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Aibu to think 6 years sentence is far too lenient for killing your baby.

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Marieb19 · 14/08/2026 16:23

Am I the only person who thinks sentencing Courtney Gartshaw to just 6 years for killing her 3 month old baby with hairdryer (burned her to death) is a travesty of justice. She will likely be out in 3! She took the baby on a drink and drug fuelled bender, returning home at 3am, before turning the hairdryer on her tiny baby . Her body was so badly damaged the paramedics thought the baby was decomposed. Gartshaw was allowed bail and her lawyers pleaded for her not to be incarcerated because of her mental health. WTF has happened to our justice system.

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likelysuspect · 20/08/2026 08:07

Countingblessingg · 20/08/2026 01:05

Disgraceful thread. A young single mother, with mental health problems, came off her medication during pregnancy. Death by neglect, not murder.

Have some fucking compassion.

What were the MH problems?

Missey85 · 20/08/2026 05:34

TheignT · 16/08/2026 11:58

Yes and I wonder who'd be making excuses for a man who did something as horrific as this.

It's easy for all the bleeding hearts on here to feel sorry for the poor lady but if this case was a man he'd be guilty automatically only women are allowed to use MH problems as a excuse for anything

Missey85 · 20/08/2026 05:29

Countingblessingg · 20/08/2026 01:05

Disgraceful thread. A young single mother, with mental health problems, came off her medication during pregnancy. Death by neglect, not murder.

Have some fucking compassion.

Why should we? I've had MH problems since I was a kid guess what I made it through life without killing a innocent baby I bet your so called "sympathy" wouldn't exist if this was a father because only women are allowed to have issues

Missey85 · 20/08/2026 05:25

caringcarer · 14/08/2026 18:25

I wish hanging was reintroduced for sickos like this women who purposely murdered her baby.

She'll get it in prison 😂 even they don't like baby killers in there

Rufusisturnedon · 20/08/2026 05:15

Countingblessingg · 20/08/2026 01:05

Disgraceful thread. A young single mother, with mental health problems, came off her medication during pregnancy. Death by neglect, not murder.

Have some fucking compassion.

Agree with you. Awful case but must we continue to stigmatise those with MH difficulties. It 2026 not 1986

mathanxiety · 20/08/2026 04:53

Sereine · 16/08/2026 01:06

Do you think other countries are immune from cases like this? If so, you are deluded.

I think that comment was a response to the leniency of the sentence.

mathanxiety · 20/08/2026 04:50

The charge she was convicted of is culpable homicide through recklessness, not murder. Murder would have involved intent, and that was, in the opinion of the prosecutor, too hard to prove

Part of her legal defense was that the baby was already dead of unknown causes (possibly hypothermia) and the hair dryer was deployed in an attempt to warm her up (clearly not the solution a sensible or sober person would have thought of). This defense was rejected by the jury, who voted unanimously to convict her of the culpable homicide charge.

The maximum sentence available to the judge in the Scottish system for this charge is seven years. Various mitigating factors and other elements of the case were taken into account by the judge in passing a sentence of six years.

Apparently there is an older child who was not in this mother's care. This child had had social services involvement in her life.

Just incredibly sad all around.

Countingblessingg · 20/08/2026 01:05

Disgraceful thread. A young single mother, with mental health problems, came off her medication during pregnancy. Death by neglect, not murder.

Have some fucking compassion.

Jane379 · 20/08/2026 00:52

Quine0nline · 15/08/2026 12:45

20 years in prison for the undertaker who didn't bury dead customers. 7 for this freak.go figure.

It wasn't just 'not burying dead customers'. It was serious fraud. Grieving families were given the wrong ashes.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ckg35errde5o

Robert Bush with short, light brown hair is shown in a straight‑on mugshot photograph. He has a neutral expression and is wearing a dark jacket over a red shirt. The background is plain and grey.

Legacy funeral home boss Robert Bush jailed for 20 years

Robert Bush also failed to cremate people and gave bereaved relatives the ashes of strangers.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ckg35errde5o

Jane379 · 20/08/2026 00:48

BeardofHagrid · 15/08/2026 12:13

I know of another case where a mother drowned her child in the bath. She took the body to a lake and faked a drowning scene and called emergency services pretending the child had drowned. She got four years. It’s appalling.

You mean this one?

You're leaving out the crucial fact that this was due to psychosis.

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/oct/06/alice-mackey-daughter-annabel-mackey-hampshire-sentencing

Hampshire mother jailed after drowning two-year-old during period of psychosis

Judge says Alice Mackey, 42, believed it ‘was some form of act of mercy’ to kill her daughter, Annabel

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/oct/06/alice-mackey-daughter-annabel-mackey-hampshire-sentencing

Netcurtainnelly · 16/08/2026 21:01

No father around, another grim situation .

Jdot · 16/08/2026 17:46

Sterilisation will be only be given to those who have been found guilty of child neglect, murder. This also includes males.

We are talking of a couple of hundred max

OtterlyAstounding · 16/08/2026 13:22

Runningswanker · 16/08/2026 13:16

It is not my responsibility to educate you on something that most people learn by year 8 of high school. Or pick up through basic human decency. Go waste someone else's time.

