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Aibu to think 6 years sentence is far too lenient for killing your baby.

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Marieb19 · 14/08/2026 16:23

Am I the only person who thinks sentencing Courtney Gartshaw to just 6 years for killing her 3 month old baby with hairdryer (burned her to death) is a travesty of justice. She will likely be out in 3! She took the baby on a drink and drug fuelled bender, returning home at 3am, before turning the hairdryer on her tiny baby . Her body was so badly damaged the paramedics thought the baby was decomposed. Gartshaw was allowed bail and her lawyers pleaded for her not to be incarcerated because of her mental health. WTF has happened to our justice system.

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BIossomtoes · 15/08/2026 12:13

Catwalking · 15/08/2026 11:52

the poor tiny babe was only 3mths old, I wish I hadn’t thought of this; but how long would it take to die of that vile torture.💐RIP Dahlia-Rose.

There’s a high possibility she was already dead.

BeardofHagrid · 15/08/2026 12:13

I know of another case where a mother drowned her child in the bath. She took the body to a lake and faked a drowning scene and called emergency services pretending the child had drowned. She got four years. It’s appalling.

AMurderofMurderingCrows · 15/08/2026 12:01

AtlasCedar · 15/08/2026 11:38

How does it blow your mind? Imagine the resources required to police who procreates.

That's a bit of a silly question (albeit probably rhetorical). Child killers, paedophiles and people in the grip of severe addiction, to name just a few, can all have children. Why wouldn't that blow my mind?

I didn't suggest we should police who is allowed to procreate. I'm perfectly capable of recognising that doing so would be both practically impossible and incompatible with fundamental human rights.

I was simply pointing out the extraordinary contrast between the scrutiny involved in adopting a child and the complete absence of any assessment of someone's suitability to become a biological parent.

Catwalking · 15/08/2026 11:52

the poor tiny babe was only 3mths old, I wish I hadn’t thought of this; but how long would it take to die of that vile torture.💐RIP Dahlia-Rose.

Runningswanker · 15/08/2026 11:52

Marieb19 · 15/08/2026 11:45

Not exactly. The health visitor had reported that the flat was clean and tidy but she would have known they were visiting. When the paramedics arrived the place was a tip, the cot was being used as a storage dump and the baby had been sleeping with the mother, even though she had been warned against this.

And the judges view was that on the whole the care of the baby was ok. Not perfect, not ideal, but co sleeping and having a messy house isn't grounds for statutory intervention nor does it indicate that a baby is at risk of harm.

Marieb19 · 15/08/2026 11:45

Runningswanker · 15/08/2026 11:12

Missed opportunities for what? The judge said that on the whole she took good care of the baby until that night. There hasn't been any indication that there was anything going on that was hidden.

Not exactly. The health visitor had reported that the flat was clean and tidy but she would have known they were visiting. When the paramedics arrived the place was a tip, the cot was being used as a storage dump and the baby had been sleeping with the mother, even though she had been warned against this.

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Runningswanker · 15/08/2026 11:43

I would think the ignorance of history that's demonstrated by anyone suggesting forced sterilisation is a good idea is indicative that they should be a candidate really.

AtlasCedar · 15/08/2026 11:38

AMurderofMurderingCrows · 15/08/2026 11:09

It still blows my mind that pretty much anyone can have a child, yet to adopt, you have to go through a lengthy process to prove you're capable of providing a safe and suitable home.

You can even face more checks before being allowed to adopt a cat or dog than you do before becoming a parent.

And we continue to see children dying at the hands of the very people who are supposed to love and protect them. It's absolutely horrifying.

How does it blow your mind? Imagine the resources required to police who procreates.

PinkyFlamingo · 15/08/2026 11:28

Totaldramallama · 15/08/2026 11:23

So her sentence would've been longer had she been more mentally ill? Or shorter?

I think it would be the difference between going to prison or Carstairs.

Runningswanker · 15/08/2026 11:27

Totaldramallama · 15/08/2026 11:23

So her sentence would've been longer had she been more mentally ill? Or shorter?

???. Mental illness wasn't relevant in her sentencing, the point was there wasn't anything unusual. The judge commented about there not being a background of abuse or neglect, if there had been it would have been longer, but only slightly due to what she was charged with (the range was referred to as 3-7, she got 6, it's in the judgement I posted on the previous page)

MrsMattSantos · 15/08/2026 11:25

Snippit · 15/08/2026 11:16

Shocking!!!

The government should step in and reassess her sentence. I cried when I read what she did, having a baby is a gift, she’s pure evil. I hope to God that she never has more children when released, this is when enforced sterilisation comes to mind, she doesn’t deserve another chance, an evil, evil act.

you want the government to start sentencing people now?? really??
there’s a reason why the courts and the justice system are independent of politicians….

Runningswanker · 15/08/2026 11:24

Weeellokthen · 15/08/2026 11:17

What about the people who saw her steaming drunk with a baby in a pram. That is a missed opportunity, is it not?

Well obviously, but my point was there wasn't anything to indicate concerns before that night. Ordinarily if a member of the public reported a parent out with a young child and drunk the police would attend. I don't know the law in Scotland but here the police would use their powers to safeguard the child (either by contacting a relative to take care of them for the night, or if no-one, by handing them over to social services as a last resort)

Totaldramallama · 15/08/2026 11:23

Runningswanker · 15/08/2026 11:21

They were 'normal' enough that the judge took it into consideration in the sentencing. The mum had had some mental health issues including self harm, but that's hardly unusual.

