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Wasting water in a heatwave. Private schools keeping grounds green with sprinklers..

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ifonlytheydlisten · 14/08/2026 21:49

I’ve seen this twice now this week whilst everywhere else has bans or people just accepting grass will be hay and water in short supply. Opposite end of spectrum to wild wire concerns and grassland burning near us. Do they have wierd exception? Is it just me that it really winds me up as entitled? It’s made me really annoyed.

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DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 15/08/2026 11:36

CurlewKate · 15/08/2026 11:20

In this case the school is being “jumped on” because it is not following the rules that we are all expected to follow in the current circumstances. Its role in the imposition of Satanic Rule is best kept for another thread.

Come on. Private schools’ sprinklers are irrelevant to the subject of abuse of water restrictions. There are relatively few of them for a start, compared to state schools, car washes, cricket clubs, golf courses and so on, and it may be that only a small number of those few schools are actually using hosepipes to water grass.

So why have a thread about private schools and water?

I should say that I have no motive for defending private schools. I went through state as did all my children. I just find the MN obsession with their supposed iniquities amusing.

CurlewKate · 15/08/2026 11:20

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 15/08/2026 09:01

I don’t know why people jump on private schools at every opportunity. The operate under the same rules as everyone else.

Because on MN private schools are considered a front for wealthy Illuminati and satanism. And a secret network promoting ultra-processed foods and unfashionable Roman sandals. Bad all round in the MN universe.

In this case the school is being “jumped on” because it is not following the rules that we are all expected to follow in the current circumstances. Its role in the imposition of Satanic Rule is best kept for another thread.

Marleyandme71 · 15/08/2026 11:15

superchick · 14/08/2026 21:57

I've very recently had new turf laid and if I let it die it will need replacing again because its not fully established yet so I am sprinkling my lawn from time to time. I'm sure my neighbours think I'm an arsehole but replacing my entire lawn a second time would be worse for the environment in the longer term so I just crack on.

Same. New lawn cost me £200 for 30 rolls of turf. There is no way I'm letting mine go brown. I have been showering at least 3 times a day to cool down, so I have put my shower down to 2 quick showers and use my third shower to water the grass. I tried using the watering can but must get through at least the same. It's quicker n easier with the hose.

Loulou4022 · 15/08/2026 11:04

superchick · 14/08/2026 21:57

I've very recently had new turf laid and if I let it die it will need replacing again because its not fully established yet so I am sprinkling my lawn from time to time. I'm sure my neighbours think I'm an arsehole but replacing my entire lawn a second time would be worse for the environment in the longer term so I just crack on.

I’m sure I read the other day that it’s ok to water new turf with the hose for so many weeks after it’s laid.

ifonlytheydlisten · 15/08/2026 10:26

It’s not private school bashing. I made it clear regardless who it was it looked very odd and out of kilter. Same as the mansion someone mentioned & a roundabout. Maybe they have own water source as other suggested. But still makes it look out of place and people would question it

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RedSnail1 · 15/08/2026 10:08

You have to love the private school bashing... Do you know the source of the water? If it's not coming from the mains, it's fine.

Wipeywipey · 15/08/2026 10:01

Water companies knew for decades climate change was coming yet refused to invest in water infastructure, green tech for desalination and rainwater harvesting amongst a myriad of options to plan for water security. Our govt can't just keep building homes where the sewage and water systems are already broken and home owners currently there are paying for a service that doesn't work. It is WATER not something we should be gambling with by leaving up to global businesses. If we were still under EU laws they would have taken them to CJEU for risking life over the last few years, as they did prior to Brexit, but now we have no one in our corner and the govt needs to take control back.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 15/08/2026 09:33

MyDandyUmberDuck · 14/08/2026 23:10

Last reservoir built in Britain was 1992. Population increase since then about 13million. Let’s address the actual issue.

That’s not true - only recently Portsmouth Water have built an 80 billion litre reservoir in Hampshire!!

https://www.portsmouthwater.co.uk/new-reservoir/

A New Reservoir in the South East | Portsmouth Water

https://www.portsmouthwater.co.uk/new-reservoir/

embroideredpanda · 15/08/2026 09:20

ifonlytheydlisten · 14/08/2026 22:04

This wasn’t sports grounds either time. It was the lawns / areas in front of the schools. The pretty bits

Ah, but at our school they play rounders on the front lawns once or twice in the summer term so they are sports fields 🫠

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 15/08/2026 09:19

YABU.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 15/08/2026 09:17

I have more sympathy with car washes. And in some areas there is no hosepipe or sprinkler ban anyway. But yeah, school watering grass in a heatwave is ridiculous.

ifonlytheydlisten · 15/08/2026 09:15

caringcarer · 15/08/2026 08:05

There is a public roundabout close to where I live that has a sprinkler in the middle and it's on whenever I pass by. It is infuriating when everyone else is not supposed to use hose pipes or sprinklers. This will be the council.

Equally very bizarre.

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DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 15/08/2026 09:01

Another76543 · 15/08/2026 08:24

I think you’ve missed my point. I understand why the hose pipe ban is there. Private schools are subject to the same rules as everyone else. If the poster thinks they are breaching those rules, she can report them. However, I’d be surprised if a school was stupid enough to do that. It’s likely that they are either watering sports pitches (which they’re allowed to do under health and safety grounds, the same as other sports pitches), or they have a borehole/rainwater harvesting system. State schools are allowed to do exactly the same if they wanted.

Golf clubs are generally only watering the greens, not the fairways, and cricket clubs are generally only watering the wicket, not the outfield. Again, allowed under the exemptions.

I don’t know why people jump on private schools at every opportunity. The operate under the same rules as everyone else.

I don’t know why people jump on private schools at every opportunity. The operate under the same rules as everyone else.

