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DH had a go about housework etc

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CocoBean22 · 11/08/2026 23:05

Tonight DH had a massive go at me for not loading and putting the dishwasher going when he got home from work, as I was at the beach all day with DS.
Said that the house is a tip (it’s not I’m just prioritising days out and doing things with DS on summer hols)
Ive gone to bed utterly pissed off as I feel like it was an unfair comment, I work part time and the days I have off with DS we are doing nice things during summer holidays.
Every day I will hoover, clean kitchen and bathrooms etc, but washing pile needs to be folded and things like toys tidied away but I figured that can wait until I get chance as making memories and having fun on the summer holidays is priority.
AIBU?

OP posts:
flaxensunshine · 11/08/2026 23:08

And what is the reason he can’t do those things?

InvitedWho · 11/08/2026 23:08

Is there something wrong with his own hands? Perhaps he has no hands?

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