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AIBU to complain about neighbours turning adjacent land into a lorry park and bonfire?

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Redmistdecended · 13/08/2026 08:31

Long time lurker, first time poster, please be kind.

We moved into our new property about three months ago. It’s a lovely house, and to the right-hand side is a large patch of grass. When we viewed the house, I was already imagining spending hot summer days out there with my DD, as we don’t have a front garden.

On moving day, however, there was an 18-wheeler parked on the land. The owner came over and rather gleefully informed me that he’d bought the land and was turning it into a car park for his monster trucks.

I honestly feel like we should have been told about this before buying the house, but obviously that’s water under the bridge now. What I wasn’t prepared for was quite how much of an impact it would have.

Over the first couple of weeks there was a huge amount of work done. They’ve created a large mound of earth, which now blows dust into our house, put up what I think is pretty ugly Harris fencing and planted a load of trees, which have subsequently all died. There are now large vehicles parked right up against the edge of our drive, to the point that my view when pulling out is becoming obstructed.

They’ve also damaged/removed part of the fence at the back of our property. They’ve repeatedly said they’ll replace it, but it’s been weeks and nothing has happened.
The whole thing is now a complete eyesore, and I’m genuinely worried about what it’s doing to the value and enjoyment of our property.

Then last night was the final straw.

It was the hottest night of the year, and they decided to have a fire in their back garden. At first I assumed they were just burning a few bits and thought it would be over fairly quickly. But at around 11pm, when I was getting ready for bed, I looked outside and there was smoke absolutely billowing towards our house and directly into my two-year-old’s bedroom window.
I completely lost my temper.

I went through the broken section of the fence and confronted them. I was absolutely furious and, I’ll admit, I was swearing and called them disrespectful pricks. Not my finest moment, but after weeks of putting up with everything, seeing smoke pouring into my child’s bedroom at 11pm pushed me over the edge.
I’m now concerned that this isn’t a one-off, either. They’ve got a large pile of material next to our house and it looks very much like they intend to burn more of it.

So, what do I actually do here?

I’m thinking about contacting Environmental Health because of the smoke/dust, and I also want to find out whether the car park/monster truck use, earthworks, fencing etc actually have the necessary planning permissions.
I’m also wondering what, if anything, I can do about the damage to our fence and the effect all of this is having on our property.
I know I’ve been extremely emotional about it, and I’m probably too close to the situation now, so I’d really appreciate some practical advice about what avenues I should be looking at.
Am I completely overreacting, or is this something I should actually be taking up with the council/planning/environmental health?

And if there is any recourse with my solicitors regarding this eyesore, any help much appreciated.

AIBU - To start a war with my neighbours?

OP posts:
NotEnoughRoom · 13/08/2026 10:16

If you only bought three months ago, I’d be going back to the solicitor and asking what the status of the neighbouring land was at the time -
for them to have bought the land (and change of use, assuming planning permission…!!) that would have come up?

not sure you can do much about ugly fencing/dead trees.

re the bonfires - prob depending on your local authority , but could be environmental health, or even local fire station as particular in current weather, the risk of the fire spreading is significant.

do you have legal cover on your home insurance? Sometimes there is a free helpline you can call for advice.

Goldengirl123 · 13/08/2026 10:11

Did you buy the property or are you renting it?

Decostyle · 13/08/2026 10:09

I’d call your local fire brigade and speak to a fire officer regarding your neighbour’s plans to start more fires. Given it can start a wider fire and threaten your property. It might prompt a visit.
As pp said, check planning at the council, land registry etc too.

Ineedanewsofa · 13/08/2026 10:03

As per PP, report it to planning as it’s probably change of use. Before you do go onto the Land Registry website and look at the ownership and classification of the land - he says he bought it but you’ve only got his word for it! Also knowing that it’s classed as agricultural land (for example) when he’s not using it for that purpose makes the conversation with planning 10x easier. You will have to make a nuisance of yourself with the council planning dept to get them to actually do anything however, so be prepared to chase/nag for an extended period of time.
As regards to the fire in this weather that’s just bloody dangerous, call the fire brigade if they do it again!

Whyherewego · 13/08/2026 10:00

I would definitely contact environment health and the coincil. I am not surebwhat else to suggest. You maybe need to do some research on what the usage of the land means from a planning permission perspective. It should have been thrown up in searches if there was a planning application. But generally if it's land and just being usd to park trucks there's not much you can do.
It may be worth trying to approach them to negotiate some compromise ? A nice hedge or something to screen it off?

purplecorkheart · 13/08/2026 09:58

Probably first step is to contact the council and see if he needs Planning Permission and does he have it.

Goldengirl123 · 13/08/2026 09:58

What did they say when you confronted them?

Redmistdecended · 13/08/2026 09:56

Bump! Any help out there please?

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AlwaysGardening · 13/08/2026 08:37

I'm pretty sure that kind of change of use would need planning permission which would have come up in your searches whilst buying. You can do a search yourself on your council's website to see if anything comes up. If there's nothing I think I would ring the council's planning department and describe what has happened and ask their advice.