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Any corvid experts around?? I have a self induced crow problem and I’m a bit scared!

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CrowTroubles · 10/08/2026 07:59

I know mumsnet tend to enjoy a crow story but if anyone knows anything about corvids I could really do with some advice!

About a year ago I started feeding a local crow family - nothing too formal, I’d just walk across to the park where they hang out, throw some food down, watch them eat and then we’d all move on with our day.

Over time they started meeting me on the park, if they weren’t there when I arrived they soon would be once I arrived. Two crows in particular became very reliable in showing up and one started coming very close to me. All very friendly.

In spring this pair had a baby and very cutely they brought this baby to meet me on the park. I know crows are notoriously protective of their young so I didn’t pay it too much attention, just carried on feeding the adults as normal.

trouble is this baby crow never seemed to have the usual wariness that the adults had, it would land right next to me, run up to me across the floor, land on fences right next to me - it didn’t give a shit.

3 months on this baby crow is now a juvenile and seems to have become a bit obsessed with me.

Now - today!! Omg … I walked out of my house and 5 crows were sat on my roof waiting for me - as I walked down the drive 3 of them performed fly bys over my head (one has done this before in a playful way but never 3 of them and never at my actual house!!!) as I walked to the field they followed closely performing multiple fly bys, landing on lamp posts, fences, signs etc … all around me. I got to the field and fed them there as usual but juvenile crow wouldn’t leave me alone … normally they just stay at the feeding spot but today he carried on following me and then … he mobbed me!! He flew up behind me and started flapping around my head, wouldn’t go away - I don’t know if he was contemplating landing ON me or actually being aggressive?! I left the park sharpish but he carried on flying towards me and I had to keep turning to face him to put him off.

what have I done?? Why does he hate me all of a sudden?? He’s now sat on my back fence just staring at the house 😬 are they just really hungry because of the relentless weather or have I made an enemy of this bird somehow?

OP posts:
Theresalittlebitofwitchinyou · 10/08/2026 12:06

They also enjoy fresh (not frozen) peas, potato and poached chicken. They also love shell on peanuts and will come almost to your hand over time. Signed someone who once had a lovely jackdaw who I nicknamed Rowan who I fed for years, he and his family left me many gifts and we enjoyed what were almost conversations. They knew when it was scraps time but sadly left when my psycho neighbour cut down his tree. I too hold grudges.

YouDoIDo · 10/08/2026 12:03

Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 10/08/2026 08:43

Congratulations you have a familiar.
I know in Australia when the maggies are mobbing, some people find wearing a cycle helmet or hard hat with a face drawn on the top discourages them. Of course you are going to look like an absolute nana walking around the park.
For corvids I dont think lack of food will be an issue if other wildlife are struggling. Sorry.

This made me giggle, although not sure why I read it in my head with an Aussie accent 😆

Cherrycola4 · 10/08/2026 12:00

Just read the OP out to my husband as we both love birds and a crow landed about a metre away from our open back door and looked in!

insomniacalways · 10/08/2026 11:58

My Mum had an issue with massive numbers of crows hanging out in her garden. Eating all the food scaring off little birds , attacking her dog. She ordered a fake hanging crow from Amazon, put it up on a tree branch. I was amazed but they were gone the next day. I never thought it would work.

MyBoldPanda · 10/08/2026 11:55

😁

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PunishmentSnart · 10/08/2026 11:52

I think he fancies you......

Are you single @CrowTroubles 😉

Cherrysoup · 10/08/2026 11:49

I fear he has imprinted on you. You have a pet for life!

OnTheLizzieLine · 10/08/2026 11:46

This sounds like a horror movie!

Never feed birds. Ever,

hereforthelolz · 10/08/2026 11:43

Aw I am quite jealous. I've been meaning to try and befriend the local crows for ages but maybe this is a bit intense!

A raven has appeared recently and I really want to make this my friend.

Whatmesurelynot · 10/08/2026 11:34

I feed the sparrows i throw seed across my lawn.

DoloresDelEriba · 10/08/2026 11:24

Put a paddling pool in the garden and stop feeding them… 🦅

WibbleVonBibble · 10/08/2026 10:59

This thread is delightful.

Isobel201 · 10/08/2026 10:25

your situation is exactly why the council have advised not to feed seagulls, they get too brave and steal food from humans.

