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AIBU to blame people who constantly pay high prices for food and drink at events for keeping those prices high?

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Weeeeeeeeeee · 13/08/2026 00:53

Went to watch The Hundred the other day. Got the cheap seats (restricted view - £12.50 per adult and £5 per child). We took food and drink. Bought some drinks from the bar but waaay too expensive to have as many as we'd have liked.

Husband took little one off for a promised ice cream (it was hot and young children love an ice cream treat). It was £8 per ice cream (one was a Cornetto, the other two scoops in a pot). Wtaf?! I don't know how anyone can justify charging that. I also wonder how on earth people with more than one child are meant to afford it. Had hubby realised the cost, before promising the little one an ice cream, he wouldn't have said ice cream was on the cards! Won't be doing that again, for sure.

AIBU to blame people who repeatedly pay such exorbitant prices for these prices being maintained? If everyone took a stance and refused, surely they'd have to come down.

I wonder if it's some sort of sick joke to see how much can be charged and people will still pay...

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Weeeeeeeeeee · 17/08/2026 06:20

Yeah, either free or very low-cost, rather than ticketed events.

We tried the cinema once but he didn't like it - too noisy! We're giving it another go, this week. Got £5 tickets ☺️ Let's see how that goes. I took him to the trampoline park a few weeks ago (but he's been a few times for birthday parties) - they don't charge for adults during certain sessions and the children's price is reduced. With soft play, he's not always a huge fan of it but we go for parties. He loves simple things like watching / going on trains, sitting by the canal and seeing the barges / watching the locks while he eats an ice cream (not £8!), going to the library. Of course, we go to the park, too. He also likes museums. We've been lucky to be given free tickets to a football match and the cricket, before now - he enjoyed them but wasn't sure about the noise at the football. And we have a holiday once a year. So, we take him out but without having to spend much, if anything. We do invest a lot of time into him, though, reading, playing, doing sports, growing things in the garden, making music. We both condense our hours so we have a day off with him in the week and then it's family time at the weekend. He's a very loved, well-rounded, thriving little lad. We really want to take him to London to see a show (though he's more interested in going on a London bus and taking a trip up in a glass lift!) so we're trying to save for that for either next year or the year after. The train fare alone will be around £100 and that's before we've booked theatre tickets, a hotel and considered spending money.

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Roaring111111 · 17/08/2026 00:52

Weeeeeeeeeee · 17/08/2026 00:34

Yup, and after the mortgage, council tax, utility bills, food, running two cars, nursery fees and some small savings pots are accounted for, there's not a lot left over.

Days out are a treat. We're grateful for the ones we have. We're teaching our little one to be grateful for them, too.

So do you just have days out you can do for free? Go to the park or the beach? What do you do for days out in the winter?

Do you never take them swimming or to the cinema or the soft play except for these couple of days a year?

Weeeeeeeeeee · 17/08/2026 00:34

Roaring111111 · 17/08/2026 00:11

OP has a household income of £115k per year? And only has a couple of family days worth £35 per year. I do think that’s very sad. Kids are only young once.

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Yup, and after the mortgage, council tax, utility bills, food, running two cars, nursery fees and some small savings pots are accounted for, there's not a lot left over.

Days out are a treat. We're grateful for the ones we have. We're teaching our little one to be grateful for them, too.

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Roaring111111 · 17/08/2026 00:11

KindlySurfiingPlatypus · 17/08/2026 00:02

What a sense of entitlement and privilege to write this.

Many people can't afford this kind of thing even once a year. Managing it a couple of times a year is already giving the children treats that some never get and you think that's a shame?

"Let them eat cake" springs to mind.

OP has a household income of £115k per year? And only has a couple of family days worth £35 per year. I do think that’s very sad. Kids are only young once.

KindlySurfiingPlatypus · 17/08/2026 00:02

Roaring111111 · 16/08/2026 22:06

This is so sad. Why do you only go out as a family once or twice a year? What a shame for the children.

What a sense of entitlement and privilege to write this.

Many people can't afford this kind of thing even once a year. Managing it a couple of times a year is already giving the children treats that some never get and you think that's a shame?

"Let them eat cake" springs to mind.

Roaring111111 · 16/08/2026 22:06

Weeeeeeeeeee · 13/08/2026 01:23

I didn't pay anything and, yeah, I'm pretty sure I would have done the same as you.

It was a very rare family day out and the kid had been promised an ice cream as a special treat (which he'd been looking forward to since the day before). Kind of sad to then say no (was my DH's take). We have a family day out like that once or twice a year.

This is so sad. Why do you only go out as a family once or twice a year? What a shame for the children.

Netcurtainnelly · 14/08/2026 14:10

ParsleySageToiletDuckAndBinBags · 13/08/2026 21:56

This is our feeling too, most of the time. Where we're staying now, the car park prices have risen from £6 for the day a couple of years ago (which seemed steep then) to £10 now. There's very little to no alternative if you want to spend the day there.

