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AIBU to think the wildfire alert about barbecues was unnecessary?

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HollyhockDayssss · 14/08/2026 19:55

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AIBU to think the alert was unnecessary? I get wildfires are an issue but informing the public not to use bbqs isnt a life and death situation.

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Everanewbie · 20/08/2026 10:45

MummyWillow1 · 19/08/2026 21:38

You really are ignorant aren’t you? Shall I spell it out for you?

People lighting fires irresponsibly could cause any part of the UK to set alight and potentially burn more people’s homes. The government don’t want that to happen. So they decided to tell people to stop being dicks with fire. It was urgent. It wasn’t dramatic and it was also never the intention the national alert system would only ever be used for actual threat to life. If people need to evacuate their homes the police/fire service knock on the doors and get them out - they don’t rely on a text message! 🙈😫

"Emergency Alerts is a UK government system that provides warning and advice in a life threatening emergency."

Actual GOV.com copy and paste.

I understand that we can all interpret things differently, but this doesn't suggest "stop using disposable bonfires and don't use fireworks because the fire brigade are a bit busy" is consistent with the purpose of the alert.

MummyWillow1 · 19/08/2026 21:38

notimagain · 18/08/2026 18:26

Of course the situation was serious - for those families and anyone nearby....but the whole point of the alert system, supposedly, was it was supposed to be targetted.

Sure if you're downwind of a fire ATM, that's when you need all the klaxons etc...otherwise,.no...alarm/alert fatigue/what's sometimes called the Crying Wolf effect kicks in, and it's dangerous..

We've already had discussions here and elsewhere about how to disable the alerts...looking ahead that is serious.

You really are ignorant aren’t you? Shall I spell it out for you?

People lighting fires irresponsibly could cause any part of the UK to set alight and potentially burn more people’s homes. The government don’t want that to happen. So they decided to tell people to stop being dicks with fire. It was urgent. It wasn’t dramatic and it was also never the intention the national alert system would only ever be used for actual threat to life. If people need to evacuate their homes the police/fire service knock on the doors and get them out - they don’t rely on a text message! 🙈😫

Nothavingagoodvalentinesday · 18/08/2026 21:08

Portmore · 18/08/2026 18:21

Have some cutted up pear & have a nap.

It will make sense when you're a bit bigger

I hope you feel better for being so rude.

scalt · 18/08/2026 20:52

notimagain · 18/08/2026 18:59

We're just going to have to fundamentally disagree on this I'm afraid.

The psychologists/human factors experts and others that look at accidents in things like the transport industries and even medicine generally really really really don't like alarm systems that are easily triggered and/or perhaps too frequently triggered.

Reason being there's a danger that people get habituated ("it'll only be the usual Monday practice a bit early, I'm not rushing") or start treating frequent alarms as false ("that thing is always going off") and cancel without reading, maybe perhaps even disable the warning system itself.....all the above has happened in the real world and disabling alerts has been mentioned on MN and elsewhere.

What is done is done, but HMG do need to be a bit careful about issuing blanket high level alerts/alarms when and where there is no need.

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Indeed. When I was at university, and the fire alarm went off at night four times (all false alarms) in one term, people didn’t bother hurrying by the third time, especially as they were ripping us off with battels charges all the time. “Vandalism happens, and you will be charged for it,” they said, presenting an axe to a vandal on a golden platter.

PickAChew · 18/08/2026 19:53

Everanewbie · 18/08/2026 19:41

I would have been more accepting if they would have directed the message to areas most severely impacted.

Almost everywhere south of the Tyne has been affected. When there's already a severe wildfire, it's too late to warn people to change their behaviour in that particular location.

Everanewbie · 18/08/2026 19:41

MrsOni · 18/08/2026 19:36

All of which would be true if this wasn't just the second time an alert had been issued, but say the 20th, and if people like you weren't severely underestimating the risks wildfires present.

I would have been more accepting if they would have directed the message to areas most severely impacted.

MrsOni · 18/08/2026 19:36

notimagain · 18/08/2026 18:59

We're just going to have to fundamentally disagree on this I'm afraid.

