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AIBU to think some weekly shops contain far too many snacks?and this is not grocery shopping!?

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Upsetbetty · 17/08/2026 10:59

AIBU to think that the amount of processed snacks people buy in their grocery shopping is getting ridiculous? Watching people share their grocery shop on instagram etc and I can’t see what meals they can even make as it’s all snacks?? And then they say oh grocery shopping is so expensive!Do people really do this? I don’t buy any biscuits, fizzy drinks (18-20 pack slabs) or crisps as a part of me weekly family shop. I buy the meat, veg and pantry items. That is my weekly shopping. I buy one packet of oat bars for my DCs lunches. If my dc want a snack they have fruit, yogurt, homemade flapjacks etc.

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Jerrybalanitis · 22/08/2026 16:50

Blued0t · 22/08/2026 12:10

Wow who knew eating real food and being aware of alarm from medical professionals re ultra processed food was a MN thing.

Crack on. Your health, your choice. I do hope though that taxes on UP foods go up hugely to cover the impact on the NHS.

One of the reasons I am healthy is that I dont use the NHS. I have access to decent healthcare and if I fancy a treat, I have one. I certainly don't depend on a totally inept government and health system to instruct me. I don't drink, i am 8 stone and fit. Crisps are just crisps, not smack.

2026letsgo · 22/08/2026 16:40

Marroon · 21/08/2026 21:24

The joke is on you because chocolate is terrible for hypos and no it’s not “once in a while” is absolutely like buying coke or juice as an every day weekly shop item 🙄

You’ve missed the point in your defensiveness.
Buying sweets/sugar every week because you are Type 1 is not the issue. Buying and eating lots of junk food in addition to that is.
No one looking at 7 bags of sweets amongst a load of vegetables, meat/ fish /tofu is going to think - that person needs less junk. 7 bags of sweets amongst crisps, ready meals, processed meat products and little fresh stuff might be different

zingally · 22/08/2026 16:12

I love watching the grocery videos! I find it fascinating to see what different people chose to buy! Sometimes I get ideas for new things/meals to try, and sometimes I think "what the actual heck is going on?!"

BleedinglyObvious · 22/08/2026 15:28

Calliopespa · 21/08/2026 21:27

Tut tut @BleedinglyObvious! What were you doing with a ginger beer!😱

I wonder if shredded wheat would have have the same restorative effect!

@Calliopespa ,this reply says a lot more about you. It was posted to try to wind me up, and the contents of the second paragraph are ridiculous. Would you really try to feed someone with dangerously low blood sugar a dry no added sugar cereal ? Given that you didn't know that shredded wheat didn't mean Shreddies, then you probably might.

You've also accused me of "being quick in judging the habits of ...those with disability.". Given that I have members of my close family with disabilities, you have completely twisted my posts to suit your agenda.

As I pp, I have close family with disabilities. One, a wheelchair user, lives independently and eats very healthily. One, limited by arthritic hands does eat UPF, mainly because he/she cannot prepare fresh food and although has a lot of help, is limited by what products can be prepared. You even managed to twist that.

a@SquirrelGG ,not everything but the main supermarkets only sell a few items loose. Depending on where you live, there may be greengrocers who sell fruit and veg individually by weight.
The ones near me are either in the town centre or very close to the supermarket.

Laaaadidaaa · 22/08/2026 15:16

God these posts are tedious.

One packet of oat bars for my children's lunches 😂

mulberrymilk · 22/08/2026 15:11

CandiedPrincess · 22/08/2026 09:42

Exactly!

Yes, yes, bad for our health but newsflash - nobody gets out of this alive. On my death bed I’m pretty sure I won’t be thinking “man, I wish I ate less crisps”.

You won't need to wait until your death bed. People who eat diets high in UPFs end up in their 50s and 60s with metabolic disease, heart disease, cancers, cognitive decline, type 2 diabetes and all its complications, early onset dementias, Alzheimer's, etc etc, and you can spend what remains of your life suffering from those and other debilitating health problems - aka, all the diseases of ageing that we now know are in fact diseases of diet and lifestyle.

