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To think my neighbour is selfish tw*t for lighting a fire

211 replies

Vicksstick · 14/08/2026 22:21

Ok so how many people, after receiving a government alert about wild fires asking them not to have fires in their garden, would then in fact go against that and light a big F off fire in their garden, well that would be my next door neighbour! We all live in close proximity in terraced houses and my neighbour thinks it’s a good idea to light a fire. The fact the fire is (for now) contained in a make shift fire pit makes no difference, I mean it’s twa**ish behaviour right?

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Queenncat · 14/08/2026 22:57

call the police non emergency

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Vicksstick · 14/08/2026 22:56

They appeared to have put the fire out now thankfully.

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Hollyhobbi · 14/08/2026 22:56

About this time six years ago some fucker set the green bin shed belonging to the apartment block beside our house on fire at about 4 in the morning. If my eldest dd hadn’t been awake due to Covid crazy sleep schedules we could have been in serious trouble. As it was over €11,000 worth of damage was caused to our house but luckily everyone was ok. The fire brigade were here in about 7 minutes.

PuzzlingRecluse · 14/08/2026 22:50

Vicksstick · 14/08/2026 22:43

I’ve taken pictures of the fire from my upstairs window and my neighbours turned around and spotted me. I don’t care though. I want proof incase something should happen. We’ve had dealings with this family before, they’re basically nightmare neighbours so usually I try my best not to rile things up but on this occasion I don’t care. It’s reckless behaviour.

Have you called the police?

hopefully it stays contained

Periperi2025 · 14/08/2026 22:50

Hosepipe over the fence, what's your neighbour going to do about it... call the police?!

KayFabe · 14/08/2026 22:49

InQuiresandplaceswheretheysing · 14/08/2026 22:35

He’s a twat, but not everyone got the alert. I didn’t.

But surely you have the common sense not to light a fire when the ground is covered in tinder?
I live in a county where there's been several wildfires, and the town pissheads/tramps are still lighting fires whenever they please. Fair enough, they may be disillusioned with society (aren't we all) but dont make the fucking wildlife suffer.

OneDreamyAquaEagle · 14/08/2026 22:49

blunderbuss12 · 14/08/2026 22:39

Our ndn has been firing up the pizza oven this evening and filling our house with smoke.

Won't surprise you to know their lawn is also mysteriously pristine despite the hosepipe ban...

Perhaps it's plastic death carpet....

Boreded · 14/08/2026 22:48

You’ve called the non-emergency line right?

Stinkybooks · 14/08/2026 22:46

I would call 999 and let them know. Let them decide. I think in the circumstances they are highly likely to send a police officer round to get them to put it out.

LilyOfTheValley25 · 14/08/2026 22:44

I tbink its only advisory isnt it. Unless you arr a total idiot you can easily put measures in place to contain it.

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Vicksstick · 14/08/2026 22:43

I’ve taken pictures of the fire from my upstairs window and my neighbours turned around and spotted me. I don’t care though. I want proof incase something should happen. We’ve had dealings with this family before, they’re basically nightmare neighbours so usually I try my best not to rile things up but on this occasion I don’t care. It’s reckless behaviour.

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PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 14/08/2026 22:43

I'd be knocking on the door asking him to put the fire out. I'd give him the benefit of the doubt and assume he hadn't received the alert and simply hadn't thought.

But actually, I'd put money on him being the kind of arsehole who doesn't like to be told what to do and this is an act of rebellion. So maybe trying to be reasonable would (literally) fan the flames.

Summersorcherisjustsummer · 14/08/2026 22:42

Just a reminder that when you call for any emergency the call handlers triage you

You can say...I'm not sure if this is 999 worthy but...and they will decide.

What doesn't happen is you call and automatcially trigger the police /ambulance or a fire engine. So tell them what's happened and let them , the experts triage you.

It's better to call and be told tby them what to do than not call and be killed in your sleep.

RemindMeIn15Minutes · 14/08/2026 22:41

Call the police non-emergency line.

Summersorcherisjustsummer · 14/08/2026 22:40

blunderbuss12 · 14/08/2026 22:39

Our ndn has been firing up the pizza oven this evening and filling our house with smoke.

Won't surprise you to know their lawn is also mysteriously pristine despite the hosepipe ban...

Call these people out !
101 !!
Don't leave them.

Summersorcherisjustsummer · 14/08/2026 22:39

It could turn into an emgergency in seconds.

PuzzlingRecluse · 14/08/2026 22:39

I’d call 101 op & report it,

what a knob

blunderbuss12 · 14/08/2026 22:39

Our ndn has been firing up the pizza oven this evening and filling our house with smoke.

Won't surprise you to know their lawn is also mysteriously pristine despite the hosepipe ban...

Summersorcherisjustsummer · 14/08/2026 22:38

The fire bridage will triage you they woidn rather put out a fire pit than deal with a fire that gets hold. What about the dying embers as everyone is asleep ?

Let the emergency services triage this. If you really think it's contained then the non emergency police number.
He's not being a twat he's being a potential property /life destroyer.

Nousernameideaaga · 14/08/2026 22:37

I think breaching the hosepipe ban to lean over the fence and put the dumb fucks fire out would be appropriate

InQuiresandplaceswheretheysing · 14/08/2026 22:37

Summersorcherisjustsummer · 14/08/2026 22:35

Omg op call the bloody fire bridage now !!

It's an emergency ??

Anyone who sees any flames or fire of any sort call 999

Not if it’s not an actual emergency. The fire brigade are busy enough dealing with real emergencies.

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/08/2026 22:36

Summersorcherisjustsummer · 14/08/2026 22:35

Omg op call the bloody fire bridage now !!

It's an emergency ??

Anyone who sees any flames or fire of any sort call 999

Def don’t do this. They’re extremely over stretched dealing with wild fires.

of course, should it catch/ spread they’ll need to be called

InQuiresandplaceswheretheysing · 14/08/2026 22:35

He’s a twat, but not everyone got the alert. I didn’t.

Summersorcherisjustsummer · 14/08/2026 22:35

Omg op call the bloody fire bridage now !!

It's an emergency ??

Anyone who sees any flames or fire of any sort call 999

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/08/2026 22:34

I like the idea of hosing it.do it OP!

i would leave the emergency services to deal with the high demand they already have rather than reporting someone who hasn’t yet caused a problem