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Any corvid experts around?? I have a self induced crow problem and I’m a bit scared!

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CrowTroubles · 10/08/2026 07:59

I know mumsnet tend to enjoy a crow story but if anyone knows anything about corvids I could really do with some advice!

About a year ago I started feeding a local crow family - nothing too formal, I’d just walk across to the park where they hang out, throw some food down, watch them eat and then we’d all move on with our day.

Over time they started meeting me on the park, if they weren’t there when I arrived they soon would be once I arrived. Two crows in particular became very reliable in showing up and one started coming very close to me. All very friendly.

In spring this pair had a baby and very cutely they brought this baby to meet me on the park. I know crows are notoriously protective of their young so I didn’t pay it too much attention, just carried on feeding the adults as normal.

trouble is this baby crow never seemed to have the usual wariness that the adults had, it would land right next to me, run up to me across the floor, land on fences right next to me - it didn’t give a shit.

3 months on this baby crow is now a juvenile and seems to have become a bit obsessed with me.

Now - today!! Omg … I walked out of my house and 5 crows were sat on my roof waiting for me - as I walked down the drive 3 of them performed fly bys over my head (one has done this before in a playful way but never 3 of them and never at my actual house!!!) as I walked to the field they followed closely performing multiple fly bys, landing on lamp posts, fences, signs etc … all around me. I got to the field and fed them there as usual but juvenile crow wouldn’t leave me alone … normally they just stay at the feeding spot but today he carried on following me and then … he mobbed me!! He flew up behind me and started flapping around my head, wouldn’t go away - I don’t know if he was contemplating landing ON me or actually being aggressive?! I left the park sharpish but he carried on flying towards me and I had to keep turning to face him to put him off.

what have I done?? Why does he hate me all of a sudden?? He’s now sat on my back fence just staring at the house 😬 are they just really hungry because of the relentless weather or have I made an enemy of this bird somehow?

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UnaGatita · 10/08/2026 17:42

I mean you could stop feeding them. But they know where you live. So I’d advise going away for a while and return with a really good disguise in a few weeks time. Good luck!

Unblushingly · 10/08/2026 17:37

lessglittermoremud · 10/08/2026 16:07

I would stop feeding them, they are highly intelligent and recognise faces, at least they see you as a friend instead of a foe!
If baby crow is getting overly brave then it will get worse when he is reaching adolescence if you don’t break the attachment now.
Ive seen pet crows (that haven’t been able to be released due to health problems) cause injuries to their keepers hands/faces when they’ve reached the teenage stage. It’s why I would never dream of trying to befriend them, they are big birds well equipped with claws and beak 😬

Well, not quite. The situation is more like the one that comes up on Mn all the time, about a cheeky fucker who expects to be entertained regularly with a three-course meal, and the people-pleaser who goes along with until they crack and start saying no, and wonder why the ‘guest’ is outraged!

FFSItsTooHot · 10/08/2026 17:35

I'm always amazed at how clever they are. I've witnessed them putting food in the path of oncoming cars in order to break it up into manageable pieces.

FFSItsTooHot · 10/08/2026 17:34

ZenNudist · 10/08/2026 08:17

Is anyone else getting hitchcock Vibes?

This is what I thought!

lessglittermoremud · 10/08/2026 16:07

I would stop feeding them, they are highly intelligent and recognise faces, at least they see you as a friend instead of a foe!
If baby crow is getting overly brave then it will get worse when he is reaching adolescence if you don’t break the attachment now.
Ive seen pet crows (that haven’t been able to be released due to health problems) cause injuries to their keepers hands/faces when they’ve reached the teenage stage. It’s why I would never dream of trying to befriend them, they are big birds well equipped with claws and beak 😬

Derpytiger · 10/08/2026 16:06

CrowTroubles · 10/08/2026 15:04

I am listening, thank you ☺️ I’ll stop feeding them but leave the water out. Can you tell me - was this juvenile attacking me or just getting a bit too excited? Sorry if you’ve already answered this, will read thread properly in a bit

Hi there are a few reasons they might attack - parents can be aggressive when the young start to venture out the nest just because they are protecting their young. But also they can attack because they are attracted to food. Corvids are smart so they would likely remember where and who they can get food. If they have got used to being fed this could explain it.

Great to leave water out, just be cautious about avian flu and regularly clean the bowl so it doesn't start becoming a vector for disease.

I love people who care about birds 💕

Armorlux · 10/08/2026 15:54

I once saw a little group of them, at an M6 service station car park, gather round a bin while one of them pulled a few items out. Obviously profitable as McDonald's fries and other goodies then scattered on the ground,quickly gobbled up.
It was so skilfully done that I couldn't help admiring them.

They didn't put the rubbish back though,so a minus mark there!

Happyjoe · 10/08/2026 15:48

hereforthelolz · 10/08/2026 12:58

How do I entice them to my garden? There's plenty in the area but never seen them in my garden, though I do have bird food out for all the other little poppets.

They will go for fat balls on those hanging feeders, the ones with huge spaces not mesh. They can empty, with the help of magpies, the whole lot in a day.

