Dd16 has been going little off the rails lately
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Hanging out with new friend, and had a few incidents recently.
One where she got really drunk in the town centre with this friend and could barely walk.
Last week we found her bed empty at 3 am and turns out she had been sneaking out in middle of the night to meet a boy. She says just once but we think maybe a few times.
She has asked to stay at friends house tonight but I have asked them to stay here instead, as basically I don’t think I trust her and think she will be out drinking and possibly sleeping with this boy and the sleepover is a cover.
I have asked to meet the boy who she says is from school but it hasn’t happened yet.
She has broken my trust with the recent antics and I am worried she iis not making good decisions. She is a bit emotionally vulnerable, and has anxiety.
We did have a big chat last week after the sneaking out incident and spoke about contraception, trust, relationships etc
but I am still uneasy and struggling to trust her, especially when hanging out with this friend as I don not know them or their parents at all.
Am I being unreasonable?