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To find the temperature today unbearable?

85 replies

chedderland · 15/08/2026 20:06

In sw London. It’s meant to be cooler but it just feels so humid outside and my house is retaining the heat from the last few days no matter what we do. Fed up of feeling sweaty and lethargic all day.

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chedderland · 15/08/2026 23:05

Baileyss · 15/08/2026 22:58

I have been sleeping outside in the garden. It’s not overlooked and secure so I have slept outside all summer. It’s the only way I can sleep.

I actually tried this a few weeks ago but we get random cats and foxes strolling in so I was too nervous to sleep 😂

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Floatlikeafeather2 · 15/08/2026 22:59

FairViewRosie25 · 15/08/2026 22:48

Think we all need to get a grip. Yes it’s hot but in a month everyone will be moaning about fog then frost. Why can’t you all just go with it enjoy it while we’ve got it switch on those fans open those windows. It’ll soon be winter then you’ll all be moaning it’s cold.

You do know some people genuinely do struggle more in the heat than others? Some health conditions get significantly worse in extreme heat.
Don't tell me to get a grip and I won't tell you where to go.

Baileyss · 15/08/2026 22:58

I have been sleeping outside in the garden. It’s not overlooked and secure so I have slept outside all summer. It’s the only way I can sleep.

FairViewRosie25 · 15/08/2026 22:54

Wouldn’t go out in it but was floating yesterday in a beach cover up

Wizzywoo18 · 15/08/2026 22:50

Thank God I'm not alone! I'm also in London and completely over this summer.
My house has been as hot as Hades this evening.
I'd love to say I float stylishly through the season but in truth I'm a sweaty sleep-deprived menopausal mess.
Roll on October.....

chedderland · 15/08/2026 22:49

FairViewRosie25 · 15/08/2026 22:48

Think we all need to get a grip. Yes it’s hot but in a month everyone will be moaning about fog then frost. Why can’t you all just go with it enjoy it while we’ve got it switch on those fans open those windows. It’ll soon be winter then you’ll all be moaning it’s cold.

I will not be moaning about the cold/fog. I’ve always loved it. Much better than hosepipe bans, water shortages and risk of fires. As previously said the fans and open windows aren’t doing a thing.

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the80sweregreat · 15/08/2026 22:49

We need rain so badly. Insane weather

PeonyBulb · 15/08/2026 22:49

It was definitely muggier today and less tolerable than yesterday despite it being supposedly cooler. It didn’t feel cooler at all. It was more tiring and the air felt close so I suppose the humidity was higher today and drier yesterday

LiliesOnTheWater · 15/08/2026 22:49

because we've got the windows open and the fans switched on and it's still 30 degree overnight?!

unrelated to the fact that it'll be cold in a month.

Coco852 · 15/08/2026 22:48

Could have written your post. Also London. Woke up this morning to thermostat reading 29. And was sweating just doing light tidying. Thankfully feeling slightly cooler now.

FairViewRosie25 · 15/08/2026 22:48

Think we all need to get a grip. Yes it’s hot but in a month everyone will be moaning about fog then frost. Why can’t you all just go with it enjoy it while we’ve got it switch on those fans open those windows. It’ll soon be winter then you’ll all be moaning it’s cold.

chedderland · 15/08/2026 22:45

dontforgetme · 15/08/2026 22:39

I’ve had enough op. Around my mouth and nose are sore from constant sweating. I’m tired. Headache all week. It’s fucking unbearable, I don’t know how people can enjoy this. West Mids and this summer has ruined me.

I thought my hair hadn’t dried from the shower this morning but no one been in a state of constant sweat. It’s horrible!

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dontforgetme · 15/08/2026 22:39

I’ve had enough op. Around my mouth and nose are sore from constant sweating. I’m tired. Headache all week. It’s fucking unbearable, I don’t know how people can enjoy this. West Mids and this summer has ruined me.

OttimoMassimo · 15/08/2026 22:39

I was thinking exactly the same. The temperature might have been a bit lower in London today, but it felt so humid and uncomfortable. I thought there might be a storm, but nothing.

LiliesOnTheWater · 15/08/2026 22:38

I haven't got one specifically, but my portable aircon is supposed to dehumidify. I haven't used it all day though as I figured it would cost a lot, but there is a setting that doesn't cool, just dehumidifies, and that's probably less costly, so maybe I should try that more.

