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I thought we agreed BBQs were a bad idea.

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Magenta82 · 16/08/2026 17:36

DD4 is going through a bit of a deep sleeping wetting the bed phase, we were busy today so I put 2 sets of her sheets on a long eco wash and stuck them on the line when we got back.

Half an hour later the whole garden is white, crazy amounts of smoke from next door and the worst smell of ligher fluid I've ever encountered.

I'm not sure how I'm going to get the waterproof sheets dry and I'm worried the whole street is about to go up in flames!

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Pinkchickenwine · 17/08/2026 14:33

ILoveAGingerCat · 16/08/2026 22:41

They need consigning to the history books. Awful things that have no place in society now. It's always people with big inflatables and huge trampolines in their garden, who sit out the front smoking pot who have barbecues. They need banning/taking off sale. Not just the disposable ones, ALL of them.

If you have a cooker/an oven you don't need a pissing barbecue!

🏅 the most ridiculous analogy of what sort of people BBQ I have ever read!!

We have fabulous BBQs, whilst owning an oven, grill, air fryer, pressure cooker, foodi, hob, rice cooker and many other things! All get used and the BBQ most on the summer.

No inflatables, trampolines of pot smoking though!

In fact we’ve got a whole outdoor kitchen, with sink (hot and cold running water) fridge (drinks), bbq and lots of work tops and an outdoor shower!

Spend the summer outside, cooking etc … love it!

Don’t worry I won’t be inviting you, I don’t think you’d fit in!

DdraigGoch · 17/08/2026 13:04

Additup · 16/08/2026 18:38

I can see a disposable bbq is more risk as they're closer to the ground but a non disposable is too much of a risk where I am imo. People having a few drinks in charge of a small fire when its not rained for weeks near my home isn't something I would like at all.

Not just closer to the ground but actually on the ground - and usually grass rather than a hard surface (because if you're going to have to sit on the floor to cook, you don't want to sit on gravel). Or some idiots put them on plastic park benches and melt them.

Whereas a proper barbecue is several feet from the ground, and usually placed on a patio or similar.

isitoverno · 17/08/2026 10:50

Raptors · 17/08/2026 07:37

I'm sure everyone who has used any kind of BBQ be it freestanding one or a disposable one would have said they were doing so sensibly until something went wrong. We've had two bin fires here recently from BBQs that have been left to cool down and not been cool enough. Both appearing to do the sensible thing but they still caused fires.

I really don't think waiting until there's been rain and everything is less dry is too much to ask.

We've also had fireworks over the weekend here.

We had fireworks in town over the weekend.

Launched from a concrete harbour wall over the sea.

People still went mental. Makes me laugh.

Jaimelefromage · 17/08/2026 08:27

ILoveAGingerCat · 16/08/2026 22:41

They need consigning to the history books. Awful things that have no place in society now. It's always people with big inflatables and huge trampolines in their garden, who sit out the front smoking pot who have barbecues. They need banning/taking off sale. Not just the disposable ones, ALL of them.

If you have a cooker/an oven you don't need a pissing barbecue!

Oh, I feel like I’m missing out! We have a Big Green Egg and use it all the time, but we have no inflatables(!), no trampoline, have never sat in our front garden and I only smoked pot once when I was 19 and it made me feel sick so I never did it again.

lifeisgoodrightnow · 17/08/2026 07:44

Backedoffhackedoff · 16/08/2026 18:15

Why is your garden white?

Fan of Vita Sackville West?

Raptors · 17/08/2026 07:37

Ladysodor · 17/08/2026 07:30

What is wrong with folk. Barbecues are perfectly safe if used sensibly.

I'm sure everyone who has used any kind of BBQ be it freestanding one or a disposable one would have said they were doing so sensibly until something went wrong. We've had two bin fires here recently from BBQs that have been left to cool down and not been cool enough. Both appearing to do the sensible thing but they still caused fires.

I really don't think waiting until there's been rain and everything is less dry is too much to ask.

We've also had fireworks over the weekend here.

Ladysodor · 17/08/2026 07:30

What is wrong with folk. Barbecues are perfectly safe if used sensibly.

Maddy70 · 17/08/2026 07:27

Only disposable BBQs are banned. Proper ones are fine

TwinklyRoseTurtle · 17/08/2026 07:24

I heard fireworks last night I couldn’t believe it

isitoverno · 17/08/2026 07:20

scalt · 17/08/2026 06:57

The Covid marshals are bored.

Yes, they needed something to occupy them

Oscillating · 17/08/2026 06:58

ILoveAGingerCat · 16/08/2026 22:41

They need consigning to the history books. Awful things that have no place in society now. It's always people with big inflatables and huge trampolines in their garden, who sit out the front smoking pot who have barbecues. They need banning/taking off sale. Not just the disposable ones, ALL of them.

If you have a cooker/an oven you don't need a pissing barbecue!

If you have a tap, you never need to buy a drink...

If you have a bed at home you never need to go on holiday....

Etc

LaLoba · 17/08/2026 06:57

ILoveAGingerCat · 16/08/2026 22:41

They need consigning to the history books. Awful things that have no place in society now. It's always people with big inflatables and huge trampolines in their garden, who sit out the front smoking pot who have barbecues. They need banning/taking off sale. Not just the disposable ones, ALL of them.

If you have a cooker/an oven you don't need a pissing barbecue!