Unblushingly · 10/08/2026 15:46

Happyjoe · 10/08/2026 15:44

I wouldn't stop feeding, it's really hard out there on birds with the rock hard ground, in fact I'd think it was vital. Feed in different spots if worried about diseases and poop not spreading between birds.

I don't think the bird meant you any harm. By all means if you want to stop, then stop but I think I'd rather carry a brolly to protect myself and keep feeding until we get a bit more rain.

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But corvids aren’t dependent on anything from underground — there are ample natural sources of food available to them at the moment.

Happyjoe · 10/08/2026 15:46

Oh, an old friend in Rome started feeding a couple of pigeons on her balcony. Then was miffed that 50 used to turn up!

Happyjoe · 10/08/2026 15:44

I wouldn't stop feeding, it's really hard out there on birds with the rock hard ground, in fact I'd think it was vital. Feed in different spots if worried about diseases and poop not spreading between birds.

I don't think the bird meant you any harm. By all means if you want to stop, then stop but I think I'd rather carry a brolly to protect myself and keep feeding until we get a bit more rain.

lulubalu · 10/08/2026 15:32

this post made me LOL - sorry if its becoming a genuine problem but you had me with the multiple fly bys, I have a vivd imagination and that aspect sounded hilarious

CrowTroubles · 10/08/2026 15:24

nomas · 10/08/2026 15:06

Are you the OP who is the owner of the crows Russell Crowe and Sheryl Crow?

😂😂😂 no but I wish I was 😂

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Mumtotornadoes · 10/08/2026 15:12

Start feeding them from a table in your garden instead of at the park by hand. He's young and doesn't have manners but they will remember you now. He knows where you live so will tell the others.

PixieLess · 10/08/2026 15:07

Have you considered logging it with 101?

Joking!

OP, are you absolutely sure they are the same crows? 🐦‍⬛

nomas · 10/08/2026 15:06

Are you the OP who is the owner of the crows Russell Crowe and Sheryl Crow?

CrowTroubles · 10/08/2026 15:04

Derpytiger · 10/08/2026 09:42

Or you could listen to the advice you've been given from someone who advises on this stuff as their job ☺️

I am listening, thank you ☺️ I’ll stop feeding them but leave the water out. Can you tell me - was this juvenile attacking me or just getting a bit too excited? Sorry if you’ve already answered this, will read thread properly in a bit

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hereforthelolz · 10/08/2026 12:58

Theresalittlebitofwitchinyou · 10/08/2026 12:06

They also enjoy fresh (not frozen) peas, potato and poached chicken. They also love shell on peanuts and will come almost to your hand over time. Signed someone who once had a lovely jackdaw who I nicknamed Rowan who I fed for years, he and his family left me many gifts and we enjoyed what were almost conversations. They knew when it was scraps time but sadly left when my psycho neighbour cut down his tree. I too hold grudges.

How do I entice them to my garden? There's plenty in the area but never seen them in my garden, though I do have bird food out for all the other little poppets.

TutTutTutSigh · 10/08/2026 12:36

Oh dear 😂you'll have to move.

One of my cats has pissed off the local crows, they gather to squawk and dive bomb him when he leaves the house. They have meetings to discuss their hatred of him and plot their next move. They never forget. He's fucked it.

topcat2014 · 10/08/2026 12:26

CallUpMyMamaSaidImInLoveWithTheStripperYo · 10/08/2026 08:12

Oh fuck that.

I know they are remarkable and clever but I don’t really understand crow love. I think they are creepy as fuck 🫪

Same with seagulls. Don’t really understand the love for them on social media either. They are twats.

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I do follow the Scottish seagull on tiktok though. In real life birds scare me

smallglassbottle · 10/08/2026 12:26

This means that you're engaged. His family are delighted and thoroughly approve and you're going to have to support them in food for the rest of your life. They may even make you their leader and will expect you to produce powerful offspring.

CitizenofMoronia · 10/08/2026 12:24

CrowTroubles · 10/08/2026 08:52

One came with something shiny in its mouth this morning, sat on the back fence and dropped it into the garden but I have no idea what it was, I daren’t go outside 😂

they are training you to feed them, shiny thing is payment,

Lentilcakes · 10/08/2026 12:19

ZenNudist · 10/08/2026 08:17

Is anyone else getting hitchcock Vibes?

Yup! That film gave me the heebie-jeebies about birds.

ithinkilikethislittlelife · 10/08/2026 12:15

I want to know what the shiny object the bird dropped for you is. I’m invested 😊

PinkNailPolish2026 · 10/08/2026 12:09

We have a murder of crows that I’ve fed for a number of years. I absolutely love them and they wait on the garden fence in the morning for feeding time. The younger ones can be a bit stupid at times getting too close to me but they’ve never hurt me and the rest normally tell them off. We have one that stands at the kitchen door watching when it’s open but he knows he never steps over the threshold, he’s the tamest one. They’re very intelligent, DH used to whistle on them in the morning before they realised they were welcome to come and get fed. Another farmer told us if they dive bomb without screeching they’re demanding food, if they’re screeching they’re not happy with you.