Because on MN private schools are considered a front for wealthy Illuminati and satanism. And a secret network promoting ultra-processed foods and unfashionable Roman sandals. Bad all round in the MN universe.

AmnesiacsDream · 15/08/2026 08:58

Wipeywipey · 14/08/2026 22:11

Does no one see the main issue is we have to have hosepipe bans on an island? Our water services are so poorly maintained they have decided to pit the people paying bills against each other rather than use the profits to keep the system working properly.

While I agree the need for hosepipe bans is unreasonable in the UK, is the island bit relevant? We can't use sea water for the things we want water for (except, perhaps, saltwater swimming pools).

Another76543 · 15/08/2026 08:27

ApplebyArrows · 15/08/2026 08:25

I think they are legally allowed to water sports pitches. Morally it's more questionable. It's the summer holidays and kids can still play football on a dry pitch in September.

However, private schools are businesses, and a big part of their business offering is their extracurricular options. A dried-out pitch might put off parents ("let's not go with this one, dear, the pitches at St Swithin's look much nicer"). So they are probably considering that.

As an example, you cannot play cricket on a dried out wicket. It’s simply not safe. I don’t know any cricket clubs/schools watering their outfields though, unless they have boreholes etc.

Shatenoeuf · 15/08/2026 08:25

Theres a huge new build mini mansion near me with a two foot strip of grass along the front wall. I cycle past it and its been heavily watered every single morning, water running over the road from it. There are some really entitled arseholes out there. Leave the water for the farmers.

ApplebyArrows · 15/08/2026 08:25

I think they are legally allowed to water sports pitches. Morally it's more questionable. It's the summer holidays and kids can still play football on a dry pitch in September.

However, private schools are businesses, and a big part of their business offering is their extracurricular options. A dried-out pitch might put off parents ("let's not go with this one, dear, the pitches at St Swithin's look much nicer"). So they are probably considering that.

Another76543 · 15/08/2026 08:24

2026letsgo · 15/08/2026 06:58

They are using processed drinking water.

The issue this year isn’t reservoirs, they were full after a very wet winter and spring.
It’s that water companies don’t have additional capacity for processing water due to increased demand ( ie everyone watering gardens and filling pools) in hot weather.

Keeping grass green is no way akin to a business that needs to use water.

I think you’ve missed my point. I understand why the hose pipe ban is there. Private schools are subject to the same rules as everyone else. If the poster thinks they are breaching those rules, she can report them. However, I’d be surprised if a school was stupid enough to do that. It’s likely that they are either watering sports pitches (which they’re allowed to do under health and safety grounds, the same as other sports pitches), or they have a borehole/rainwater harvesting system. State schools are allowed to do exactly the same if they wanted.

Golf clubs are generally only watering the greens, not the fairways, and cricket clubs are generally only watering the wicket, not the outfield. Again, allowed under the exemptions.

I don’t know why people jump on private schools at every opportunity. The operate under the same rules as everyone else.

Shatenoeuf · 15/08/2026 08:24

superchick · 14/08/2026 21:57

I've very recently had new turf laid and if I let it die it will need replacing again because its not fully established yet so I am sprinkling my lawn from time to time. I'm sure my neighbours think I'm an arsehole but replacing my entire lawn a second time would be worse for the environment in the longer term so I just crack on.

It hasnt rained properly in months, hosepipe bans started in some areas over a month ago. Did you really think it was a good time to lay a lawn?

caringcarer · 15/08/2026 08:05

There is a public roundabout close to where I live that has a sprinkler in the middle and it's on whenever I pass by. It is infuriating when everyone else is not supposed to use hose pipes or sprinklers. This will be the council.

Jerrybalanitis · 15/08/2026 08:01

MandemChickenShop · 15/08/2026 06:43

the bitterness towards private schools know no bounds!

a lot of grass roots football and rugby will be delayed in September as the pitches are dangerously hard. Astro slots will be at a premium

Yep, such a sad, bitter little thread. People are still, as far as I know, allowed to pay for education and healthcare without being imprisoned. And the posters here are the same who refuse to have the phone alert and refused to comply during Covid. Now they are all about 'doing our bit for the greater good' just a bunch of angry, jealous hypocrites who cant afford the things they dream of.

AndyKitten · 15/08/2026 07:57

Ginmonkeyagain · 15/08/2026 07:01

Who the hell lays new turf in the middle of a burning hot summer when it hasn't rained properly in many places for over a month? People who like to burn money?

People who are inconsiderate enough to tell us they are doing us and the environment a favour by watering their new lawn, that’s who.

AndyKitten · 15/08/2026 07:55

CurlewKate · 15/08/2026 07:30

Who will presumably be paid whether the school’s frontage is watered or not?

They might be laid off, you don’t know that.

Or maybe the highly regulated and respected car washes PP uses can also keep their workers even if their water use is restricted?

Ioaf · 15/08/2026 07:49

Dollymylove · 14/08/2026 22:46

Would you be posting the same.if it was a state school?

Oh come on, people don't compare to state schools because it is so so far from what state schools can afford. We've had the same patchy grass for years because we don't have enough space to keep children off it for long enough for the grass to grow. Any grass seed we've had has been paid for by staff or the PTA and then scattered and watered by teachers - our school has a cleaner but no caretaker for jobs like that. We have a single rubbish hose that barely reaches any parts of the playground. It is laughable that we would have even a member of staff to go and turn on a sprinkler throughout the holidays.

CurlewKate · 15/08/2026 07:30

AndyKitten · 14/08/2026 22:17

They have caretakers and gardeners who do that fur a living. Are they less worthy than the car wash workers?

Who will presumably be paid whether the school’s frontage is watered or not?

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