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I thought we agreed BBQs were a bad idea.

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Magenta82 · 16/08/2026 17:36

DD4 is going through a bit of a deep sleeping wetting the bed phase, we were busy today so I put 2 sets of her sheets on a long eco wash and stuck them on the line when we got back.

Half an hour later the whole garden is white, crazy amounts of smoke from next door and the worst smell of ligher fluid I've ever encountered.

I'm not sure how I'm going to get the waterproof sheets dry and I'm worried the whole street is about to go up in flames!

OP posts:
YoniWheretheSunDontShine · 16/08/2026 21:00

@bananaobama we have a gas bbq I just wouldn't go near it right now even though it's on a patio.

bananaobama · 16/08/2026 20:56

summater · 16/08/2026 19:23

People have been told not to report neighbours for having bbqs as the emergency services have been inundated by nosy idiots calling 999

Feels like covid again

Olive123456 · 16/08/2026 20:53

Raptors · 16/08/2026 18:35

Not sure legally as I said just idly wondering. My argument was if the house caught alight I don't think you'd have much choice but to contact your insurance.

I think there would be a case for reckless behaviour even if it wasn't a disposable BBQ given how dry everything is at present due to the lack of rain. They could hardly argue they hadn't noticed especially with the alert we all received.

I got no alert. Not sure why though, it's a new phone so it's not like i'd got round to turning them off in settings. Are we still ok for garden fires?

bananaobama · 16/08/2026 20:52

people have bbqs at the weekends.

disposable ones in the park/on grass = dangerous

normal bbq in the garden = still as low
risk as ever . Especially if on the patio

luckylavender · 16/08/2026 20:44

Tomselleckhaskindeyes · 16/08/2026 17:45

I thought it was the disposable bbq's?

It’s not that sensible to use any BBQ currently

Goatsarebest · 16/08/2026 20:42

Pinkchickenwine · 16/08/2026 20:15

How many wild fires have been caused by a bbq in a garden I wonder?

We're in unprecedented times with regard to fire risks. What has or hasn't happened before is not relevant.

carebearhairbear · 16/08/2026 20:42

Goatsarebest · 16/08/2026 20:40

Agree. We don't need to be told everything we should or should not do. There is a risk, however small, and we've seen the consequences when it does go wrong. Cooking outside isn't such an important life event that you need to do it in the current situation. Just don't do it and then there is no risk.

It's not a bad idea as long as you risk assess appropriately and use your BBQ responsibly.

Goatsarebest · 16/08/2026 20:40

Raptors · 16/08/2026 18:12

I don't see the OP saying they are banned. I just see her sensibly saying a BBQ in this weather is a bad idea. Can't see why that's such an unreasonable statement.

Agree. We don't need to be told everything we should or should not do. There is a risk, however small, and we've seen the consequences when it does go wrong. Cooking outside isn't such an important life event that you need to do it in the current situation. Just don't do it and then there is no risk.

AndyKitten · 16/08/2026 20:34

LittleBearPad · 16/08/2026 20:17

Certain MNers are always keen to tell you a dishwasher or washing machine shouldn’t be left unattended overnight or whilst out because they can cause fires. Are they also included in your ban?

My ban?

Who do you think I am?

Andy Burnham?

summater · 16/08/2026 20:22

Topseyt123 · 16/08/2026 20:10

So can any type of cooking if you don't use common sense or you get something wrong.

Perhaps we should all stop bothering to cook because it might cause a fire.

I have a gas barbie which is on the concrete patio. It would be pretty safe as it is well away from dry grass, vegetation or the wooden sheds and fence. The main reason I am not using it at the moment is because of the extreme heat we have been having, meaning that I don't want it making me even hotter and I can't be arsed with it.

Disposable barbies were the ones specifically mentioned in the alert. They are the biggest danger because people tend to put them down directly on the tinder dry grass and then leave them/not douse them properly. That makes total sense and I believe they have been withdrawn from sale.

We haven't used our gas barbecue either because it's been to hot to stand over a hot stove in the sun, hoping to use it in the next couple of weeks as it cools down

LittleBearPad · 16/08/2026 20:17

AndyKitten · 16/08/2026 20:07

It was for any activity that might start a fire, disposable barbecues included, but not only disposables.

Certain MNers are always keen to tell you a dishwasher or washing machine shouldn’t be left unattended overnight or whilst out because they can cause fires. Are they also included in your ban?

Pinkchickenwine · 16/08/2026 20:15

Another76543 · 16/08/2026 18:54

I’m fairly sure that using a gas hob indoors is safer than using a charcoal BBQ surrounded by parched lawn at the moment. As I said, it’s about common sense.

How many wild fires have been caused by a bbq in a garden I wonder?

Shatteredallthetimelately · 16/08/2026 20:12

SomaTaim · 16/08/2026 19:34

A bbq is fine!
A disposable one on the grass is not.