They've also started charging 30p a go for the (quite grim) toilets, even when you just need to wash your hands after eating a sticky ice cream or similar - making the total cost to you for a treat even more. It gets to a point where you no longer feel that you're contributing fairly to the local economy, but just being rinsed at every turn.

With food and drink vans at events and festivals, whatever the breakdown of the charges, somebody is using them to make a lot of extra money.

As far as we're concerned, we would pay a somewhat elevated price, but once it reaches a certain point, we just say No and thus don't spend anything with them at all... but they obviously have enough people who are willing to pay those prices, so I doubt they care about the likes of us.

Alot of people are lazy but laziness costs money.

JustGiveMeReason · 13/08/2026 22:50

I don't know which ground you were at, for The Hundred, but at Edgbaston you can scan out of the ground, go to Aldi just across the road, but a whole box of ice creams and bring them back in the ground. I am amazed anyone is daft enough to buy one in the ground.

I think you are being silly across the first couple of pages denying that "you" fed into it by buying stuff, when people are clearly referring to your family / the plural version of 'you' as a couple.

There are plenty of water stations around the ground if you had actually drunk all you could carry (or, again, see note about Aldi). It has already been said on this thread it is the same at Trent Bridge, and I wouldn't be surprised if it is similar at other grounds.

All that said, I agree that the vendors will sell whilst people buy. I think the prices are ridiculous, BUT, at least at the cricket you are allowed to take in a whole coolbox full of food and drink, unlike so many stadia for sports or arenas etc for gigs.

ParsleySageToiletDuckAndBinBags · 13/08/2026 21:56

Netcurtainnelly · 13/08/2026 21:41

Everywhere is a rip off. Everyone is on the make. Take your own stuff .

This is our feeling too, most of the time. Where we're staying now, the car park prices have risen from £6 for the day a couple of years ago (which seemed steep then) to £10 now. There's very little to no alternative if you want to spend the day there.

They've also started charging 30p a go for the (quite grim) toilets, even when you just need to wash your hands after eating a sticky ice cream or similar - making the total cost to you for a treat even more. It gets to a point where you no longer feel that you're contributing fairly to the local economy, but just being rinsed at every turn.

With food and drink vans at events and festivals, whatever the breakdown of the charges, somebody is using them to make a lot of extra money.

As far as we're concerned, we would pay a somewhat elevated price, but once it reaches a certain point, we just say No and thus don't spend anything with them at all... but they obviously have enough people who are willing to pay those prices, so I doubt they care about the likes of us.

Netcurtainnelly · 13/08/2026 21:47

malificent7 · 13/08/2026 07:53

Yanbu op. These prices are ridiculous and the vendors are greedy.

They are, anyone seen the prices at the Athletics stadium in Birmingham this week. Seventeen pound for a pork roll. No chance 😕
Stop ripping everyone off.

Netcurtainnelly · 13/08/2026 21:41

Weeeeeeeeeee · 13/08/2026 00:53

Went to watch The Hundred the other day. Got the cheap seats (restricted view - £12.50 per adult and £5 per child). We took food and drink. Bought some drinks from the bar but waaay too expensive to have as many as we'd have liked.

Husband took little one off for a promised ice cream (it was hot and young children love an ice cream treat). It was £8 per ice cream (one was a Cornetto, the other two scoops in a pot). Wtaf?! I don't know how anyone can justify charging that. I also wonder how on earth people with more than one child are meant to afford it. Had hubby realised the cost, before promising the little one an ice cream, he wouldn't have said ice cream was on the cards! Won't be doing that again, for sure.

AIBU to blame people who repeatedly pay such exorbitant prices for these prices being maintained? If everyone took a stance and refused, surely they'd have to come down.

I wonder if it's some sort of sick joke to see how much can be charged and people will still pay...

Everywhere is a rip off. Everyone is on the make. Take your own stuff .

Petuniapetals · 13/08/2026 21:18

I went to watch baseball at the Yankee Stadium recently. I bought a mini-bucket with two ice-creams that looked exactly like chicken drumsticks, complete with pretzel bones and white chocolate and crushed cornflakes for breadcrumbs . Cost was $10.99. Shared with a friend and we were both ridiculously excited and loved them. No-one forced me to buy them, we had a great evening and will keep the happy memories.

riceuten · 13/08/2026 16:14

That's like blaming house prices soaring on people buying housing. They should refuse to buy until prices reduce!