The psychologists/human factors experts and others that look at accidents in things like the transport industries and even medicine generally really really really don't like alarm systems that are easily triggered and/or perhaps too frequently triggered.

Reason being there's a danger that people get habituated ("it'll only be the usual Monday practice a bit early, I'm not rushing") or start treating frequent alarms as false ("that thing is always going off") and cancel without reading, maybe perhaps even disable the warning system itself.....all the above has happened in the real world and disabling alerts has been mentioned on MN and elsewhere.

What is done is done, but HMG do need to be a bit careful about issuing blanket high level alerts/alarms when and where there is no need.

Edited

All of which would be true if this wasn't just the second time an alert had been issued, but say the 20th, and if people like you weren't severely underestimating the risks wildfires present.

notimagain · 18/08/2026 18:59

NeverDropYourMooncup · 18/08/2026 18:36

Schools and employers have fire drills so that people recognise the sound and know what to do when it happens, rather than panicking, run around shrieking that we're all going to die, posting on Mumsnet or claiming it's all a conspiracy.

This is no different. A test to familiarise people with the sound and to make sure that they know it's a fucking stupid idea to light fires at the moment.

Do we (I'm sure that somebody is going to say yes, just to be contrary) complain that getting people to not attempt to use lifts, to make their way to a designated assembly point and wait for their presence to be recorded before they are told they can return to the building is utterly stupid and means that everybody will refuse to react when the alarms go off?

Edited

We're just going to have to fundamentally disagree on this I'm afraid.

The psychologists/human factors experts and others that look at accidents in things like the transport industries and even medicine generally really really really don't like alarm systems that are easily triggered and/or perhaps too frequently triggered.

Reason being there's a danger that people get habituated ("it'll only be the usual Monday practice a bit early, I'm not rushing") or start treating frequent alarms as false ("that thing is always going off") and cancel without reading, maybe perhaps even disable the warning system itself.....all the above has happened in the real world and disabling alerts has been mentioned on MN and elsewhere.

What is done is done, but HMG do need to be a bit careful about issuing blanket high level alerts/alarms when and where there is no need.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 18/08/2026 18:36

notimagain · 18/08/2026 18:26

Of course the situation was serious - for those families and anyone nearby....but the whole point of the alert system, supposedly, was it was supposed to be targetted.

Sure if you're downwind of a fire ATM, that's when you need all the klaxons etc...otherwise,.no...alarm/alert fatigue/what's sometimes called the Crying Wolf effect kicks in, and it's dangerous..

We've already had discussions here and elsewhere about how to disable the alerts...looking ahead that is serious.

Schools and employers have fire drills so that people recognise the sound and know what to do when it happens, rather than panicking, run around shrieking that we're all going to die, posting on Mumsnet or claiming it's all a conspiracy.

This is no different. A test to familiarise people with the sound and to make sure that they know it's a fucking stupid idea to light fires at the moment.

Do we (I'm sure that somebody is going to say yes, just to be contrary) complain that getting people to not attempt to use lifts, to make their way to a designated assembly point and wait for their presence to be recorded before they are told they can return to the building is utterly stupid and means that everybody will refuse to react when the alarms go off?

MrsOni · 18/08/2026 18:27

Nothavingagoodvalentinesday · 18/08/2026 17:46

Exactly my point! There was no need to use an alert to tell people something they should already know.

But they clearly fucking don't. That's the actual point.

notimagain · 18/08/2026 18:26

MummyWillow1 · 18/08/2026 18:16

19 families lost their homes - how is that not serious?

Of course the situation was serious - for those families and anyone nearby....but the whole point of the alert system, supposedly, was it was supposed to be targetted.

Sure if you're downwind of a fire ATM, that's when you need all the klaxons etc...otherwise,.no...alarm/alert fatigue/what's sometimes called the Crying Wolf effect kicks in, and it's dangerous..

We've already had discussions here and elsewhere about how to disable the alerts...looking ahead that is serious.

