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To think my neighbour is selfish tw*t for lighting a fire

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Vicksstick · 14/08/2026 22:21

Ok so how many people, after receiving a government alert about wild fires asking them not to have fires in their garden, would then in fact go against that and light a big F off fire in their garden, well that would be my next door neighbour! We all live in close proximity in terraced houses and my neighbour thinks it’s a good idea to light a fire. The fact the fire is (for now) contained in a make shift fire pit makes no difference, I mean it’s twa**ish behaviour right?

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Queenncat · 14/08/2026 23:18

Whenwillitrainagain · 14/08/2026 23:14

My neighbour did the same, and I went across to try to speak to him. They were completely dismissive and rude. I did threaten to call the police.
He is very thick though, probably genuinely too thick to realise the danger he is putting us all in.

Yes. The average IQ in the UK is approx 100 - so there are many (many) people who are below average IQ. 50% of people in fact. Make of that what you will!

Periperi2025 · 14/08/2026 23:17

LilyOfTheValley25 · 14/08/2026 22:44

I tbink its only advisory isnt it. Unless you arr a total idiot you can easily put measures in place to contain it.

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It might only be advisory but i think the nationwide government alert will make it very very easy for the CPS to charge anyone 'accidently' loosing control of a fire with arson reckless to whether life endangered which carries up to life imprisonment, so you need to be very very confident that you can contain the fire if you are going to have one, because if you don't contain it you're off to prison!

GentleSheep · 14/08/2026 23:17

XenoBitch · 14/08/2026 23:14

My local police FB page have posted saying not to call them to report people having a BBQ.

Which tells us there are still a lot of people going ahead with BBQs even after the warning. So depressing.

NotMeAtAll · 14/08/2026 23:16

He probably has a small willy thinks it's rebellious.

GentleSheep · 14/08/2026 23:16

People are just... idiots. Have just seen someone walk past our house, flicking his cigarette lighter and lighting a cigarette, then flicking ash, which was glowing, carelessly towards the very dry grass and vegetation at the side of the road!! Without even a second thought!

BlossomLeaves · 14/08/2026 23:16

Please don’t call the fire brigade to report things like this. I get why you’d want to but they’re already overstretched - our local fire service have just put out a message to ask people to stop calling them to report BBQs since the alert.

Whenwillitrainagain · 14/08/2026 23:14

My neighbour did the same, and I went across to try to speak to him. They were completely dismissive and rude. I did threaten to call the police.
He is very thick though, probably genuinely too thick to realise the danger he is putting us all in.

XenoBitch · 14/08/2026 23:14

My local police FB page have posted saying not to call them to report people having a BBQ.

BitterTits · 14/08/2026 23:14

LilyOfTheValley25 · 14/08/2026 22:44

I tbink its only advisory isnt it. Unless you arr a total idiot you can easily put measures in place to contain it.

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Are you going to catch the embers with your bare hands?

TicklishReader · 14/08/2026 23:13

Rachie1973 · 14/08/2026 23:11

My sons working 12 hour nights at the wildfires at the moment because there simply isn’t enough firefighters or equipment.

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Ugh, poor guy.

I hope your lovely son stays safe.

BitterTits · 14/08/2026 23:13

He will also be posting on FB about how well he remembers the summer of 1976, wildfires used to be called controlled burning and bemoaning the nanny state. Attention-seeking twat.

Anyahyacinth · 14/08/2026 23:12

LilyOfTheValley25 · 14/08/2026 22:44

I tbink its only advisory isnt it. Unless you arr a total idiot you can easily put measures in place to contain it.

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Contain sparks that fly up?

Wisher88 · 14/08/2026 23:12

Vicksstick · 14/08/2026 22:21

Ok so how many people, after receiving a government alert about wild fires asking them not to have fires in their garden, would then in fact go against that and light a big F off fire in their garden, well that would be my next door neighbour! We all live in close proximity in terraced houses and my neighbour thinks it’s a good idea to light a fire. The fact the fire is (for now) contained in a make shift fire pit makes no difference, I mean it’s twa**ish behaviour right?

I would report him. Call the police. It's a national emergency and it would your house that will be burned to the ground as his neighbour.

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Vicksstick · 14/08/2026 23:11

Rachie1973 · 14/08/2026 23:11

My sons working 12 hour nights at the wildfires at the moment because there simply isn’t enough firefighters or equipment.

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Aw bless him. He sounds like an amazing lad.

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Iheartpasta · 14/08/2026 23:11

When that alert came through dp said that was possibly the worst thing they could have done because people will now want to start fires just to be twats

johnd2 · 14/08/2026 23:11

LilyOfTheValley25 · 14/08/2026 22:44

I tbink its only advisory isnt it. Unless you arr a total idiot you can easily put measures in place to contain it.

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What, like not lighting a fire?

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Vicksstick · 14/08/2026 23:11

Kimmers4334 · 14/08/2026 23:10

Why would anyone even want to have a fire when it’s still boiling hot in lots of places? Might be cooler there but it’s still 21° outside here. Poking or being near a fire sounds horrible

Exactly. It was 30 degrees here earlier today. The mind boggles.

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echt · 14/08/2026 23:11

ToastSafeFromMothsAndDogs · 14/08/2026 23:07

Twat yes. But not exactly selfish, since the house they’re most likely to burn down is their own. Moronic, certainly.

Sparks can and do fly.

Rachie1973 · 14/08/2026 23:11

InQuiresandplaceswheretheysing · 14/08/2026 22:37

Not if it’s not an actual emergency. The fire brigade are busy enough dealing with real emergencies.

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My sons working 12 hour nights at the wildfires at the moment because there simply isn’t enough firefighters or equipment.

Kimmers4334 · 14/08/2026 23:10

Why would anyone even want to have a fire when it’s still boiling hot in lots of places? Might be cooler there but it’s still 21° outside here. Poking or being near a fire sounds horrible

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Vicksstick · 14/08/2026 23:09

ToastSafeFromMothsAndDogs · 14/08/2026 23:07

Twat yes. But not exactly selfish, since the house they’re most likely to burn down is their own. Moronic, certainly.

We live in terraced housing so it could quite easily spread to others gardens. Once they had a fire and then went to bed and there were still embers blowing everywhere. It’s so dangerous especially in such close proximity to others.

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ToastSafeFromMothsAndDogs · 14/08/2026 23:07

Twat yes. But not exactly selfish, since the house they’re most likely to burn down is their own. Moronic, certainly.

Geronimode · 14/08/2026 23:03

our neighbours did this a few weeks ago and someone called the brigade on them and they came and put it out and gave them a lecture and let the kids have a go on their hose (pre hose pipe ban)

Tillow4ever · 14/08/2026 23:02

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/08/2026 22:36

Def don’t do this. They’re extremely over stretched dealing with wild fires.

of course, should it catch/ spread they’ll need to be called

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I read that previous poster as being sarcastic. I presumed they were the neighbour or in the 4% that thinks the op is unreasonable.

Shows how easily tone is misconstrued in text - we can’t both be right in how we read it!

TicklishReader · 14/08/2026 23:01

Vicksstick · 14/08/2026 22:56

They appeared to have put the fire out now thankfully.

Good on you.

I imagine they thought it was rather rebellious, then chickened out when they saw you. Twats.