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Who is actually “for” Meta glasses (“pervert glasses”)?

118 replies

AccidentallyOnTrend · 15/08/2026 14:57

I’m not sure if AIBU is the right place for this question, but I am really, desperately curious to know if there is any one out there who thinks that these are a good idea? Or indeed, not a privacy concern for other unconsenting people?

So on that basis:

YABU - what is your actual problem? There’s nothing wrong with them and I have a pair/would buy them
YANBU - legitimate question – I find them creepy AF

OP posts:
ThePeppyOpalScroller · 15/08/2026 18:59

NannyR · 15/08/2026 16:18

I recently saw a facebook reel of a young girl who was completely blind going shopping in a toyshop with these glasses. The glasses were able to tell her all about the toys she was looking at, what the dolls were wearing, what their names were etc. I thought they were a brilliant invention, to allow people independence and not have to rely on another person.

They dont need video recording capability for that.

ThePeppyOpalScroller · 15/08/2026 18:58

Femalemachinest · 15/08/2026 17:06

People in this thread alone have stated multiple uses none of which have been to take inappropriate videos....

People can also take videos on their phone without you knowing.

Not really. The phone has to be somewhere it can see you, therefore you will be able to see the phone. Are you really that gullable?

Opus3 · 15/08/2026 18:56

ElenOfTheWays · 15/08/2026 15:51

As if a pervert couldn't easily find a way around that.
We ALL know the lengths to which creepy men will go to to be creepy.
There's probably already a hack available or they can just stick electrical tape over the light.
Don't be so naive

They already did. Covering the light. Removing it etc.

Meta had to install an update so the glasses can't record with the light removed. Dunno if they can do that with it just being covered.

Weeellokthen · 15/08/2026 18:54

I went to the opticians 2 weeks ago to choose my new glasses. The assistant (f) was showing/gushing about her black, thick rimmed, meta ones and was trying to convince me. I said why would I want them, she said "you can film with them" 😮
Why? Jist why???

flowersplease · 15/08/2026 18:53

timtamsarebetterthanpenguins · 15/08/2026 16:34

They're amazing for dog walkers - so we can film hands-free and safely when we have issues with the public, and also just for social media in general. I don't own a pair but I know a lot who do and they absolutely love them.

Sorry this is off topic but I’m too curious. I’m not a dog walker admittedly but I have three dogs in my household, and walk and additional two, every day so I often get mistaken for one. The dogs range from tiny and cute to big and ‘scary’ (and I must look ridiculous) but every interaction with the public is always pleasant. I don’t live in a naice area or anything. Occasionally an off lead dog will run up to greet us but as none of mine are reactive and Cujo isn’t roaming about it’s always fine.

How many issues are you having with the public to have to consider filming it?!

DanaScullysLegoHair · 15/08/2026 18:49

I'm interested in them to help with my hearing impairment.

TheCheeryPoet · 15/08/2026 18:48

I’ve had a pair for over a year now and I love them (and am definitely not a pervert!) they are prescription and transition lenses and I mostly use them to listen to music on when out for a walk / run. I also love making hands free calls. I do take photos / videos which I would do normally on a phone anyway (like everyone else) and you can’t cover up the lens to stop people seeing the light as the glasses won’t let you film / take photos.

CeramicRoses · 15/08/2026 18:46

These are an extraordinary breakthrough for blind people. I didn’t even know about the filming option, only that my father who has recently lost his sight, just got some and it could potentially open up whole new avenues for independence. I’d suggest removing the filming option before throwing out the baby with the bath water. My father is simply excited about the possibility of being able to read letters and labels in his cupboards without assistance.

edited for typos.

Simonjt · 15/08/2026 18:41

A visually impaired friend has a pair, she can now do so much more independently like shopping etc, it also means if there is an issue on public transport etc its easier than trying to use her phone, especially in a normal environment to find a member of staff, or just additional travel information. It also helps her at work as she finds it works better than her screen reader to identify what she needs etc.

New journeys are much easier as her glassee can see when its genuinely time to turn left, rather than her phone telling her to turn now when in reality it can be a good 10-20m too early.

PineappleSunrise · 15/08/2026 18:40

Sometimesitsmyownfault · 15/08/2026 15:41

I’m buying a pair for skiing, fantastic for filming some runs. There are lots of legitimate reasons for owning them.
Are we advocating that no one can have nice things because some people misuse them?
No electric bikes as some are used by hooligans?
No sports cars as some people will speed in them?
No alcohol - because alchoholics?
Why do we reduce everything down to what the lowest common denominator will do, therefore - ban everything?

I mean, why do we make guns and zombie knives illegal? They’ll be handy for skiing too. Just imagine how fast you’ll move to the front of the lift queue!

I see no reason why a fine person such as yourself should go without just because of a few crims.

DefinitelyNotAFanOfSummer · 15/08/2026 18:36

randomchap · 15/08/2026 15:30

Specs offenders

Bravo!

Screamingabdabz · 15/08/2026 18:35

mrsbinghamsapron · 15/08/2026 15:12

I fucking HATE them. My DSS has some and I don't like him wearing them in our house, makes me feel like he's filming our family and showing it to his mum (fairly certain he isn't but it still feels like an invasion of privacy)

Can you ‘accidentally’ step on them one day? Oops!