Portmore · 18/08/2026 18:21

Nothavingagoodvalentinesday · 18/08/2026 17:37

Do I really need a government alert to tell me that? You see it said in the message that if you see flames you should dial 999 and when lots of people did just that, the fire service complained that they were overwhelmed with calls.
I think someone messed up badly.

Have some cutted up pear & have a nap.

It will make sense when you're a bit bigger

MummyWillow1 · 18/08/2026 18:16

notimagain · 14/08/2026 20:38

But the whole country isn't on fire.

Frankly, just my IMO,.if you're going to be ringing bells/klaxons or whatever in a household it should be for situations such as "you may need to evacuate now,.there is a problem locally"....it shouldn't be used for a nationwide "mind how you go".

If you have to send that type of message (and I accept there may be a need) I don't see the need for all the bells...it devalues the serious alerts.

19 families lost their homes - how is that not serious?

scalt · 18/08/2026 18:03

Nothavingagoodvalentinesday · 18/08/2026 15:10

Thankyou. You have understood the gist of what I am saying.

When Boris Cromwell banned Christmas in 2020, I thought there would probably be some minor scandal of a single MP visiting their family for Christmas; I really wasn’t expecting a scandal on the scale of Partygate, or the WhatsApp messages. So indeed, I underestimated their stupidity.

Nothavingagoodvalentinesday · 18/08/2026 17:46

MrsOni · 17/08/2026 09:34

I mean, if you don't know that, then there really isn't any helping you is there.

Exactly my point! There was no need to use an alert to tell people something they should already know.

Nothavingagoodvalentinesday · 18/08/2026 17:37

Portmore · 17/08/2026 16:34

Call 999

Do I really need a government alert to tell me that? You see it said in the message that if you see flames you should dial 999 and when lots of people did just that, the fire service complained that they were overwhelmed with calls.
I think someone messed up badly.

Nothavingagoodvalentinesday · 18/08/2026 15:10

scalt · 17/08/2026 21:24

“No prime minister would have Downing Street parties in lockdown - they wouldn’t be that stupid”, people probably said, before it came to light that they did exactly that.

Thankyou. You have understood the gist of what I am saying.

Nothavingagoodvalentinesday · 18/08/2026 15:07

If you are absolutely sure.

scalt · 17/08/2026 21:24

“No prime minister would have Downing Street parties in lockdown - they wouldn’t be that stupid”, people probably said, before it came to light that they did exactly that.

LlynTegid · 17/08/2026 20:49

Should have been about 3 weeks ago when the fire near Bordeaux became significant.

Disposable barbecue ban for good.

XenoBitch · 17/08/2026 20:47

MrsOni · 17/08/2026 20:44

Dogs and cats living together, that's where it ends.

Mass hysteria! 😉

NeverDropYourMooncup · 17/08/2026 20:46

MrsOni · 17/08/2026 20:44

Dogs and cats living together, that's where it ends.

You forgot the Human Sacrifice.

MrsOni · 17/08/2026 20:44

Nothavingagoodvalentinesday · 17/08/2026 19:43

How do you know it is not going to happen? Once the government of the day realises it can get away with sending messages to your phone on whatever subject they like and people will take notice, who knows where it will end?

Dogs and cats living together, that's where it ends.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 17/08/2026 20:42

Nothavingagoodvalentinesday · 17/08/2026 19:43

How do you know it is not going to happen? Once the government of the day realises it can get away with sending messages to your phone on whatever subject they like and people will take notice, who knows where it will end?

Since they first set it up, they've only done it for an unexploded bomb being dug up in Plymouth and needing people to get out of homes/businesses en route for it to be safely detonated at sea (and not to all go stampeding down to the Torpoint Ferry to watch the big explodey thing being transported) and a couple of massive storms that posed risk to life. So I guess warning people so they don't get killed by explosion, trees and roofs dropping on their heads or burned to death seem to be where it ends so far...

Bunny65 · 17/08/2026 20:24

Nothavingagoodvalentinesday · 17/08/2026 19:53

Just because I'm paranoid doesn't mean that the government isn't out to get me.

Just because you are not paranoid doesn't mean the government isn't out to get you too.

The government isn’t out to get me or you. Here endeth this wind-up.

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