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What did you get for your A Levels (if you did them)? (Trigger warning - a levels 💐🫂)

265 replies

hotmumshit · 13/08/2026 16:02

BBB - eng lit, sociology and history

Was so sad, I wanted aab

💐💐 for those of us who get mild ptsd whenever results day rolls around

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bpch · 13/08/2026 21:23

Papyrophile · 13/08/2026 21:20

I am 70, and I am interested in the same topics as XenoBitch so I see her username regularly. I am not miserable with my own life, but I rarely read her comments without thinking, this is a person who believes there is a magic money tree in the garden of 10 Downing St. No personal slur or offence intended.

You think there is no slur or offence by calling someone out as “not being an intellectual” when they were clearly showing some vulnerability and disappointment about exam results? Are you really so lacking in emotional intelligence to not recognise how unreasonably harsh that is even if you two have some kind of history of going toe to toe on political threads? Your opinion is not worth more than hers no matter what qualifications you have.

Papyrophile · 13/08/2026 21:20

I am 70, and I am interested in the same topics as XenoBitch so I see her username regularly. I am not miserable with my own life, but I rarely read her comments without thinking, this is a person who believes there is a magic money tree in the garden of 10 Downing St. No personal slur or offence intended.

LunaTheCat · 13/08/2026 21:17

Brainstorm23 · 13/08/2026 16:45

AAAA in Biology, Chemistry, Physics and Maths ( you couldn't get A* at A-Level at that time).

Went to Oxford to study Physics and was home by March.

Ohh what happened .. just not your thing.. hope it turned out well in the end

XenoBitch · 13/08/2026 21:16

Papyrophile · 13/08/2026 21:14

XenoBitch is quite the MN activist. I presumed she/he is up to robust debate. I profoundly apologise for my unkindness, and wish her every success with getting the qualifications she feels necessary.

Your comment was not debate. It was a personal attack, and I am not accepting your apology.

bpch · 13/08/2026 21:14

XenoBitch · 13/08/2026 21:12

Thank you. I was going to report it too but was actually worried it would just be called a strong opinion or some crap. I am actually shaking, it really upset me.

Anyway, my sister fluffed her A-levels too, but managed to finish them. She is doing alright for herself. My brother got good grades and finished uni, but MH got him too so he works for DM when he can.

Around 70 apparently and acting like that, clearly very miserable with her own life to take completely uncalled for digs like that. Please don’t give it another thought, she should be ashamed of herself.

hotmumshit · 13/08/2026 21:14

XenoBitch · 13/08/2026 21:09

Thanks..

The comment from the other poster has really upset me. I dropped struggled with sixth form because that was when I became really unwell with mental health issues. I was kicked out because they did not know what to do with me.
I have tried several times to get an education. I have been to uni twice, and had an offer for another time (but I failed the Access course). I have spent silly money on adult education courses and OU... I can't do it.

I did not realise that you need to have A-levels or be uni educated to post on here.

You dont, honestly, mumsnet is just very anti anyone who appears working class (which is what I think that poster was getting at)

Studying isnt for everyone. Some of the brightest most successful people couldnt do studying, but could do other things!

I've had weird comments like that, it does sting, no need for it on a safe space thread

❤️

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Papyrophile · 13/08/2026 21:14

XenoBitch is quite the MN activist. I presumed she/he is up to robust debate. I profoundly apologise for my unkindness, and wish her every success with getting the qualifications she feels necessary.

MildlyMoist · 13/08/2026 21:13

XenoBitch · 13/08/2026 21:09

Thanks..

The comment from the other poster has really upset me. I dropped struggled with sixth form because that was when I became really unwell with mental health issues. I was kicked out because they did not know what to do with me.
I have tried several times to get an education. I have been to uni twice, and had an offer for another time (but I failed the Access course). I have spent silly money on adult education courses and OU... I can't do it.

I did not realise that you need to have A-levels or be uni educated to post on here.

You don’t need any qualifications to post here. MNHQ have deleted that bitchiness following my report. Some people love to kick down. It makes me wonder what is so wrong in their lives that doing crap like this makes them feel better. You crack on, @XenoBitch .

Rowgtfc72 · 13/08/2026 21:12

DEE English lit, history, German.
Went to uni to do a B.Ed, switched to English lit and education studies. Got a 2:2.
Graduated a bloody long time ago in 1994.

XenoBitch · 13/08/2026 21:12

MildlyMoist · 13/08/2026 21:07

Reported it as a personal attack on you, @XenoBitch . Definitely not in the spirit of the site - robust debate is fine, but not personal nastiness.

