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If you had to be dropped into any country with no money, which country and what would you do to get by?

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Cantloseyou · 12/08/2026 22:01

First I thought Japan and busking (the Japanese love English music). Then I thought maybe South USA for some southern hospitality and maybe my British accent would get me some free drinks?

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Sgtmajormummy · 17/08/2026 23:47

Ireland.
I had a friend from Donegal who decided to become a vagabond and travel around for the summer as a social experiment for his thesis. This was in the 1980s.
In every village he walked or hitched through he first went to the priest’s house and got a meal or some money from the poor box.
Then he’d go to the pub, strike up a conversation and often get invited back for a night on the sofa, a shower and breakfast the next day.
It was warm enough to sleep rough and he arrived in Dublin exhausted and emaciated 3 months later without spending a penny of his own money.

I’m sure it helped that he was well spoken and respectful but it says a lot about the tolerance and generosity of people in Ireland at the time.
Probably still possible today.

crackofdoom · 17/08/2026 23:47

It would probably be either France, Italy or Greece, as I know those countries and speak fluent Italian and some French.

Best thing to do would be to find an intentional community looking for volunteers, so you're effectively swapping work for board. Or WWOOFing.

crackofdoom · 17/08/2026 23:44

MotherOfCrocodiles · 17/08/2026 23:21

Greek island. Never been there but Joni Mitchell wrote some great songs living in a cave on the beach.

Matala, in Crete. They don't let people live in the caves any more, but you might be able to pick up some orange picking work in Dec/Jan. Which is exactly what I did ooh....35 years ago. (I didn't stay in Matala though).

Redcars · 17/08/2026 23:37

In that case France isn’t bad. Good state safety net if you already have residency teach English as a foreign language, be a fruit picker learn a language, You could go to most places in the world as an au pair. Sweden or Denmark or Norway as its not so flipping hot,

MotherOfCrocodiles · 17/08/2026 23:21

Greek island. Never been there but Joni Mitchell wrote some great songs living in a cave on the beach.

AImportantMermaid · 17/08/2026 22:42

Saint Marie from Death in Paradise. I’d get a job in the bar or on the boats, swim in the beautiful sea, and make niknaks to sell to tourists.

NotAnotherScarf · 17/08/2026 22:37

MendingWall · 12/08/2026 22:39

Same ‘joke’, same ignorance.

Lovely work.

Actually no. George Mahood wrote a book on his experience of starting at lands end with just a pare of shorts...him and his mate...the goodwill of the British people got him to John o groats. So the UK is an option

Me the us, they love the Brits, especially if you can do various accents around the country. When I was 20 (not legally meant to drink but never had an issue) I got chatting to two rich Americans and their wives, the bought all my drinks and my food in an expensive restaurant and loved it that I had an accent they didn't know.. West Country...but could do Scouse, Scottish, cockney, Welsh and generic northern.

What I would do is be like Jack reacher and explore the towns off the beaten track.

mrsm43s · 17/08/2026 21:54

Millytante · 17/08/2026 21:02

I thought the Franglais would tip you off about my not being serious.

I just thought you spoke really bad French! C'est pourquoi je n'ai pas répondu en français!

AplineDaisies · 17/08/2026 21:49

@SchnitzelAgain How did you end up in that situation and how did you get out?

Minasama · 17/08/2026 21:45

Austria because it’s beautiful and I speak the language, not sure what I would do!!!

Lilacpheonix · 17/08/2026 21:44

Greece... more specifically: Crete, initially rely on their incredible hospitality to get on my feet, then find work in a hotel for the summer and learn olive tree farming out of tourist season, and yes- I would learn the language (already learning)

Otherwise, it'll be Germany or Switzerland as my German and French is passable.

FindingMeno · 17/08/2026 21:42

I did it. Tourist resort. Sleep where you can ( good climate helps this) and walk around asking for waitressing/ bar / chambermaid work.
I didn't have no money at all though, but very little, and not enough for hotels or to get home again.
Found live-in work on the 2nd day.
Oh the confidence of youth!!!

Slowlorissa · 17/08/2026 21:35

Probably Australia as we speak the same language and I could get a job! Sheep shearing!

TheContinent · 17/08/2026 21:34

I have done it. Came just with a plane ticket my aupair family bought me, moved from aupair to aupair, met a man and moved in with him. It has been 20 years now

JesseDavisGonnaHangOnInThereNSoul · 17/08/2026 21:32

Finland join the reindeer herders and make them mince and tatties.
Or go to England and force mince ,tatties ,mealy pudding on folk.

Flannelfeet · 17/08/2026 21:31

Poland.. i could live with family and happily eat fruit from the orchard they have. (Born and bred scottish with polish, German, Irish family. Spent my childhood summers in Poland and absolutely loved it there, sadly the last trip i had there at 20 I was very ill, rushed to hospital 2 days after i arrived home with a pulmonary embolism and told i couldn't fly again unless I took blood thinking injections 6 months before and 6 months after 🥹. They are bloody horrible so I haven't been back since 💔.

Atleastitsnotsunstroke · 17/08/2026 21:23

Somewhere in Africa, v friendly people.

TheeNotoriousPIG · 17/08/2026 21:21

Erm, probably rural New Zealand, because I can milk cows and would earn money that way!

I'd prefer France, though. I've always wanted to learn fluent French. The only issue is that I'm intolerant to cheese, and I don't like wine... and if learning Welsh is anything to go by, I might not be good at picking up French, either!

Trouserissues · 17/08/2026 21:08

This happened to my cat. Well, metaphorically.
He escaped his carrier in a place that wasn't his home.
He survived by becoming street and picking up a different caccent for a few weeks. He stole food and slept a lot. It changed him.

Millytante · 17/08/2026 21:02

mrsm43s · 17/08/2026 17:22

Somehow, in a mythical world where I was dropped without any money into any country of my choice I didn't think we were considering legal practilities. But if we were, I guess I'd have 90 days to earn enough cash in hand to pay for my transit back home to my family, home and money. France would still be the best bet, as I speak the language, and the journey home would be cheap!

I thought the Franglais would tip you off about my not being serious.

ReallyTryingToAsk · 17/08/2026 21:02

Yogabearmous · 13/08/2026 07:00

Spain. I have always liked the thought of moving there and just winging it. Seems like a nice country with an ex-pat community to help.

You mean join an immigrant community…in another country…

Eat British food in British bars, buy from British shops, speak in your own language…use your GHIC for free treatment…

Not getting at you, but the irony of Brits abroad as against our view of immigrants here.

ReallyTryingToAsk · 17/08/2026 21:00

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Dmsandfloatydress · 17/08/2026 20:55

Australia. Loads of work and lots of acquaintances I could tap up for a bed for fhe night. Then bugger off to go and work on a sheep station

powershowerforanhour · 17/08/2026 20:53

If it has to be a foreign country :
Across the border in Donegal, walk to the nearest road, get the thumb out and go home.

Bogstandardname · 17/08/2026 20:50

Has to be UK. Soon be on benefits.

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