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To celebrate the wasps have returned 👏

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Goingmadddd · 13/08/2026 17:16

Until This year I did not understand the purpose of wasps.

If you didn’t know… they eat flies.

And after the WORST fly year in history. I had so many different species I actually tried to count them all. Who is celebrating the return of the wasps with me?

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Teuchterlass · 15/08/2026 11:13

I will stop short of celebrating,having had one down my blouse at school which stung me on my neck and boobs, and also one inside a coke can which stung under my lip causing me to be so swollen that my nose and cheek were flat on that side! That said, I will happily trap them and put them back outside (unlike my pension age brother who still runs round like a toddler, flapping his hands if one comes within 5 feet!)

1985goingbackagain · 15/08/2026 05:03

I’m currently in Austria and there are loads of wasps. I asked one of the waiters about it - he said they had none last season and they are pleased as it shows it will be a harsh winter, so the snow will be good. No idea if this is true!

PencilsInSpace · 15/08/2026 03:48

Goingmadddd · 14/08/2026 15:20

Exactly. Until this summer I would have been team flie. But until you have truly experienced a fly deluge then you won’t get it! They are hideous! And even more persistent at getting at food.

We are currently experiencing a fly deluge and it's hideous. We have a little set of steps going up under an archway next to a pond and it's full of them. Big clouds of buzzy fat fuckers flying every which way and I have to walk through them to get to the rest of the garden. We have nicknamed it the tunnel of flies. I can't find anything food related that's attracting them, they just seem to like being near the water and the relatively cool air. It's only a couple of metres from our kitchen door but they show no interest in coming in, in fact if one gets accidentally trapped inside it asks to go out by banging its head repeatedly on the window. I have a horrible suspicion they're coming here to have sex.

If wasps could make the slightest dent in this plague I'd be their biggest fan but no, they're all too busy getting pissed on next door's fallen apples.

LadyMacbethssweetArabianhand · 14/08/2026 17:13

I loathe wasps. They are flying sharks, cruising round, looking for victims. I've been stung twice and both times I wasn't doing anything to annoy them.

Goingmadddd · 14/08/2026 17:06

pinkstripeycat · 14/08/2026 15:27

Wasps do not eat flies. Wasps feed flies to their larvae.

Ohhhh, so it’s the wasp larvae. Not the wasps eating fly larvae?

Apologies people 😅

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pinkstripeycat · 14/08/2026 15:27

Wasps do not eat flies. Wasps feed flies to their larvae.

Goingmadddd · 14/08/2026 15:20

rosesarebluer · 13/08/2026 23:08

Thank fuck for that, I’ll be welcoming them with a fanfare! After being bombarded with numerous flies yesterday, I noticed we only had three in today…I thought it might be the magical powers of my peppermint spray all over the window frames but maybe the wasps have scoffed them 👏🏻

Exactly. Until this summer I would have been team flie. But until you have truly experienced a fly deluge then you won’t get it! They are hideous! And even more persistent at getting at food.

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Magicpaintbrush · 14/08/2026 12:55

I appreciate their right to exist and as pollinators. That's it. They can stay the hell away from my lunch, annoying, persistent little sods.

CrazyCatLady13 · 14/08/2026 12:45

I have lots, they like to drink from my pond 😊

A couple of years ago they built a nest in an old bird nesting box on our patio. It was brilliant watching them & none of us got stung. When they'd all died off I took the nest out & framed it 😊

I also get lots of solitary bees and have to buy more bee boxes every year 😊

Morepositivemum · 14/08/2026 12:18

I’ll be honest I was just worried this year in general as I’ve never seen so few wasps and bees.

CatherinedeBourgh · 14/08/2026 12:17

Titsywoo · 13/08/2026 21:48

I have a plant in my garden that is covered in wasps from June to September. It does stop them hanging around us on the patio and it is nice to see them so active but not annoying everyone while we eat!

What plant is that, if you don't mind my asking?

