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youalright · 12/08/2026 19:17

Admit it who peeked, can't of just been me 🤣🤣🤣

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RobertaFirmino · 16/08/2026 19:38

ManipulativeLiar · 16/08/2026 13:48

Your whole thread is really poorly judged. It’s no laughing matter to risk your eyesight and your stupidity could mislead others too.

Somehow, I don't think anyone was duped into looking at an eclipse that had already occured...

youalright · 16/08/2026 18:48

ManipulativeLiar · 16/08/2026 13:48

Your whole thread is really poorly judged. It’s no laughing matter to risk your eyesight and your stupidity could mislead others too.

Well 65% of people agreed with me. And the people who haven't have spent the whole thread name calling and being nasty. I'm happy I'm on the side I'm on with this one. The 35% have shown their nastiness and immaturity throughout.

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ManipulativeLiar · 16/08/2026 13:48

youalright · 16/08/2026 12:23

And you can keep name calling it just makes you look nasty. Love

Your whole thread is really poorly judged. It’s no laughing matter to risk your eyesight and your stupidity could mislead others too.

youalright · 16/08/2026 12:23

Mydietstartstomorrow · 16/08/2026 09:41

😂
look love, you can argue with everyone that’s not agreed with your comment it really doesn’t make you look any less stupid just more so!

And you can keep name calling it just makes you look nasty. Love

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Mydietstartstomorrow · 16/08/2026 09:41

youalright · 16/08/2026 08:33

So you never looked at the sun?

😂
look love, you can argue with everyone that’s not agreed with your comment it really doesn’t make you look any less stupid just more so!

youalright · 16/08/2026 08:33

Mydietstartstomorrow · 16/08/2026 08:17

I’m a Vision rehab specialist that’s why. I expect we’ll be hearing from you in a few years

So you never looked at the sun?

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Mydietstartstomorrow · 16/08/2026 08:17

youalright · 15/08/2026 18:27

You seem really paranoid about looking at the sun which people do every day. Have you never looked at the sun?

I’m a Vision rehab specialist that’s why. I expect we’ll be hearing from you in a few years

Hohumbrumbrum · 15/08/2026 23:56

ForPearlViper · 15/08/2026 22:59

There is a difference. Usually the brightness of the sun means you can only look for a second. When the sun is shaded out by the moon and because of the novelty of the eclipse people tend to look for longer and it takes very little time for the rays to damage your retina. The damage is permanent and it takes time for the effects to become clear. There were many well qualified people explaining this in the news media.

If you think you know better and want to gamble with your vision go for it.

I'm guessing you didn't take a peek then. If you did, you'd have seen that it was just as difficult to look at as the sun normally. People would be struggling to do more than glimpses.

youalright · 15/08/2026 23:09

ForPearlViper · 15/08/2026 22:59

There is a difference. Usually the brightness of the sun means you can only look for a second. When the sun is shaded out by the moon and because of the novelty of the eclipse people tend to look for longer and it takes very little time for the rays to damage your retina. The damage is permanent and it takes time for the effects to become clear. There were many well qualified people explaining this in the news media.

If you think you know better and want to gamble with your vision go for it.

It wasn't a total eclipse you couldn't look at it more then a second as the sun is the sun. There was no difference between looking at that and opening your blinds or when your driving sometimes you look at the sun.

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ForPearlViper · 15/08/2026 22:59

youalright · 15/08/2026 21:46

There is no difference people on this thread are dramatic

There is a difference. Usually the brightness of the sun means you can only look for a second. When the sun is shaded out by the moon and because of the novelty of the eclipse people tend to look for longer and it takes very little time for the rays to damage your retina. The damage is permanent and it takes time for the effects to become clear. There were many well qualified people explaining this in the news media.

If you think you know better and want to gamble with your vision go for it.

Hohumbrumbrum · 15/08/2026 22:58

Velumental · 15/08/2026 22:35

If damage is done it's done but you'll want to know

Why? If there are no symptoms and nothing you can do about it?

And if it can happen months later, how can you know it was that particular day that caused the damage?

arethereanyleftatall · 15/08/2026 22:37

Velumental · 15/08/2026 22:35

If damage is done it's done but you'll want to know

But would I get signs within the coming month?

Velumental · 15/08/2026 22:35

arethereanyleftatall · 15/08/2026 22:34

So I had a look on Vision Express website, as that’s who I went to, and their advanced test (which is what I had) does include an OCT scan. The optician said all was fine. Do you recommend I go back in a month or so to have another one, or is it futile if damage is already done?

