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To think my neighbour is selfish tw*t for lighting a fire

211 replies

Vicksstick · 14/08/2026 22:21

Ok so how many people, after receiving a government alert about wild fires asking them not to have fires in their garden, would then in fact go against that and light a big F off fire in their garden, well that would be my next door neighbour! We all live in close proximity in terraced houses and my neighbour thinks it’s a good idea to light a fire. The fact the fire is (for now) contained in a make shift fire pit makes no difference, I mean it’s twa**ish behaviour right?

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Packofsix · 16/08/2026 07:36

I would have been round there asking him to put it out, and reporting it to the local fire officer and the council.

Rocknrollstar · 16/08/2026 07:17

Vicksstick · 14/08/2026 22:21

Ok so how many people, after receiving a government alert about wild fires asking them not to have fires in their garden, would then in fact go against that and light a big F off fire in their garden, well that would be my next door neighbour! We all live in close proximity in terraced houses and my neighbour thinks it’s a good idea to light a fire. The fact the fire is (for now) contained in a make shift fire pit makes no difference, I mean it’s twa**ish behaviour right?

I’d report and turn a hose on it. Don’t want my house burnt down

MachineBee · 16/08/2026 07:14

dontmalbeconme · 16/08/2026 05:31

That will be because it's still perfectly legal to use BBQs. It's only disposable BBQs (which have a much higjer risk profile) that have been banned from sale.

I realise that, but from a PR perspective (both local and national) I would have thought their head would have said to pull them off the shelves. After all, charcoal isn’t perishable.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 16/08/2026 06:13

Might be tempted to use the hose (illegally).

dontmalbeconme · 16/08/2026 05:36

Busbygirl · 15/08/2026 17:32

I didn’t get the alert.
Did it say it’s against the law to have a BBQ?
I’m meant to be going to my friends tonight for one. If it’s illegal I’m not going, I don't want the police turning up.

No, it's still perfectly legal to have a BBQ, and a responsibly sited, attended garden BBQ is perfectly safe. Disposable BBQs have been banned as they are a far higher fire risk.

A bonfire in the garden is also not safe and rather foolish.

dontmalbeconme · 16/08/2026 05:31

MachineBee · 15/08/2026 20:27

Slightly off topic, but I shocked to see bbq charcoal still on sale this morning in Tesco. And it was around a mile away from a house that burned down due to suspected bbq that spread. OP, YANBU

That will be because it's still perfectly legal to use BBQs. It's only disposable BBQs (which have a much higjer risk profile) that have been banned from sale.

Copperoliverbear · 16/08/2026 03:13

Call the council or police or something I would

halfpastten · 16/08/2026 01:55

My neighbour also had a fire in their garden this evening.. Unbelievable. I saw the smoke and looked over the fence. Male neighbour was there, so I said I was worried when I saw the smoke what with all the wildfires. He looked embarrassed. idiot.

Khayker · 16/08/2026 01:19

Periperi2025 · 15/08/2026 22:47

In their defence they probably couldn't read the alert like 90% of the the population when it was first sent out!!

Dont be fooled, the majority of the population are fine ( or thereabouts) its the 1% of absolute brain dead idiots that cause the most problems. We're working nationaly on a solution, give us time 😀

Sereine · 16/08/2026 00:54

Even if he believes this is 100% safe, surely he must realise that his neighbours can't know that and are going to be terrified?

Bunny65 · 16/08/2026 00:50

LilyOfTheValley25 · 14/08/2026 22:44

I tbink its only advisory isnt it. Unless you arr a total idiot you can easily put measures in place to contain it.

Edited

It's not advisory, it's a warning not to do it.

Gettingbysomehow · 15/08/2026 23:48

gratefulandgrumpy · 15/08/2026 16:55

I bet you’d have got a fine for using the hose, and he’d have got a stern shake of the finger.

Its fine I have a blue badge so Im allowed to use the hose 😅
Id probably have been arrested for assault though 😑

Periperi2025 · 15/08/2026 22:52

Summersorcherisjustsummer · 15/08/2026 22:45

How odd ? Whats going on there ?