UniquePinkSwan · 14/08/2026 07:16

I had a wasps nest and they ate through my ceiling. Was a nightmare. I hate them

shellyleppard · 14/08/2026 07:12

@chimichangaz i think small sticks or twigs would be a perfect escape route 🙂

EmeraldShamrock000 · 13/08/2026 23:41

I wonder if they go for certain blood over others. My DS has never been stung, he has a massive fear of getting stung, he’d run into traffic to avoid one. I remember a friends child being stung above the lip. It looked very painful.

OchreReader · 13/08/2026 23:20

CheeseWisely · 13/08/2026 22:53

Assuming you’re not allergic, getting stung may help? I used to be much more afraid of them than before I was stung as an adult and realised it was just a bit annoying and uncomfortable for an hour but ultimately no big deal. Now I just hate them, I’m not actively scared of them.

I’ve been stung and didn’t find it too painful. It’s their stripy bodies that hang down, the way they hover and swoop around, their creepy legs…😖 yeuch. Spiders don’t bother me in the slightest for some reason

Otterseatpuffinsdontthey · 13/08/2026 23:12

Absolutely hate them with a passion.
Accidentally stood on a wasps nest when I was a child - stung many times (haven't forgotten).
Through the years, have been stung quite a few times (no provocation on my part).
If I think I'm going to be stung, will kill it if possible.
And - they murder bees.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 13/08/2026 23:11

I am not scared of them. I have never been stung so might feel different. I filmed one suckling on a dandelion the other day. It was fantastic watching it so close zoomed in the long tongue. 🐝

rosesarebluer · 13/08/2026 23:08

Thank fuck for that, I’ll be welcoming them with a fanfare! After being bombarded with numerous flies yesterday, I noticed we only had three in today…I thought it might be the magical powers of my peppermint spray all over the window frames but maybe the wasps have scoffed them 👏🏻

getthroughonemoreday · 13/08/2026 23:05

I'd rather have flies than wasps, tbh.

BogRollBOGOF · 13/08/2026 22:57

Nursemumma92 · 13/08/2026 22:52

Yes I thought this until one stung my 3 year old yesterday who was just sat eating her ice cream and it just flew at her and stung her on the leg.

One randomly landed on my then 2yo's face and stung him just below the eye. No food to tempt it, just a nasty aggressive stingy September wasp in twat mode.

Poor DS looked so swollen and miserable afterwards.

Hope your 3yo is ok now.

WonderingWanda · 13/08/2026 22:54

I watched some a few weeks ago as the collected little balls of tuna from a discarded sandwich to take back to their nests, it was amazing!

CheeseWisely · 13/08/2026 22:53

OchreReader · 13/08/2026 22:51

I understand they have a purpose, but unfortunately I have a phobia of them. Come summer my windows are shut, I won’t wear any form of scent or drink from cans. I won’t eat outside in cafes since I left my lunch untouched and ran off in Luxembourg because they descended on our table. I hate their stripes 😣 If anyone has any tips on conquering wasp phobia I’d love to hear them

Assuming you’re not allergic, getting stung may help? I used to be much more afraid of them than before I was stung as an adult and realised it was just a bit annoying and uncomfortable for an hour but ultimately no big deal. Now I just hate them, I’m not actively scared of them.

Nursemumma92 · 13/08/2026 22:52

TheWildZebra · 13/08/2026 17:36

I think they’re wonderful and serve an important ecosystem function!

don’t antagonise them and they’ll leave you well alone. They tend to be starving this time of year, so I don’t feel too bad about sharing my drinks or food with them.

Yes I thought this until one stung my 3 year old yesterday who was just sat eating her ice cream and it just flew at her and stung her on the leg.

OchreReader · 13/08/2026 22:51

I understand they have a purpose, but unfortunately I have a phobia of them. Come summer my windows are shut, I won’t wear any form of scent or drink from cans. I won’t eat outside in cafes since I left my lunch untouched and ran off in Luxembourg because they descended on our table. I hate their stripes 😣 If anyone has any tips on conquering wasp phobia I’d love to hear them

EmmaM84 · 13/08/2026 22:39

Nah theyre now at the stage where theyre not useful in killing flies. All they want is sugar as theyve been kicked from nest duties and are in their villian era now