So you've no actual reasons why imprisoning someone for 20 years longer as a pp suggested, or taking their newborns away over and over again to go into the care system, is apparently 'more humane'?

Oh well, fair enough.

Runningswanker · 16/08/2026 13:16

OtterlyAstounding · 16/08/2026 12:52

@Runningswanker thanks for your support, via the react button (now that seems more like an edgelord thing to do). I'd prefer thoughtful engagement, but perhaps you don't actually have an argument to back up your statement? That's okay.

It is not my responsibility to educate you on something that most people learn by year 8 of high school. Or pick up through basic human decency. Go waste someone else's time.

OtterlyAstounding · 16/08/2026 12:52

@Runningswanker thanks for your support, via the react button (now that seems more like an edgelord thing to do). I'd prefer thoughtful engagement, but perhaps you don't actually have an argument to back up your statement? That's okay.

OtterlyAstounding · 16/08/2026 12:06

Runningswanker · 16/08/2026 12:01

If you think that the effectiveness of road building is on a par with the consequences of forced sterilisation of criminals then there really is no point debating with you at all. Enjoy your Sunday.

No, I think that if you want to argue something is bad, then actually argue why it's bad, don't just shout 'Nazi!' and call people edgelords, while not engaging with their arguments at all.

Runningswanker · 16/08/2026 12:01

OtterlyAstounding · 16/08/2026 11:53

Nope. I don't think that makes it inherently bad – not necessarily. The Nazis also built the autobahn, I believe. Is liking the autobahn edgelord behaviour?
You can't just argue 'bad because Nazi!' to try to shut people up – you need to state actual reasons.

Personally, I think that locking someone up in prison until menopause just to stop them getting pregnant, or letting them get pregnant over and over and taking their babies away every time, is actually much crueller than sterilisation. It should at least be offered in these cases, along with a sentence discount.

If you think that the effectiveness of road building is on a par with the consequences of forced sterilisation of criminals then there really is no point debating with you at all. Enjoy your Sunday.

TheignT · 16/08/2026 11:58

Totaldramallama · 15/08/2026 11:15

Ok maybe, I haven't read up on it but find it hard to believe someone who took her baby on a bender then did this was perfectly normal the rest of the time

Yes and I wonder who'd be making excuses for a man who did something as horrific as this.

OtterlyAstounding · 16/08/2026 11:53

Runningswanker · 16/08/2026 11:30

You don't think bringing back one of the Nazi's showcase policies is edgelord behaviour?

Nope. I don't think that makes it inherently bad – not necessarily. The Nazis also built the autobahn, I believe. Is liking the autobahn edgelord behaviour?
You can't just argue 'bad because Nazi!' to try to shut people up – you need to state actual reasons.

Personally, I think that locking someone up in prison until menopause just to stop them getting pregnant, or letting them get pregnant over and over and taking their babies away every time, is actually much crueller than sterilisation. It should at least be offered in these cases, along with a sentence discount.

Runningswanker · 16/08/2026 11:30

OtterlyAstounding · 16/08/2026 11:12

I read that comment and...disagree.

I'm not sure why thinking sterilisation is better than potentially ripping baby after baby from their mother's arms as she repeatedly gets pregnant, is 'edgelord' behaviour?

You don't think bringing back one of the Nazi's showcase policies is edgelord behaviour?

OtterlyAstounding · 16/08/2026 11:12

Runningswanker · 16/08/2026 09:04

@Jdot and @OtterlyAstounding @maudelovesharold

Capable of being edgelords but not of reading a four page thread, how very original!

I read that comment and...disagree.

I'm not sure why thinking sterilisation is better than potentially ripping baby after baby from their mother's arms as she repeatedly gets pregnant, is 'edgelord' behaviour?

Runningswanker · 16/08/2026 09:04

Runningswanker · 15/08/2026 11:43

I would think the ignorance of history that's demonstrated by anyone suggesting forced sterilisation is a good idea is indicative that they should be a candidate really.

@Jdot and @OtterlyAstounding @maudelovesharold

Capable of being edgelords but not of reading a four page thread, how very original!

Jdot · 16/08/2026 06:33

OtterlyAstounding · 16/08/2026 00:06

Creating multiple adoptive children who have been torn away from the mother who murdered their sibling is not a success, though. If you're going to forcibly take any babies she gestates away anyway, traumatising both her and the child, why not just sterilise her? It seems kinder to everyone, and much safer.

And cheaper for the tax payer!

TheOriginalEmu · 16/08/2026 04:01

15minutesaday · 14/08/2026 16:32

No you're not being unreasonable.

Self-inflicted (drug fuelled/substance abuse induced) mental health issues should not be considered in a plea for leniency. She'll be pampered and mollycoddled by the system under the guise of rehabilitation.

I'm afraid I've got little sympathy for drug users and think they should be allowed to take as many drugs as they want and with a bit of luck, overdose and die. Then it's one less burden on the tax payer and would solve the overcrowded prison situation too. Use the stuff they get from the drug raids and offer them freely in prisons.

with that disgusting attitude you’re just as bad if not worse than someone who does things fuelled by drugs, you are presumably sober and that’s how your mind works. gross.

caringcarer · 16/08/2026 03:56

The sad truth is this woman will be probably be released 2/3 of the way though her sentence and get pregnant again.