If damage is done it's done but you'll want to know

arethereanyleftatall · 15/08/2026 22:34

Velumental · 15/08/2026 17:16

Believe me or don't, the first damage can show up in 12-24 hours but it takes several weeks for the initially I flammed photoreceptors cells to subside and the true vision loss to show up. The last one I saw was 6 weeks after the day of damage almost to the day when it was picked up. If you have an OCT scan now it'll show up but the full loss of the photoreceptor cells and the blind spot in your vision progresses for weeks.

So I had a look on Vision Express website, as that’s who I went to, and their advanced test (which is what I had) does include an OCT scan. The optician said all was fine. Do you recommend I go back in a month or so to have another one, or is it futile if damage is already done?

nocoolnamesleft · 15/08/2026 21:46

I didn’t peek. I know too many ophthalmologists.

youalright · 15/08/2026 21:46

MarilynMerlot · 15/08/2026 21:45

I admit I don’t quite get it, over the years I’ve opened a window or turned when doing the washing or been driving and been momentarily ‘argh’ at the sun straight in my bloody eyes. Why is catching an eclipse for a second different? (And I just had my vision check up so no those moments in the car/garden had no effect). Not that I would look at one but I don’t get why it’s terrible when we naturally get the sun in our eyes by mistake all the time?

There is no difference people on this thread are dramatic

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MarilynMerlot · 15/08/2026 21:45

I admit I don’t quite get it, over the years I’ve opened a window or turned when doing the washing or been driving and been momentarily ‘argh’ at the sun straight in my bloody eyes. Why is catching an eclipse for a second different? (And I just had my vision check up so no those moments in the car/garden had no effect). Not that I would look at one but I don’t get why it’s terrible when we naturally get the sun in our eyes by mistake all the time?

arethereanyleftatall · 15/08/2026 21:44

Velumental · 15/08/2026 21:37

Ah, there's an earlier poster who gazed at it for an hour

I didn’t stare at it solidly for an hour. We glanced at it on and off for an hour. We were eating dinner.

Velumental · 15/08/2026 21:44

youalright · 15/08/2026 21:43

I have no idea what you're talking about i have made it very clear from the start and even in the title I peeked. How on earth can you look at the sun for an hour your body wouldn't let you like actually think about it.

Have a read through your thread, an earlier poster and her daughter looked afor an hour. You really can, not suggesting you should but you can

youalright · 15/08/2026 21:43

Velumental · 15/08/2026 21:37

Ah, there's an earlier poster who gazed at it for an hour

I have no idea what you're talking about i have made it very clear from the start and even in the title I peeked. How on earth can you look at the sun for an hour your body wouldn't let you like actually think about it.

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Velumental · 15/08/2026 21:37

youalright · 15/08/2026 21:35

What are you talking about i said i peeked so you are talking a second, you can't look at it for any longer without some form of protection as its the sun and your body won't let you. Why have you invented a different story in your head where ive now apparently stared at it for a prolonged period of time

Ah, there's an earlier poster who gazed at it for an hour

youalright · 15/08/2026 21:35

Velumental · 15/08/2026 21:29

There's not leaving the house and there's staring at an eclipse open eyes unprotected for prolonged periods of time. Which is about as sight threatening as sleeping in your contact lenses for months at a time or using shampoo as eye drops daily. It's doing something deliberately stupid and needlessly. I mean it's your eyes, I do not give 2 hoots if you've done yourself harm but for people reading this they should know it is real and it's only rare because most people aren't idiots.

What are you talking about i said i peeked so you are talking a second, you can't look at it for any longer without some form of protection as its the sun and your body won't let you. Why have you invented a different story in your head where ive now apparently stared at it for a prolonged period of time

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ManipulativeLiar · 15/08/2026 21:31

Velumental · 15/08/2026 21:29

There's not leaving the house and there's staring at an eclipse open eyes unprotected for prolonged periods of time. Which is about as sight threatening as sleeping in your contact lenses for months at a time or using shampoo as eye drops daily. It's doing something deliberately stupid and needlessly. I mean it's your eyes, I do not give 2 hoots if you've done yourself harm but for people reading this they should know it is real and it's only rare because most people aren't idiots.

Well said.

Velumental · 15/08/2026 21:29

youalright · 15/08/2026 21:27

But if you worried about every small risk you wouldn't leave the house

There's not leaving the house and there's staring at an eclipse open eyes unprotected for prolonged periods of time. Which is about as sight threatening as sleeping in your contact lenses for months at a time or using shampoo as eye drops daily. It's doing something deliberately stupid and needlessly. I mean it's your eyes, I do not give 2 hoots if you've done yourself harm but for people reading this they should know it is real and it's only rare because most people aren't idiots.

ManipulativeLiar · 15/08/2026 21:28

youalright · 15/08/2026 21:27

But if you worried about every small risk you wouldn't leave the house

I can’t work out if you are being goady or you are genuinely struggling to understand this