Thank you. I was going to report it too but was actually worried it would just be called a strong opinion or some crap. I am actually shaking, it really upset me.

Anyway, my sister fluffed her A-levels too, but managed to finish them. She is doing alright for herself. My brother got good grades and finished uni, but MH got him too so he works for DM when he can.

bpch · 13/08/2026 21:10

@PapyrophileHoly shit that was unnecessary. Intelligence and class clearly don’t correlate.

XenoBitch · 13/08/2026 21:09

hotmumshit · 13/08/2026 21:05

Well do you know what girl - have a glass of wine on me, and cheers to being alive! Even if you didnt get the grades, youre still here and thats enough

If it helps, despite my a levels, I am laying tits out in front of the fan whilst my child judges me

Life comes for us all 😩❤️

Thanks..

The comment from the other poster has really upset me. I dropped struggled with sixth form because that was when I became really unwell with mental health issues. I was kicked out because they did not know what to do with me.
I have tried several times to get an education. I have been to uni twice, and had an offer for another time (but I failed the Access course). I have spent silly money on adult education courses and OU... I can't do it.

I did not realise that you need to have A-levels or be uni educated to post on here.

hotmumshit · 13/08/2026 21:08

My threads are always friendly and cheeky, this is a safe space!

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MildlyMoist · 13/08/2026 21:07

XenoBitch · 13/08/2026 21:02

Well, thanks.
Was there any need for that at all?

Reported it as a personal attack on you, @XenoBitch . Definitely not in the spirit of the site - robust debate is fine, but not personal nastiness.

hotmumshit · 13/08/2026 21:05

XenoBitch · 13/08/2026 20:59

Not really, but it is what it is.
Not for lack of trying. I managed to fail an Access course Blush

Well do you know what girl - have a glass of wine on me, and cheers to being alive! Even if you didnt get the grades, youre still here and thats enough

If it helps, despite my a levels, I am laying tits out in front of the fan whilst my child judges me

Life comes for us all 😩❤️

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TurquoiseYeti · 13/08/2026 21:04

AAB in French, Sociology and History and an A at AS level English Literature. I understand your pain OP, the B has always annoyed me. The school I went to had two A Level History teachers and they took it year about to take the incoming class. I got the bad one and until then I'd always got an A in end of year History exams.

XenoBitch · 13/08/2026 21:02

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Well, thanks.
Was there any need for that at all?

Papyrophile · 13/08/2026 21:01

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XenoBitch · 13/08/2026 20:59

hotmumshit · 13/08/2026 20:57

Nowt wrong with it - did your life turn out okay? ❤️

Not really, but it is what it is.
Not for lack of trying. I managed to fail an Access course Blush

hotmumshit · 13/08/2026 20:57

XenoBitch · 13/08/2026 20:26

I didn't even finish my first year. Failed all coursework and exams.
Left (was actually kicked out) sixth form and did a GNVQ instead that I only just scraped a pass on, and had to get someone else to do one assignment as I did not understand it at all.
That GNVQ is the highest level of qualification I have Blush

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Nowt wrong with it - did your life turn out okay? ❤️

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MildlyMoist · 13/08/2026 20:57

BBC in the dim dark past, when they were marked on a bell curve so the number of each grade was restricted. English Lit, French with French Lit (distinction for spoken), German with German Lit (distinction for spoken). And all that despite being bullied by a new teacher (later struck off for that shit) and barely being there in my final year. Made my first choice and insurance for university, but couldn’t face doing any of it after my horrible U6 year, so binned it all off, got a job, learned to drive, and reapplied for completely new subjects with my results and got 5 unconditional offers. Ended up on a course which gave me two subjects that lead directly to niche career jobs which I’ve now been in for over 30 years.

Things have a habit of coming out right in the end.

MirandaWest · 13/08/2026 20:52

Maths, Physics, General Studies A
Further Maths B
Chemistry C

Mid 90s so A was the highest.

StrawberryWater · 13/08/2026 20:49

A - English Lit
B - English Language
D - Sociology

21 years ago. I feel old!

Would've done better in Sociology if I'd realised there were questions on the other side of the paper. I got my first choice uni (Bristol) so wasn't fussed overall.

XenoBitch · 13/08/2026 20:26

I didn't even finish my first year. Failed all coursework and exams.
Left (was actually kicked out) sixth form and did a GNVQ instead that I only just scraped a pass on, and had to get someone else to do one assignment as I did not understand it at all.
That GNVQ is the highest level of qualification I have Blush

Fulbe · 13/08/2026 20:24

C, D, E, and dropped out of one. I now have a doctorate (in the subject I got an E in!)