Armorlux · 10/08/2026 10:17

AMurderofMurderingCrows · 10/08/2026 09:58

We drop bread in it to make your disgusting hose water taste better 🙄

😉

Oops - apologiesBlush

AMurderofMurderingCrows · 10/08/2026 09:58

Armorlux · 10/08/2026 09:54

I caught one fishing a very much alive newt out of my pond. I have been less welcoming since then.

Our Waitrose closed a couple of years ago @AMurderofMurderingCrows so maybe ours are desperate Grin They're welcome to the water I put out, if only they'd stop dropping bread in to soften it.

We drop bread in it to make your disgusting hose water taste better 🙄

😉

theonlyonestillawake · 10/08/2026 09:57

I don't have any advice, but I did enjoy the line "nothing formal" regarding your feeding of the crows. So, smart casual, dinner jacket not required?!

Armorlux · 10/08/2026 09:54

I caught one fishing a very much alive newt out of my pond. I have been less welcoming since then.

Our Waitrose closed a couple of years ago @AMurderofMurderingCrows so maybe ours are desperate Grin They're welcome to the water I put out, if only they'd stop dropping bread in to soften it.

Derpytiger · 10/08/2026 09:42

CrowTroubles · 10/08/2026 09:13

I follow him, I’ve just messaged him but not sure I’ll get a response, he must get thousands of messages

Or you could listen to the advice you've been given from someone who advises on this stuff as their job ☺️

AMurderofMurderingCrows · 10/08/2026 09:34

Slightyamusedandsilly · 10/08/2026 09:30

Sparkling? With ice?

Absolutely no sparkling, that gets right up our beaks. Ice on a hot day would be good. Round balls of ice with roses in the middle.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 10/08/2026 09:30

AMurderofMurderingCrows · 10/08/2026 09:20

Ignore this poster.

Keep feeding us.

We especially enjoy Waitrose nut and seed mix - the human type. A nice chopped strawberry would be good too.

We would also appreciate bottled Austrian spring water from a glass bottle, not your stagnant hose water 🙄

Sparkling? With ice?

AMurderofMurderingCrows · 10/08/2026 09:20

Pearlstillsinging · 10/08/2026 09:15

Why do you think that matters to the crows? They don't have to dig for worms. Do you actually know what crows eat?
As pp says, it isn't a good idea to feed wild birds currently because of risk of disease but it is never a good idea to feed them in summer, we should be encouraging them to use the natural resources available to them. Putting water out in hot summers is a better idea.

Ignore this poster.

Keep feeding us.

We especially enjoy Waitrose nut and seed mix - the human type. A nice chopped strawberry would be good too.

We would also appreciate bottled Austrian spring water from a glass bottle, not your stagnant hose water 🙄

CrowTroubles · 10/08/2026 09:18

Pearlstillsinging · 10/08/2026 09:15

Why do you think that matters to the crows? They don't have to dig for worms. Do you actually know what crows eat?
As pp says, it isn't a good idea to feed wild birds currently because of risk of disease but it is never a good idea to feed them in summer, we should be encouraging them to use the natural resources available to them. Putting water out in hot summers is a better idea.

I’ve got a bowl of water out for them. This feeding started last winter, it seemed like a nice thing to do at the time but clearly it’s got out of hand 😞

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CandidLurker · 10/08/2026 09:18

Derpytiger · 10/08/2026 08:12

The simple answer is to stop feeding them. They have started to expect food when they see you and you are reinforcing their expectations of food each time you feed them. At the moment it's not a great idea to feed wild birds due to the avian flu outbreak, it brings birds together into one area and increases the likelihood of disease spread through contact and excretions. I would suggest you stop completely, they will move on. It's summer so there's plenty of food available and unlikely to cause an issue in terms of their welfare.

(Wildlife expert here)

Agree. My neighbour was feeding crows in his garden. They were tapping loudly at my windows and then there’s the noise. I asked him to stop feeding them and at first he refused. However he obviously thought better of it as I’ve not seen him feeding them recently and their presence around my house/garden has definitely lessened.

Pearlstillsinging · 10/08/2026 09:15

CrowTroubles · 10/08/2026 08:29

the ground is so hard from the dry and hot weather it’s all cracked etc … past few weeks they have seemed hungrier than normal ?

Why do you think that matters to the crows? They don't have to dig for worms. Do you actually know what crows eat?
As pp says, it isn't a good idea to feed wild birds currently because of risk of disease but it is never a good idea to feed them in summer, we should be encouraging them to use the natural resources available to them. Putting water out in hot summers is a better idea.

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