Phineyj · 15/08/2026 22:36

LiliesOnTheWater · 15/08/2026 22:32

Yes! Today seems especially bad. It's 28.5 on the thermostat indoors, and only 20 outdoors. I have all the windows wide open and the door propped open, and yet it still isn't cooling off inside.

People who mock some of us for hating the heat waves and wanting air con despite it being 'only a couple of weeks a year' don't have a clue how long the heat lasts. I can use all the tricks to cool myself somewhat, the fans and the ice in front of them and the wet sheets and the cooling mats and whatnot, but it doesn't cool the room itself.

I'm going to have to close the windows and doors soon as I'm ground floor and need to go to bed, and the heat will radiate back in and put it above 30 again over the night.

Even the portable air con machine only lowers it a couple of degrees in that room (despite good window seal, hose insulation etc), and only while it's on. It quickly heats back up again, and I can't leave that on overnight either because it needs the window open. I've got the window films and the awnings outside, too. And the blinds down. And the windows closed in the heat of the day.

It might take weeks before it gets down to a decent temperature in here and I can finally sleep.

I think there must be a lot of humidity today or something too that is making it feel worse.

Edited

Have you tried a large good quality dehumidifier? I think the humidity's worse than the heat. I got this one:

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chedderland · 15/08/2026 22:35

@MaIeficentI'm so envious of people who can handle the heat!

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HeBeaverandSheBeaver · 15/08/2026 22:34

Rural and farmer has sprayed field with shit and it stinks. House is baking so it’s either shit or heat

MaIeficent · 15/08/2026 22:33

I've been ok tbh. Went to the gym earlier and also got my hair done. But I was working in heavy PPE on the really hot days so I'm kinda used to it. It'd probs have to be at least 40 for me to really struggle when I'm in cool clothing.

LiliesOnTheWater · 15/08/2026 22:32

Yes! Today seems especially bad. It's 28.5 on the thermostat indoors, and only 20 outdoors. I have all the windows wide open and the door propped open, and yet it still isn't cooling off inside.

People who mock some of us for hating the heat waves and wanting air con despite it being 'only a couple of weeks a year' don't have a clue how long the heat lasts. I can use all the tricks to cool myself somewhat, the fans and the ice in front of them and the wet sheets and the cooling mats and whatnot, but it doesn't cool the room itself.

I'm going to have to close the windows and doors soon as I'm ground floor and need to go to bed, and the heat will radiate back in and put it above 30 again over the night.

Even the portable air con machine only lowers it a couple of degrees in that room (despite good window seal, hose insulation etc), and only while it's on. It quickly heats back up again, and I can't leave that on overnight either because it needs the window open. I've got the window films and the awnings outside, too. And the blinds down. And the windows closed in the heat of the day.

It might take weeks before it gets down to a decent temperature in here and I can finally sleep.

I think there must be a lot of humidity today or something too that is making it feel worse.

chedderland · 15/08/2026 22:32

Phineyj · 15/08/2026 22:31

I'm going to spend what it takes to make sure one of our bedrooms can be kept to 22 degrees. Window film, awning, shutters, portable aircon...if someone will sell it to me I'm bloody having it!

I’d happily spend my life savings at this point

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chedderland · 15/08/2026 22:31

It’s a bit cooler with the doors and windows open now but it made no difference earlier. Have to put up with noise and stinky bbqs too. Small mid 30s terraced house seems to keep the heat in like a greenhouse.

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Phineyj · 15/08/2026 22:31

chedderland · 15/08/2026 22:26

Desperate for air con units to come back in stock somewhere in Europe!

I'm going to spend what it takes to make sure one of our bedrooms can be kept to 22 degrees. Window film, awning, shutters, portable aircon...if someone will sell it to me I'm bloody having it!

Howlerhog · 15/08/2026 22:30

We need more lidos and better building design to cope. Modern houses are like ovens.

BrickBuilt · 15/08/2026 22:28

I don’t usually mind a heat wave and today was definitely cooler than it has been but OMG I was not dealing with it well this afternoon!

It’s partly having windows open and fans on all the time, when I hate ambient noise - and all the 6am dog walkers with their barky dogs outside. I’m so grumpy