National pass time.

One of my brothers mates who grew up in the valleys, set the hillside on fire when he was about 11. Things escalated and it burnt out the electricity substation for his entire village, sensing that he was really in the shit, he paniked and ran away, hiding overnight. So what started as 'just' a wildfire turned into a simulatanous wildfire, large scale power outage and missing child alert!!

Periperi2025 · 15/08/2026 22:47

Khayker · 15/08/2026 20:15

Come to Wales, neighbours are still out burning rubbish and teenagers out setting fireworks off. They just look at you like you're talking a foreign language when asked why they're doing it. Fires have died down today, but the idiot count is no different to yesterday, still high!!

In their defence they probably couldn't read the alert like 90% of the the population when it was first sent out!!

Summersorcherisjustsummer · 15/08/2026 22:45

Khayker · 15/08/2026 20:15

Come to Wales, neighbours are still out burning rubbish and teenagers out setting fireworks off. They just look at you like you're talking a foreign language when asked why they're doing it. Fires have died down today, but the idiot count is no different to yesterday, still high!!

How odd ? Whats going on there ?

Summersorcherisjustsummer · 15/08/2026 22:44

@Periperi2025 I didn't know that re recklessness so I think that needs to be communicated clearly

Redragtoabull · 15/08/2026 21:52

Obviously doesn't like being told what to do so has had to play big man to let all know he can do WTF he likes, bet he did well at school

Periperi2025 · 15/08/2026 21:35

Summersorcherisjustsummer · 14/08/2026 23:24

Is this true and if so I don't think this has been communicated clearly

In UK law, "extreme negligence" that causes a fire is not treated as simple carelessness; it is prosecuted as arson (if reckless) under the criminal damage Act 1971 or as gross negligence manslaughter if the fire results in a fatality.

Under UK criminal law, arson does not require a deliberate intent to burn down a property; recklessness is sufficient to satisfy the legal threshold.

So already a thing in UK law, and after that alert nobody can claim they didn't think it was a risk. It will be interesting to see what charges they go for as they start to make arrests.

I saw it discussed with regards to the Rhinogs fire, since the person who caused it called it in themselves, whether they could/ should still be arrested.

Realworld10 · 15/08/2026 20:31

Get Alexander to shout out the alert at full volume!

MachineBee · 15/08/2026 20:27

Slightly off topic, but I shocked to see bbq charcoal still on sale this morning in Tesco. And it was around a mile away from a house that burned down due to suspected bbq that spread. OP, YANBU

Khayker · 15/08/2026 20:15

Come to Wales, neighbours are still out burning rubbish and teenagers out setting fireworks off. They just look at you like you're talking a foreign language when asked why they're doing it. Fires have died down today, but the idiot count is no different to yesterday, still high!!

EdwardNigma · 15/08/2026 19:10

Vicksstick · 14/08/2026 22:21

Ok so how many people, after receiving a government alert about wild fires asking them not to have fires in their garden, would then in fact go against that and light a big F off fire in their garden, well that would be my next door neighbour! We all live in close proximity in terraced houses and my neighbour thinks it’s a good idea to light a fire. The fact the fire is (for now) contained in a make shift fire pit makes no difference, I mean it’s twa**ish behaviour right?

Your neighbour is a cunt. The BBC right now has articles about wildfires destroying people's homes. It's a real risk.

Queenncat · 15/08/2026 19:05

XenoBitch · 14/08/2026 23:20

IQ test is just a test of an IQ test. Nothing to do with common sense.
Some very highly educated people with high IQ are thick as fuck.

Edited

That maybe so - but most of those with low IQs are almost always thick as fck

Glitchymn1 · 15/08/2026 18:39

Why are people lighting them? It’s like 100 degrees! FFS

Islandlover · 15/08/2026 18:38

I was on a steam train last week and one spark from it ignited a full field and more before the emergency services could put it out.