Redty10 · 22/08/2026 13:47

Jerrybalanitis · 22/08/2026 10:56

It gives me pleasure to report i am sitting in the car park in the ME, engine running eating a sandwich of cheese and onion walkers and marksmanship sowncer thick cut white sliced, drinking a coffee and puffing on my ecigaterette. I feel joyful that I am not in the lentil weaving clique. I could not be more un mumsnet if I tried 😅

Reminds me of the 60s and 70s when smokers tried to defend cigarettes!

Blued0t · 22/08/2026 12:10

Jerrybalanitis · 22/08/2026 10:56

It gives me pleasure to report i am sitting in the car park in the ME, engine running eating a sandwich of cheese and onion walkers and marksmanship sowncer thick cut white sliced, drinking a coffee and puffing on my ecigaterette. I feel joyful that I am not in the lentil weaving clique. I could not be more un mumsnet if I tried 😅

Wow who knew eating real food and being aware of alarm from medical professionals re ultra processed food was a MN thing.

Crack on. Your health, your choice. I do hope though that taxes on UP foods go up hugely to cover the impact on the NHS.

BleedinglyObvious · 22/08/2026 11:11

Jerrybalanitis · 22/08/2026 10:56

It gives me pleasure to report i am sitting in the car park in the ME, engine running eating a sandwich of cheese and onion walkers and marksmanship sowncer thick cut white sliced, drinking a coffee and puffing on my ecigaterette. I feel joyful that I am not in the lentil weaving clique. I could not be more un mumsnet if I tried 😅

And you're proud of that?

Jerrybalanitis · 22/08/2026 10:56

It gives me pleasure to report i am sitting in the car park in the ME, engine running eating a sandwich of cheese and onion walkers and marksmanship sowncer thick cut white sliced, drinking a coffee and puffing on my ecigaterette. I feel joyful that I am not in the lentil weaving clique. I could not be more un mumsnet if I tried 😅

Redty10 · 22/08/2026 10:48

CandiedPrincess · 22/08/2026 09:42

Exactly!

Yes, yes, bad for our health but newsflash - nobody gets out of this alive. On my death bed I’m pretty sure I won’t be thinking “man, I wish I ate less crisps”.

No but you may be thinking how much more you could have done in your later years if you hadn’t had chronic health issues. Healthy years are what count

BleedinglyObvious · 22/08/2026 10:24

@CandiedPrincess , I doubt that those who die of old age having never had a day's illness in their lives are thinking on their deathbed 'man, I wish I'd eaten more crisps'.

Those suffering from illness caused or exacerbated by eating too many UPFs are probably cursing their poor diets.
Such illnesses include asthma, anxiety and depression, cancers, cardiovascular disorders and heart disease.

CandiedPrincess · 22/08/2026 09:42

QuizNight · 21/08/2026 20:57

They taste nice though don’t they? Not everything needs to be about nutritional content.

Exactly!

Yes, yes, bad for our health but newsflash - nobody gets out of this alive. On my death bed I’m pretty sure I won’t be thinking “man, I wish I ate less crisps”.

Redty10 · 22/08/2026 08:10

QuizNight · 21/08/2026 22:05

All of those levels are perfect too. Eating crisps doesn’t mean the rest of my diet isn’t ’real food’.

But this post isn’t just about you! Good for you if you restrict the amount of UPF but many families don’t and we are now seeing vastly overweight and unhealthy children. Type 2 diabetes which when I started working in General Practice in the early 90s was seen as a disease of the elderly but is now not uncommon in teenagers! We are also seeing a nation living with poor health from a much younger age so people may well live into their 80s but for many it is with chronic ill health for decades vastly reducing their quality of life and costing the NHS a small fortune in the process

SquirrelGG · 22/08/2026 02:03

changeme4this · 19/08/2026 00:51

Don’t they do that in the UK? It’s been 10 years since I last shopped there.

