashh · 20/08/2026 09:13

Have a look at 'eat well for less' I'm currently working through the NZ version. There are a lot of reasons people buy snacks, and they are not all straight forward.

Lilyhatesjaz · 20/08/2026 08:23

I grow blueberries in large pots, they are really easy to grow but they do need eracacious soil which you can get from the garden centre and to be watered with only rainwater.
You would need to be in an area with acidic soil to grow them straight in the ground.

Redty10 · 20/08/2026 08:08

CandiedPrincess · 19/08/2026 15:37

How old do I need to be 🤔

Some of us don’t see anything wrong with snacks or treats or whatever you want to call them - as part of a balanced, varied diet. I don’t believe in restricting any food groups.

Most of this stuff is not “food”, just a mix of flavouring, colouring and preservatives! Have a read of Ultra processed people it is a real eye opener. The food industry and big corporations are playing us and dont give a crap about the nations future health, only interested in profit which they make by the millions by creating more and more addictive “treats” that we consume and give our kids and so the cycle goes on…

RosieHosie · 20/08/2026 00:38

Calliopespa · 20/08/2026 00:30

Do you have a good courgette fritter recipe!? 😂

And courgette cake is actually moist and delicious.

I've never had them before, but these sound delicious so I might give them a go
www.tamingtwins.com/courgette-fritters-recipe/

Ponderingwindow · 20/08/2026 00:36

I think your feed would benefit from some of the content creators making recipes for disabled and chronically ill people. You might gain a bit of understanding of how people can struggle to cook healthy food from scratch.

Calliopespa · 20/08/2026 00:30

RosieHosie · 20/08/2026 00:17

I would have to ask DH as he is the gardener 😁 We do have quite a few bushes, but have had blueberries every day for weeks, but think they are coming to the end now.

The thing with growing your own is that you have to eat what you've got, which can mean a lot of dinners with courgettes if you get a glut! (Although lemon courgette cake is 😋).

I forgot strawberries and raspberries.

Do you have a good courgette fritter recipe!? 😂

And courgette cake is actually moist and delicious.

Calliopespa · 20/08/2026 00:29

RosieHosie · 20/08/2026 00:17

I would have to ask DH as he is the gardener 😁 We do have quite a few bushes, but have had blueberries every day for weeks, but think they are coming to the end now.

The thing with growing your own is that you have to eat what you've got, which can mean a lot of dinners with courgettes if you get a glut! (Although lemon courgette cake is 😋).

I forgot strawberries and raspberries.

There is something quite nice about the slight lack of control in that though - kind of turning yourself over to Nature and being at one with the seasons.

It contrasts hugely with force-ripened strawberries at Christmas!

RosieHosie · 20/08/2026 00:17

Calliopespa · 20/08/2026 00:11

Blueberries is interesting! Do the bushes take long to get to size?

Blueberries are quite expensive so that is a useful bush.

I would have to ask DH as he is the gardener 😁 We do have quite a few bushes, but have had blueberries every day for weeks, but think they are coming to the end now.

The thing with growing your own is that you have to eat what you've got, which can mean a lot of dinners with courgettes if you get a glut! (Although lemon courgette cake is 😋).

I forgot strawberries and raspberries.

Calliopespa · 20/08/2026 00:11

RosieHosie · 20/08/2026 00:07

We (DH) grow lots in our garden (tomatoes, peppers, chillies, courgette, dwarf beans, runner beans, cucumber, blueberries, salads/spinach, beetroot) which us why there's not so much veg in our virtual trolley at the moment. So if the Sainsbury's delivery person wants to judge, crack on.

Blueberries is interesting! Do the bushes take long to get to size?

Blueberries are quite expensive so that is a useful bush.

RosieHosie · 20/08/2026 00:07

Calliopespa · 19/08/2026 23:10

Not sure I'd be up for killing my own animals, 😂but vegetable growing is a really great suggestion where people have the space.

My grandparents did it, as did many of their friends, and I think it was seen as more normal, though I do know quite a few people in cities who make use of allotments and they really enjoy it. They also swap produce, which I think is really nice.

We (DH) grow lots in our garden (tomatoes, peppers, chillies, courgette, dwarf beans, runner beans, cucumber, blueberries, salads/spinach, beetroot) which us why there's not so much veg in our virtual trolley at the moment. So if the Sainsbury's delivery person wants to judge, crack on.

Calliopespa · 19/08/2026 23:18

DeftGoldHedgehog · 19/08/2026 23:15

I do grow some fruit and veg but just as a nice add on, not to sustain us. The local veg box is pretty good though.

What do you grow?