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AIBU to hold place in line for the kids?

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Dontjumptoconclusions · 14/08/2026 10:03

At an amusement park. It's a timed entry so as many rides and things you can do for 2 hours.

One ride that the 3DC (5,3,3) wanted to go on, the bunjee trampoline one (whatever it's called). There were 4 trampolines. Quite a long queue as each kid is on the trampoline for 5 mins each. There were maybe 5 or 6 kids in front of us, so I guessed around a 20 min wait.

So I said to DH and the kids, I'll wait here and you carry on with the other rides with less/no queue and I'll call you over when we are near the front.

Then when we got close to the front, the 3DC came over and jumped on the trampolines.

It was only afterwards that I wondered if i should have waited with 3DC, missing out on the other rides out of principle that we are queuing up for this one? AIBU or would you also do the same to make the most of the time in the place?

OP posts:
powersthatbe · 14/08/2026 10:26

BoredZelda · 14/08/2026 10:06

Why? What difference does it make to the other people in the queue?

The difference could be a 20-30 minute longer wait! If 4 people are ahead of me in the queue and each one is a parent holding space for 2-3 kids then of course it makes a difference. On this occasion it was one parent doing that, because most people know it’s unreasonable.

OP i thought you were going to say your kids were waiting nearby in the shade, in which case id say fine and the polite thing to do would be to flag to the person behind you you were holding space for a few more and point to where they were.

MrsOni · 14/08/2026 10:25

Yeah, that's a dick move. Would get you chucked out of some parks.

Blueburner · 14/08/2026 10:13

Yeah most theme parks don’t allow this. Why should your kids get to keep enjoying themselves while others wait patiently? I do think a loo break is different though!

OneNaiceSnail · 14/08/2026 10:11

BoredZelda · 14/08/2026 10:06

Why? What difference does it make to the other people in the queue?

Because it’s unfair? One person should not hold the place of multiple other people. It’s teaching children laziness, impatience and entitlement. It happened to me recently in the indoor fair in Liverpool. It’s a ticketed event and you only get a couple of hours. We weren’t going to bother queuing for the bungees as the wait times ridiculous. So when we (thought) we saw we’d be able to go on for our last ride we started queuing, only for the woman in front of us to lift a load of children over the barrier when it should have been our turn. Given it being the last ride, a nice day ended up a bit sour with us leaving pissed off

Nousernameideaaga · 14/08/2026 10:09

BoredZelda · 14/08/2026 10:06

Why? What difference does it make to the other people in the queue?

Because instead of being behind one person they are suddenly behind three which can add on time to their already lengthy wait.

If two random people have just suddenly queue jumped would you find that ok?

OneNaiceSnail · 14/08/2026 10:07

IMO one person should queue for each child. Those rides take bloody ages to go on. I was livid when this happened to me a few months ago, there was a random adult in the queue who I thought must have been with a child already in the queue. Then just as I thought it was our turn she let 3 children on ahead of her which stretched our wait time to an extra almost 20 minutes. I wouldn’t have got in the queue at all if I’d have known spaces were being saved for a whole gang of other children. And I did have something to say to her about it. Yabu

Livelovelaughfuckoff · 14/08/2026 10:06

Yeah that’s a bit crap other people may have got in the queue behind you thinking it would be less of a wait. Teaching your kids to wait and be patient is a life skill. Lazy parenting IMO

BoredZelda · 14/08/2026 10:06

Morepositivemum · 14/08/2026 10:05

Oh god yes, all of you are meant to wait!!! Think if you were in a long queue eg for a rollercoaster and kids pushed through because mum was waiting at the top!

Why? What difference does it make to the other people in the queue?

Hankunamatata · 14/08/2026 10:06

Big signs alton towers classify it as queue jumping.

Floppyearedlab · 14/08/2026 10:06

BirdLandedonmyHead · 14/08/2026 10:04

While on other rides...yes.
Popping to the toilet or similar would be different

This!
A quick loo trip is one thing. What you did is teaching kids to be spoilt and not suffer any boredom or discomfort.

Morepositivemum · 14/08/2026 10:05

Oh god yes, all of you are meant to wait!!! Think if you were in a long queue eg for a rollercoaster and kids pushed through because mum was waiting at the top!

BirdLandedonmyHead · 14/08/2026 10:04

While on other rides...yes.
Popping to the toilet or similar would be different