So her sentence would've been longer had she been more mentally ill? Or shorter?

Runningswanker · 15/08/2026 11:21

Totaldramallama · 15/08/2026 11:15

Ok maybe, I haven't read up on it but find it hard to believe someone who took her baby on a bender then did this was perfectly normal the rest of the time

They were 'normal' enough that the judge took it into consideration in the sentencing. The mum had had some mental health issues including self harm, but that's hardly unusual.

PinkyFlamingo · 15/08/2026 11:18

Runningswanker · 15/08/2026 10:50

She didn't have 'self inflicted mental health issues' (whatever that's supposed to mean) She had mental health issues and a background of childhood trauma. There's reference to alcohol in the court judgment but not drugs.

The sad thing is that despite not having the best start herself, it seems that she had until that night been a good mum to the baby, the judge commented that there wasn't a background of abuse and neglect. So it seemed that she did care and she was trying - until something happened that night. Its unfathomable, I mean obviously she shouldn't have gone out drinking with a young baby, and certainly shouldn't have got drunk to the point she didn't know what she was doing, but it's so bizarre and horrible what happened. I guess no one will know what went through her mind. I know she only got six years but I can't imagine she'll be able to live with what she's done and she'll be a target both in prison and out of it.

There are huge numbers of people who have had shitty abusive childhoods. There are huge amount of people with mental health issues. And there are huge numbers with both.
None of which is an excuse or reason for burning your baby to death with a hairdryer.
The sentence is a complete joke and I think it's to do with the charge being culpable homicide and not murder.

Weeellokthen · 15/08/2026 11:17

Runningswanker · 15/08/2026 11:12

Missed opportunities for what? The judge said that on the whole she took good care of the baby until that night. There hasn't been any indication that there was anything going on that was hidden.

What about the people who saw her steaming drunk with a baby in a pram. That is a missed opportunity, is it not?

Snippit · 15/08/2026 11:16

Shocking!!!

The government should step in and reassess her sentence. I cried when I read what she did, having a baby is a gift, she’s pure evil. I hope to God that she never has more children when released, this is when enforced sterilisation comes to mind, she doesn’t deserve another chance, an evil, evil act.

Totaldramallama · 15/08/2026 11:15

Runningswanker · 15/08/2026 11:12

Missed opportunities for what? The judge said that on the whole she took good care of the baby until that night. There hasn't been any indication that there was anything going on that was hidden.

Ok maybe, I haven't read up on it but find it hard to believe someone who took her baby on a bender then did this was perfectly normal the rest of the time

Runningswanker · 15/08/2026 11:12

Totaldramallama · 15/08/2026 11:01

That is absolutely hideous but no one in their right mind would do that. I haven't read in to the case and can't bear to read anymore than what was included in the op but I imagine, as with most cases like this, many opportunities were missed that could have prevented this.

Missed opportunities for what? The judge said that on the whole she took good care of the baby until that night. There hasn't been any indication that there was anything going on that was hidden.

AMurderofMurderingCrows · 15/08/2026 11:09

It still blows my mind that pretty much anyone can have a child, yet to adopt, you have to go through a lengthy process to prove you're capable of providing a safe and suitable home.

You can even face more checks before being allowed to adopt a cat or dog than you do before becoming a parent.

And we continue to see children dying at the hands of the very people who are supposed to love and protect them. It's absolutely horrifying.

Runningswanker · 15/08/2026 11:06

The six years seems to be specific to the charge, and that it was deemed to be 'recklessness' rather than an assault. The reference in the judgement is a starting point of 4 years and a range of 3-7 depending on mitigating factors. I agree it doesn't seem to fit with the gravity of the crime though, I'm not sure if its because Scottish law is different, or if theres another reason the charge was one where the sentence was always going to be short?

It was a case of culpable homicide resulting from a high degree of carelessness or gross recklessness

https://judiciary.scot/home/sentences-judgments/sentences-and-opinions/2026/08/14/hma-v-courtney-gartshore

HMA v Courtney Gartshore

https://judiciary.scot/home/sentences-judgments/sentences-and-opinions/2026/08/14/hma-v-courtney-gartshore

CloudPop · 15/08/2026 11:02

MrsMattSantos · 15/08/2026 11:00

she didn’t “purposefully murder” her baby though - not in the eyes of the jury, who heard the case and convicted her of culpable homicide (similar to manslaughter in the Scottish courts)
Im not saying it’s not awful - because clearly it is - but let’s at least try to be accurate

I don’t think she should be hanged. I do think she should be prevented from having any more children though.

Totaldramallama · 15/08/2026 11:01

That is absolutely hideous but no one in their right mind would do that. I haven't read in to the case and can't bear to read anymore than what was included in the op but I imagine, as with most cases like this, many opportunities were missed that could have prevented this.

MrsMattSantos · 15/08/2026 11:00

caringcarer · 14/08/2026 18:25

I wish hanging was reintroduced for sickos like this women who purposely murdered her baby.

she didn’t “purposefully murder” her baby though - not in the eyes of the jury, who heard the case and convicted her of culpable homicide (similar to manslaughter in the Scottish courts)
Im not saying it’s not awful - because clearly it is - but let’s at least try to be accurate

SemperIdem · 15/08/2026 10:54

It’s such an unbearably awful case, that poor baby.

I’m taken aback by the sentence being so short.

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