AGreatUsername · 15/08/2026 18:30

DH and I both have a pair. They’ve come in really handy for taking pictures while out biking/skating with no phone, we both use them to watch things or listen to audiobooks while doing other tasks. I can see how they could be misused but then again you can also buy tiny remote control cameras people wouldn’t notice so what is the difference.

concertinacornflake · 15/08/2026 18:29

Digerydont · 15/08/2026 18:24

We are being filmed all the time. CCTV is everywhere.

CCTV is regulated.

What is happening to young women with Meta glasses-wearers is not happening with CCTV.

Digerydont · 15/08/2026 18:27

timtamsarebetterthanpenguins · 15/08/2026 16:34

They're amazing for dog walkers - so we can film hands-free and safely when we have issues with the public, and also just for social media in general. I don't own a pair but I know a lot who do and they absolutely love them.

They would be amazing for joggers too. I was bitten by a dog whilst jogging earlier this year. I have had dogs jump on me. Just being barked at by an off lead large dog is scary.

Scaredeycat · 15/08/2026 18:26

@ISpyNoPlumPie you have to activate the recording function, it’s easy to use the glasses without recording being on.

Digerydont · 15/08/2026 18:24

We are being filmed all the time. CCTV is everywhere.

concertinacornflake · 15/08/2026 18:03

Victorius19 · 15/08/2026 17:55

I think the bit I'm uncomfortable with is that you can't consent to whether or not you're being filmed in someone's background. We've got CCTV at work and have had to put visible signs up warning people that they are being filmed, yet these glasses allow people to film anywhere, anytime and any way they want to.

Yes this is exactly the issue - the aim is to normalise constant filming without consent.

The footage is all sent to Meta who then own it.

Victorius19 · 15/08/2026 17:55

I think the bit I'm uncomfortable with is that you can't consent to whether or not you're being filmed in someone's background. We've got CCTV at work and have had to put visible signs up warning people that they are being filmed, yet these glasses allow people to film anywhere, anytime and any way they want to.

ISpyNoPlumPie · 15/08/2026 17:55

Summerunlover · 15/08/2026 16:35

I am blind and not giving mine up for any one. They have changed my life. And my independence.

Question from an uninformed person - do they need to record to be useful/functional or do they just need to “see”? I’m assuming there is a difference between these two types of functions in terms of keeping and sharing footage but I don’t have a clue.

concertinacornflake · 15/08/2026 17:48

Bunnyofhope · 15/08/2026 17:12

Why is it grim? It's just life. We don't have a right to privacy in a public place.

In some countries people do.

It's a complicated trade off between right to document (due to democratic importance) and right to privacy, but being able to film people without them being aware (except for law enforcement or journalism) is unacceptable IMO, and I'm not alone in that.

My view is we should have a right not to be covertly filmed. These glasses are intended to break down that boundary.

(ETA 'or journalism' above)

Awkwardisfunny · 15/08/2026 17:46

Bunnyofhope · 15/08/2026 17:12

Why is it grim? It's just life. We don't have a right to privacy in a public place.

Yes, we do. Our laws just don't recognise it. And we definitely should have the right to not be recorded in public. That has nothing to do with privacy from other eyes, which cannot be helped.

Awkwardisfunny · 15/08/2026 17:44

househelp12345 · 15/08/2026 15:33

I don’t understand the worry. The light comes on if someone is filming or taking a photo so you can tell. Much more transparent than a phone when you’re not sure if someone is taking a selfie or filming you.

Stage 1 - light. Stage 2 - no light. Get everyone used to them. Then add a feature that lets you stealth record. They're terrible and I hope people see them for what they are.

EnjoythemoneyJane · 15/08/2026 17:26

TheFormerMrsTruelove · 15/08/2026 15:53

Not a fan. I accept that there are a million fantastic uses for them, and there’s no putting the sauce back in the bottle now, but there will always be one overly entitled fucknut who thinks that it’s perfectly fine to record people without their knowledge or consent and stick the footage on the internet. The glasses are just a bit sneakier.

There are already documented cases of this - one where a creepy fuck was stopping attractive women on the pretext of asking for directions and filming their faces and bodies to upload to a site where his fellow creepy fucks (and there were plenty of them) could critique them, accompanied by the usual disgusting, rapey, degrading and misogynistic comments.

One of the women was tipped off that she was on there, but she had to battle with him (and I believe whichever platform he was using) to have the footage taken down, as it had been obtained entirely without her consent.

Every single development in almost any field will immediately be put to a sexualised and/or perverted use by men. Without fail.

Regardless of what positive use these things can be put to, until Meta give enough shits make the product tamper-proof, so that filming covertly becomes impossible (which they never will unless it starts to cost them money and bad PR, because they give precisely zero fucks about the safety and privacy of women or children), nothing can be done to prevent this. It’s quite simply the nature of predatory men and the way they poison the world around us.

Digerydont · 15/08/2026 17:19

Brilliant idea - film the yoofs in the bus station smoking weed and then send the clips to their schools.