Letmeknowifyouchangeyourmind · 13/08/2026 15:33

We were at Efteling recently and there was a cart with helium balloons at the entrance to the park. 3DGCs wanted one and I explained that it would be silly to drag them all around the park as they would probably get lost and they wouldn't be able to take them on the rides. I did, however, say that I would get them one at the end of the day. I went to the stall as we were leaving and discovered that the balloons were 14.50 each. I had to explain that I actually didn't have enough money to buy them (I did, but 14.50 for a balloon WTF?). It wasn't about the money - we ended up giving them 20 euros each to spend in the shop - but that's a ludicrous price for something that would probably be floating up to the sky in 10 minutes time.

We absolutely loved Efteling and will definitely go back - but no balloons will be on the agenda!

ApplePieCinamon · 13/08/2026 15:05

Baital · 13/08/2026 14:55

It's not about being 'stingy' - it's about choosing how to spend your money. And letting other people make different choices.

Exactly and people chose to spend on £8 ice creams and op had a choice not to.

ParsleySageToiletDuckAndBinBags · 13/08/2026 15:03

Baital · 13/08/2026 12:35

So why doesn't one company just reduce their price a little? Their profits would go up because of their higher sales (a slightly smaller profit per unit, but lots more units sold). Your theory doesn't make sense, no matter how much you attack me.

They often do - especially in the own-brand sectors - but branding is extremely powerful.

Even going back to the actual milkshake example, Lidl sell their own boxes which are a little over half the price of Nesquik and you get approaching twice as much (and imho it's a lot nicer). Often, though, with the branding manipulation, being so much cheaper will often work against it, with people assuming - fed by the countless big-brand adverts - that the 'cheapo' stuff must be rubbish and nasty.

The main brands don't care about wooing the people who either won't or can't pay their prices, as it would be a losing battle. They know that there are enough people who will pay their prices, regardless of cheaper alternatives, or bringing food and drink from home, or drinking tap water or whatever.

Baital · 13/08/2026 14:55

It's not about being 'stingy' - it's about choosing how to spend your money. And letting other people make different choices.

ApplePieCinamon · 13/08/2026 14:16

Pedant61 · 13/08/2026 09:25

Your tickets were dirt cheap for a whole day, OP. So, even including drinks and ice cream, it was a bargain day out. Stop complaining.

Exactly what’s a stingy person the op is. Drank tap water and food from home, dirt cheap tickets, drinks bought for them, and the day cost her £16!

ApplePieCinamon · 13/08/2026 14:14

Op you seem to think everyone is struggling. Have you been to London? Have you been to restaurants in London? Queues out the door. They charge those prices because people like you pay it. Who cares if it’s your dh, you’re from the same family.
I’ve also never been to a theatre that allows own food and tickets that cheap. So you scored in other ways. Stop whingeing because overall you saved. Or your could have taken your own ice cream.

LBFseBrom · 13/08/2026 14:07

Since when has having an ice cream been a long anticipated treat?

tokennamechange · 13/08/2026 13:13

I'm not really sure why you needed to explain stuff like "young children love an ice cream treat", and even more so "when it's hot" which isn't exactly rocket science or something that needs justification, but it does sort of explain why you don't make the connection between your group spending excess amount of money on unnecessary stuff but being critical of others for doing the exact same!

if people didn't pay extortionate prices maybe prices might come down. Or perhaps venders would just not sell anything as it wouldn't be worth it.

Baital · 13/08/2026 12:35

TeaAndALittlePeace · 13/08/2026 09:32

Grow up. I’m not saying that at all.

I’m saying there was a spike in prices because of Covid etc, but the prices (conveniently) never go back down again do they. They’re all riding on the back of it. Not just milkshake companies. And it’s not ‘a conspiracy theory’. It’s Greedflation.

So why doesn't one company just reduce their price a little? Their profits would go up because of their higher sales (a slightly smaller profit per unit, but lots more units sold). Your theory doesn't make sense, no matter how much you attack me.

TeaAndALittlePeace · 13/08/2026 09:32

Baital · 13/08/2026 09:16

That makes no sense. Unless you think there is a conspiracy among milkshake companies to artificially raise prices.

Otherwise all it takes is one company to charge less and they will get all the sales and make a huge profit.

Grow up. I’m not saying that at all.

I’m saying there was a spike in prices because of Covid etc, but the prices (conveniently) never go back down again do they. They’re all riding on the back of it. Not just milkshake companies. And it’s not ‘a conspiracy theory’. It’s Greedflation.

Pedant61 · 13/08/2026 09:25

Your tickets were dirt cheap for a whole day, OP. So, even including drinks and ice cream, it was a bargain day out. Stop complaining.

RedToothBrush · 13/08/2026 09:24

Weeeeeeeeeee · 13/08/2026 01:12

He absolutely didn't and I thought he was a bloody idiot for doing so.

On the fence about upsetting the kid, though.

The drinks weren't 4x what they'd cost outside the ground. And one drink over 6.5 hours... Need to stay hydrated and we'd got through everything we could carry!

You do know the costs of running large venues do you?

They often ARE four times the price of buying an item from the supermarket. Or even an ice cream van.

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