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To despair at the quality and choice of kids menus?

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KerfuffleShuffle · 12/08/2026 10:41

I'm currently in a major UK city with DD 5 years for 14 nights for DH's work. We're in a hotel so need to eat out at least once a day. I am absolutely fed up of the dross that makes ups kids menus. Just endless variations of cheap quality m nuggets/sausages and chips or bland pasta meals/margherita pizza. The only veg options are beans/peas or veggie stick starters.

I get that some children like the predictability of these meals, but what about the many children who don't? What about the children who enjoy a variety of foods and flavours? These aren't chain pubs where I understand these types of menu totally have their place and serve a need, but rather restaurants which have fresh and creative full adult menus.

I'm not anti junk at all, my DD is known to enjoy a happy meal more than I would like for admit -and thank goodness for fish fingers and potato waffles for a quick evening meal. But I wouldn't go out and order a freezer meal I can make at home, so why should children be expected to?

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LondonKara · 12/08/2026 10:54

Samanabanana · 12/08/2026 10:42

I always just ask the restaurant whether they can make a smaller/child sized version of their standard menu. Most are happy to oblige!

ETA - or get them an adults starter and side.

Edited

This isn't my experience at all. Most chains and a lot of independents where I have asked will not agree to do this and insist on full price adult meal.

And a starter and a side isn't really a meal either!

Jasnah · 12/08/2026 10:52

It seems to be very much a UK thing. In other countries, offering smaller portions of anything on the menu for the very young and very old is a common courtesy.

KerfuffleShuffle · 12/08/2026 10:52

GreyCarpet · 12/08/2026 10:46

Completely agree with you.

But proper restaurants will make you a smaller plate for the children if you ask, IME.

Thank you, I'm doing to try this tonight.

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KerfuffleShuffle · 12/08/2026 10:50

Thing is starter and sides don't make a coherent meal do they? I might start asking for smaller plate version from the main menu.

@mrsscroodledoodle I think you've hit the nail on head much more concisely than I did in my rant 😂

In a couple of chain restaurants defence, both Wagamamas and Yo! Offer brilliant kids menus suitable for children with band to adventurous tastes.

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Winter42 · 12/08/2026 10:46

I used to feel the same when mine were younger. You don't want to feed them crap (mine often wouldn't want anything on the kids menu but ordering an adult meal felt wasteful as they wouldn't eat a full portion). We liked Bistrot Pierre if there happens to be one nearby because they at least did a mini steak frites.

GreyCarpet · 12/08/2026 10:46

Completely agree with you.

But proper restaurants will make you a smaller plate for the children if you ask, IME.

mrsscroodledoodle · 12/08/2026 10:44

I just order starters or share normal portions between them (luckily close in age) but, culturally, I think it's quite sad.

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 12/08/2026 10:43

I always asked for a smaller portion of an adult meals, I've never been refused

GoodkneeBadKnee · 12/08/2026 10:43

Samanabanana · 12/08/2026 10:42

I always just ask the restaurant whether they can make a smaller/child sized version of their standard menu. Most are happy to oblige!

ETA - or get them an adults starter and side.

Edited

Yep. Not difficult really...

Samanabanana · 12/08/2026 10:42

I always just ask the restaurant whether they can make a smaller/child sized version of their standard menu. Most are happy to oblige!

ETA - or get them an adults starter and side.