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If you had to be dropped into any country with no money, which country and what would you do to get by?

62 replies

Cantloseyou · 12/08/2026 22:01

First I thought Japan and busking (the Japanese love English music). Then I thought maybe South USA for some southern hospitality and maybe my British accent would get me some free drinks?

OP posts:
PrettyLittleRose · 17/08/2026 20:42

mrsm43s · 17/08/2026 17:22

Somehow, in a mythical world where I was dropped without any money into any country of my choice I didn't think we were considering legal practilities. But if we were, I guess I'd have 90 days to earn enough cash in hand to pay for my transit back home to my family, home and money. France would still be the best bet, as I speak the language, and the journey home would be cheap!

Didn't take long for Brexit to be brought up did it? Wink

PrettyLittleRose · 17/08/2026 20:40

Canada. many of them speak the same language as me (English) and if I get dropped in a French speaking part of the country, my French is good enough to get by. Also I feel I would be looked after. I don't know what I would do to get by, apart from casual work, maybe moose grooming, or collecting sap from maple trees.

EarthlyNightshade · 17/08/2026 20:40

caringcarer · 12/08/2026 22:02

The UK. Go on benefits.

Would you be happy in a hotel with all the other asylum seekers?

MMAMPWGHAP · 17/08/2026 20:36

Germany. They’re always so surprised at a Brit making an effort and are really friendly. Would love to work on getting more Brits to go to Sylt & Rügen.

WeddingDressguest · 17/08/2026 20:24

Iceland. Offer to help out on a sheep farm.

Morepositivemum · 17/08/2026 20:23

Germany. I’d tell a few jokes and hopefully befriend some people who would be all about helping me get sorted!!

TaleOfTwoHalves · 17/08/2026 17:51

MendingWall · 17/08/2026 17:34

What is it you think I’m unaware of?

What is it you think I’m ignorant of?

MendingWall · 17/08/2026 17:34

TaleOfTwoHalves · 17/08/2026 16:33

Ignorance ??

LOL.

Wake up.

What is it you think I’m unaware of?

Carouseloflife · 17/08/2026 17:28

Gibraltar

TheGreatDownandOut · 17/08/2026 17:26

The USA. Preferably in the Wild West. I’d rustle cattle or volunteer as a ranch hand.

mrsm43s · 17/08/2026 17:22

Millytante · 17/08/2026 17:16

Avez-vous not entendu de la Brexitte, Madame?

Somehow, in a mythical world where I was dropped without any money into any country of my choice I didn't think we were considering legal practilities. But if we were, I guess I'd have 90 days to earn enough cash in hand to pay for my transit back home to my family, home and money. France would still be the best bet, as I speak the language, and the journey home would be cheap!

Millytante · 17/08/2026 17:16

mrsm43s · 17/08/2026 16:46

France, because I speak French and have a UK teaching degree and so could probably find a job or set myself up as a private English teacher. And the cheese and wine are good too!

Avez-vous not entendu de la Brexitte, Madame?

lmnabc · 17/08/2026 17:14

Venusunbroken · 17/08/2026 16:43

I’m afraid I’d also pick the uk, I don’t understand how it’s stupid. I’d get benefits and housing.

Not stupid at all. Once you’re in you’re in , and the tax payer pays for your upkeep

LoisGriffinskitchen · 17/08/2026 17:12

For you “all migrants get benefits” lot.

It’snot that simple, I occasionally have to support migrants, most get nothing more than asylum payments.

A friend of mine living here from Nigeria has three children, his wife was British and he was working 50 hr weeks, no need for benefits. He is high and dry after the sudden death of his wife. Three children under 7 to support and no state help until he can get leave to remain which he has long ago applied for but it’s now urgent.

So don’t tell me “they get everything “ because you just show the level of your ignorance,

MrsMoastyToasty · 17/08/2026 17:12

Wales. I live in England just the other side of the Bristol Channel. I've walked from Wales to England in the past using the old Severn Bridge.

MiceSpiders · 17/08/2026 17:08

It would make sense for it to be somewhere with a strong British tourism industry, easy to pick up casual waitressing/bar/promo rep work , probably a Greek island just because I'd like to be there anyway. Alternatively probably Germany, I speak German, have some German qualifications and they are fairly open to immigration

MsGreying · 17/08/2026 17:04

Cantloseyou · 12/08/2026 22:21

If you’re refused because you can’t show you’re habitually resident, it's usually best to:

  • make a new claim each week - until they agree you’re habitually resident
  • challenge each decision that you’re not habitually resident
Keep doing this until they agree you’re habitually resident.
Brawsome · 17/08/2026 16:59

Scottish. Boston. Easy.

Flintgranet · 17/08/2026 16:52

If this is like a temporary thing, in which I'm dropped there with no money but need help to contact/get home....

Ghana. I'd likely be adopted and eventually waddle out of my rescue a stone heavier. You want a place with hospitable people and good food.

NovemberMorn · 17/08/2026 16:51

Paris, France. I have only been once, but I was offered a job on my first day there by a very smart older woman as I was sitting in a square waiting for my OH to get some drinks.
Later my OH said it was in Paris's red-light district.

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 17/08/2026 16:50

New Zealand. We were offered a car to borrow twice when we were there by strangers. It's a high trust society, and quite a few hippy communities. Don't think it would take me long to get to one.

LemonSnail · 17/08/2026 16:50

Turkey or another Muslim country.

Stickywillow · 17/08/2026 16:50

The UK
Hardly any police, most crime appears to have been decriminalised so there would be no punishment for stealing, or very little and even if you go to prison, they're pretty cushy compared to other countries so yes it would have to be the UK.
Japan would just kick you right out OP. They are very strict about who they let reside in their country.

Sauceandwhizz · 17/08/2026 16:48

France. I'd find work on a campsite that also offers free lodging and help with the English speaking visitors. I could live on baguette, fries and croissants forever!

mrsm43s · 17/08/2026 16:46

France, because I speak French and have a UK teaching degree and so could probably find a job or set myself up as a private English teacher. And the cheese and wine are good too!

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