😂😂😂
Personally I’m too hot to cook outdoors right now, but I must get shopping for my essentials for the next time the weather is pleasant enough to enjoy a barbecue. I’m pretty sure Amazon will take care of the inflatables and trampoline, but does anyone know how a middle aged woman with no connections would go about scoring some weed? Got to make sure I do it right.

scalt · 17/08/2026 06:57

The Covid marshals are bored.

UniquePinkSwan · 17/08/2026 06:36

ILoveAGingerCat · 16/08/2026 22:41

They need consigning to the history books. Awful things that have no place in society now. It's always people with big inflatables and huge trampolines in their garden, who sit out the front smoking pot who have barbecues. They need banning/taking off sale. Not just the disposable ones, ALL of them.

If you have a cooker/an oven you don't need a pissing barbecue!

Calm down Hyacinth

isitoverno · 17/08/2026 06:23

ILoveAGingerCat · 16/08/2026 22:41

They need consigning to the history books. Awful things that have no place in society now. It's always people with big inflatables and huge trampolines in their garden, who sit out the front smoking pot who have barbecues. They need banning/taking off sale. Not just the disposable ones, ALL of them.

If you have a cooker/an oven you don't need a pissing barbecue!

I think this is potentially the funniest thing I’ve ever read

maxslice · 17/08/2026 01:27

Backedoffhackedoff · 16/08/2026 18:15

Why is your garden white?

Smoke?

RubbySlockaWithACherryONtop · 16/08/2026 23:46

Magenta82 · 16/08/2026 17:36

DD4 is going through a bit of a deep sleeping wetting the bed phase, we were busy today so I put 2 sets of her sheets on a long eco wash and stuck them on the line when we got back.

Half an hour later the whole garden is white, crazy amounts of smoke from next door and the worst smell of ligher fluid I've ever encountered.

I'm not sure how I'm going to get the waterproof sheets dry and I'm worried the whole street is about to go up in flames!

Takes just a spark for it to all go up in flames...

Coconutter24 · 16/08/2026 22:47

Periperi2025 · 16/08/2026 22:40

It's about recklessness, it's not reckless to cook whilst sober in your kitchen with the tiny chance of something going wrong, it is normal human beahiour and a normal level of risk we take to live out life.

If you put the chip pan on whilst pissed, and killed the family in the flat upstairs, and somehow survived yourself, then I think a custodial sentence would be likely.

It’s incase people are careless with the disposal of them.

In the case of killing someone with a chip pan then yes you’d probably go to prison because that would be manslaughter

ILoveAGingerCat · 16/08/2026 22:41

They need consigning to the history books. Awful things that have no place in society now. It's always people with big inflatables and huge trampolines in their garden, who sit out the front smoking pot who have barbecues. They need banning/taking off sale. Not just the disposable ones, ALL of them.

If you have a cooker/an oven you don't need a pissing barbecue!

Periperi2025 · 16/08/2026 22:40

Coconutter24 · 16/08/2026 22:38

Yes a fire could start whilst you’re cooking inside but cooking outside with a flame near dry grass is obviously more of a risk isn’t it. It said any activity, yes it mentioned disposal bbqs, fire pits and a couple of other things as examples but it still means any activity with the risk.

It's about recklessness, it's not reckless to cook whilst sober in your kitchen with the tiny chance of something going wrong, it is normal human beahiour and a normal level of risk we take to live out life.

If you put the chip pan on whilst pissed, and killed the family in the flat upstairs, and somehow survived yourself, then I think a custodial sentence would be likely.

Coconutter24 · 16/08/2026 22:38

Topseyt123 · 16/08/2026 20:10

So can any type of cooking if you don't use common sense or you get something wrong.

Perhaps we should all stop bothering to cook because it might cause a fire.

I have a gas barbie which is on the concrete patio. It would be pretty safe as it is well away from dry grass, vegetation or the wooden sheds and fence. The main reason I am not using it at the moment is because of the extreme heat we have been having, meaning that I don't want it making me even hotter and I can't be arsed with it.

Disposable barbies were the ones specifically mentioned in the alert. They are the biggest danger because people tend to put them down directly on the tinder dry grass and then leave them/not douse them properly. That makes total sense and I believe they have been withdrawn from sale.

Yes a fire could start whilst you’re cooking inside but cooking outside with a flame near dry grass is obviously more of a risk isn’t it. It said any activity, yes it mentioned disposal bbqs, fire pits and a couple of other things as examples but it still means any activity with the risk.

Shatteredallthetimelately · 16/08/2026 21:54

For those that didn’t get the message.

Not sure how long it'll take for the attached photo to be approved.

I thought we agreed BBQs were a bad idea.
SeaAndSangria · 16/08/2026 21:09

Tomselleckhaskindeyes · 16/08/2026 17:45

I thought it was the disposable bbq's?

Same, I thought it was just the disposable BBQs? As far as I know you can still fire a built in one on your concrete patio 😕
(For clarity, I don't have one, just saying my understanding on the matter. We usually use disposable BBQs as not much room for a "proper" one and they're handy.)
Sad that they have to be banned in this weather but completely understand why - far too many numpties/lazy fecks who drag them off camping or wherever and don't bother to clear up after themselves or use them properly so the ground is hot after they've gone home! 😡

Anyahyacinth · 16/08/2026 21:05

Tomselleckhaskindeyes · 16/08/2026 17:45

I thought it was the disposable bbq's?

Every TV interview with anyone from the fire service pleads no outdoor fires

BitOutOfPractice · 16/08/2026 21:01

I mean the advice was about disposable BBQs but I don’t think I’d bother right now. It’s not as if there hasn’t been plenty of opportunity to bbq in the last 6 weeks is it?

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