Or as in our local nature park the wooden tables..

lovingthebeachlife · 16/08/2026 20:11

yes, they have been withdrawn from sale

Topseyt123 · 16/08/2026 20:10

Coconutter24 · 16/08/2026 19:22

The alert said ‘including disposable bbqs’
It said any activity that could start a fire, which any type of bbq can do

So can any type of cooking if you don't use common sense or you get something wrong.

Perhaps we should all stop bothering to cook because it might cause a fire.

I have a gas barbie which is on the concrete patio. It would be pretty safe as it is well away from dry grass, vegetation or the wooden sheds and fence. The main reason I am not using it at the moment is because of the extreme heat we have been having, meaning that I don't want it making me even hotter and I can't be arsed with it.

Disposable barbies were the ones specifically mentioned in the alert. They are the biggest danger because people tend to put them down directly on the tinder dry grass and then leave them/not douse them properly. That makes total sense and I believe they have been withdrawn from sale.

AndyKitten · 16/08/2026 20:07

It was for any activity that might start a fire, disposable barbecues included, but not only disposables.

CheeseyNacho · 16/08/2026 20:02

Another76543 · 16/08/2026 18:54

I’m fairly sure that using a gas hob indoors is safer than using a charcoal BBQ surrounded by parched lawn at the moment. As I said, it’s about common sense.

And yet, 44% of domestic fires in the UK are started by hobs…

lovingthebeachlife · 16/08/2026 20:02

Another76543 · 16/08/2026 18:45

Why are so many people saying that only disposable BBQs are banned and that it’s ok to use other things? The alert clearly says not to do anything that could cause a fire. It says “including” disposable BBQs. It doesn’t say other BBQs are fine and to go ahead.

The alert said

“Residents, landowners and visitors should not undertake any activity that could start a fire, including disposable barbecues, firepits, garden incinerators or fireworks.”

Do we really need the government to tell us what should be common sense?

If there’s loads of smoke, it suggests a charcoal bbq (from reading, gas BBQs aren’t so much of a risk, assuming sensible precautions are taken).

As a society, why are so many incapable of using common sense?

Because common sense would dictate that the alert would have included BBQs & not just disposable ones. They are ok to use if using common sense eg far from grass, fences etc.

Now obviously some won't use them sensibly

Shade17 · 16/08/2026 19:58

Another76543 · 16/08/2026 18:45

Why are so many people saying that only disposable BBQs are banned and that it’s ok to use other things? The alert clearly says not to do anything that could cause a fire. It says “including” disposable BBQs. It doesn’t say other BBQs are fine and to go ahead.

The alert said

“Residents, landowners and visitors should not undertake any activity that could start a fire, including disposable barbecues, firepits, garden incinerators or fireworks.”

Do we really need the government to tell us what should be common sense?

If there’s loads of smoke, it suggests a charcoal bbq (from reading, gas BBQs aren’t so much of a risk, assuming sensible precautions are taken).

As a society, why are so many incapable of using common sense?

This is what the actual published guidance says. Household BBQs are absolutely fine. We’ve just enjoyed one.

I thought we agreed BBQs were a bad idea.
carebearhairbear · 16/08/2026 19:50

Additup · 16/08/2026 18:21

That's nonsense. I ignored most covid advice re: one way walking systems, useless masks, only going out once a day because it was all performative rubbish, didn't report neighbours with visitors etc etc However, it's obvious that lighting a bbq in a drought is a really stupid idea - if you're in an area where it hasn't rained for almost 60 days like we are.

After seeing what happened in Stourbridge this week I'd definitely be reporting anyone lighting one simply because I dont want to risk our house burning down.

The Fire Service have specifically requested that idiots don't waste their time by reporting neighbours for having perfectly legal and safe BBQs in their garden.

summater · 16/08/2026 19:48

Its a shame that the arsonists probably won't get life sentences

Periperi2025 · 16/08/2026 19:42

SomaTaim · 16/08/2026 19:34

A bbq is fine!
A disposable one on the grass is not.

A BBQ is still a risk, and could be construed as "recklessness" in terms of arson if it goes out of control, particularly as no one can say they weren't aware of the risk.
Arson being reckless as to whether life is endangered carries a maximum life sentence.

I won't be using an form of naked flame outside until it rains significantly (and we have had some rain where I am already), not worth the risk of fire, or the risk of prison.

Periperi2025 · 16/08/2026 19:38

Until people who have 'accidently' caused wildfires due to recklessness and are charged with arson then a lot of people will keep lighting BBQs.
It will be interesting to see if the government get the court system to fast track these arson cases, like they did the rioters a few years back, to make a public example of them.

LauritaEvita · 16/08/2026 19:35

Did we? I must’ve missed the consultation.

SomaTaim · 16/08/2026 19:34

A bbq is fine!
A disposable one on the grass is not.