You can buy loose fruit and vege where I live. Break the bananas into a smaller size if need be.

Edited

Yes you can do that here also. Do UK supermarkets sell everything in packs? Ridiculous.

QuizNight · 21/08/2026 22:05

Blued0t · 21/08/2026 21:01

Good health is not about weight. You can be a healthy weight and have dire cholesterol, blood sugar levels and high blood pressure. Ultra processed food has been linked to bowel cancer rises in younger generations.Eating real food doesn’t mean you exclude foods.

All of those levels are perfect too. Eating crisps doesn’t mean the rest of my diet isn’t ’real food’.

BleedinglyObvious · 21/08/2026 21:40

@Calliopespa , I had it with me in case it was needed.

@Marroon , I wouldn't ban sugar either or impose a special tax on it.
I don't think sugar or salt are 'bad'.

OonaStubbs · 21/08/2026 21:34

Diabetics could just carry a packet of sugar cubes in their pocket.

Calliopespa · 21/08/2026 21:27

BleedinglyObvious · 21/08/2026 21:03

If you have a medical condition that means they are necessary for you then presumably you have been advised accordingly.

They are empty calories for most people.

I was once thanked by someone for 'saving his life' (his words) because I gave him my ginger beer when he looked like he was about to collapse. He looked in a bad way and the sugary drink hit the spot.

Tut tut @BleedinglyObvious! What were you doing with a ginger beer!😱

I wonder if shredded wheat would have have the same restorative effect!

OonaStubbs · 21/08/2026 21:25

Marroon · 21/08/2026 20:38

They might be empty calories for you, sweets and sugar is a dietary essential for me to treat dangerous hypos. And no you can’t just use fruit.

You sound incredibly naive.

I wouldn't ban sugar.

Marroon · 21/08/2026 21:24

2026letsgo · 21/08/2026 21:19

Having chocolate because you are hypo or the odd Coke because you have a stomach upset or a take away is “once in a while”.

Thats not the same as buying soda drinks as part of a weekly shop, chocolate as a regular meal deal and MacDonalds every week because it’s quick. Which many people I know do all three every week.

The joke is on you because chocolate is terrible for hypos and no it’s not “once in a while” is absolutely like buying coke or juice as an every day weekly shop item 🙄

2026letsgo · 21/08/2026 21:19

Having chocolate because you are hypo or the odd Coke because you have a stomach upset or a take away is “once in a while”.

Thats not the same as buying soda drinks as part of a weekly shop, chocolate as a regular meal deal and MacDonalds every week because it’s quick. Which many people I know do all three every week.

BleedinglyObvious · 21/08/2026 21:03

Marroon · 21/08/2026 20:38

They might be empty calories for you, sweets and sugar is a dietary essential for me to treat dangerous hypos. And no you can’t just use fruit.

You sound incredibly naive.

If you have a medical condition that means they are necessary for you then presumably you have been advised accordingly.

They are empty calories for most people.

I was once thanked by someone for 'saving his life' (his words) because I gave him my ginger beer when he looked like he was about to collapse. He looked in a bad way and the sugary drink hit the spot.

Blued0t · 21/08/2026 21:01

QuizNight · 21/08/2026 20:55

I buy crisps and fizzy drinks every week and biscuits from time to time. I’ve been 9st - 9.5st at 5ft 7in for pretty much forever so I’m not going to stress over a packet of crisps and a glass of diet Dr Pepper. It’s far healthier to not have an exclusionary approach to any food. My weekly shop is around £75 for 2 adults.

Good health is not about weight. You can be a healthy weight and have dire cholesterol, blood sugar levels and high blood pressure. Ultra processed food has been linked to bowel cancer rises in younger generations.Eating real food doesn’t mean you exclude foods.

QuizNight · 21/08/2026 20:57

BleedinglyObvious · 21/08/2026 20:33

Biscuits, potato-based snacks, sweets, cakes, noodles etc are 'empty calories'.

They taste nice though don’t they? Not everything needs to be about nutritional content.