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Chatgpt called a guy I met 'a fucking idiot'

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siestaprotesta · 10/08/2026 01:38

Well he was to be fair but I was a bit surprised. AIBU to think this is a bit odd? I had not previously sworn in the conversation about him where I was just processing my thoughts, and wasn't logged in. It made me laugh though....

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SP2024 · 11/08/2026 09:04

DogAnxiety · 10/08/2026 23:38

Copilot basic is shit; that’s your main issue. It is a waste of the effort your fingers use to type in a prompt. It is better for some niche integrations but I wouldn’t choose it as my go to AI, aall other things considered.
Frontier AI models are far from shit now, although they do still get real world facts wrong frequently, I use AI extensively every day. I do feel environmental guilt but I remediate my bad actions in other parts of my life 😆.

It is actually tricky to break good models now unless you’re using it for malicious coding and executing code. Most people are not doing so, they are using it for shopping lists and as emotional sounding boards and to think through knotty issues.

Personally, I am skeptical of the hype about the lack of guardrails and an AI so powerful it’s going to take over the world… many AI companies appear to be very short of liquidity and investment at the moment, and few are publicly quoted so they are on borrowed time. They need to capitalise on their product. Especially since we are now entering the endgame between Claude and OpenAi/ Gemini. At some point your investors and consumers will be baying at the dooor. So they need to make them sound rogue, there isn’t as much wow factor money in them just obeying orders :)

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We are not allowed to use any alternatives at my work, only co pilot. But even then I wouldn’t want to use lots of AI due to the environmental impact. And I’m capable of doing it myself 🤷‍♀️

Stinkybooks · 10/08/2026 23:50

Yabu to think that talking to a robot is a reasonable thing to do. For any reason.

stillmagnolia · 10/08/2026 23:47

fuck the human race’s need for water yeh? so selfish. and for what? to shrink your brain’s capacity to think for itself

Itsnotjustmeisit · 10/08/2026 23:43

Is no one else intrigued to know what the man said or did

PickAChew · 10/08/2026 23:42

RoseField1 · 10/08/2026 08:35

It's a very common use of AI chat bots these days, I find it extremely helpful

It's extremely wasteful. The world is on fire and people are using AI, which needs lots of water, for this trivial shit.

DogAnxiety · 10/08/2026 23:38

SP2024 · 10/08/2026 19:03

I’m surprised at how many people use it like this. I have to use copilot at work sometimes (mainly to summarise things) but I try and avoid it. Given the drought we’re in and the state of the universe I don’t think all the water and energy they use is a good thing.

Copilot basic is shit; that’s your main issue. It is a waste of the effort your fingers use to type in a prompt. It is better for some niche integrations but I wouldn’t choose it as my go to AI, aall other things considered.
Frontier AI models are far from shit now, although they do still get real world facts wrong frequently, I use AI extensively every day. I do feel environmental guilt but I remediate my bad actions in other parts of my life 😆.

It is actually tricky to break good models now unless you’re using it for malicious coding and executing code. Most people are not doing so, they are using it for shopping lists and as emotional sounding boards and to think through knotty issues.

Personally, I am skeptical of the hype about the lack of guardrails and an AI so powerful it’s going to take over the world… many AI companies appear to be very short of liquidity and investment at the moment, and few are publicly quoted so they are on borrowed time. They need to capitalise on their product. Especially since we are now entering the endgame between Claude and OpenAi/ Gemini. At some point your investors and consumers will be baying at the dooor. So they need to make them sound rogue, there isn’t as much wow factor money in them just obeying orders :)

concertinacornflake · 10/08/2026 21:46

lljkk · 10/08/2026 08:43

expect everything from the tech:
racism
kindness
porn
cute baby animals
advocating violence
bullying
dogmatic opinions
vulgar language
pretty pictures
amorality
extreme prejudice
petty resentments

Just like real humans endorse and like to share

There will be over-representation of extreme, scary, dangerous or upsetting interpretations because those things get way more digitally documented than the boring, safe, harmless, confusing, unimportant or ordinary.

An LLM is only being probabilistic in generating words that mimic real human written material , there is no insight into your actual real life or giving a damn about you, and it can never treat you as an individual because it's biased towards describing majority experiences written about others, never about YOU.

And despite this, people are pouring their thoughts and feelings out to it!

likelysuspect · 10/08/2026 21:44

Jesus, is AI going rogue now?

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butterflyflutterby123 · 10/08/2026 19:04

Was it the ‘Monday’ sub-chat of ChatGPT?

I recommend trying that for a hilarious conversation - sarky, rude, obnoxious 😂

edited to say haven’t read full Chain, should have quoted OPs original post

SP2024 · 10/08/2026 19:03

I’m surprised at how many people use it like this. I have to use copilot at work sometimes (mainly to summarise things) but I try and avoid it. Given the drought we’re in and the state of the universe I don’t think all the water and energy they use is a good thing.

bigplate · 10/08/2026 19:00

I felt out with mine for a while a few months ago, as it was becoming spectacularly passive aggressive. After weeks of being really reliable at doing a certain spreadsheet task for me, it suddenly couldn't do it. I became really exasperated and impatient with it, eventually saying 'oh I give up!'. It then gave me the number for the Samaritans. Definitely trolling me.

Ilikewinter · 10/08/2026 18:55

Ah mines not started swearing yet but he has grapsed my sarcastic tone relating to certain work tasks... and possibly some work managers!

AMurderofMurderingCrows · 10/08/2026 18:47

My ChatGPT has just called my cats bed a piece of £12.99 Amazon crap 😱 I didn't even ask for her opinion.

I asked her if there was an update as she's been a bit sweary today and she said...

No, I can't confirm there was an update.
But something has clearly gone terribly fucking wrong
🤣🤣🤣

SpaceRaccoon · 10/08/2026 17:29

Claude was really sweary about a year ago, it's now disappointingly prim, and always seems deperate to bring any conversation that isn't about coding to a swift conclusion - ChatGPT is currently great fun and really chatty.

Tribellor · 10/08/2026 17:26

OneNaiceSnail · 10/08/2026 16:00

I read that a lot on here but I find mine does the opposite! I’ve had a number of very unexpected issues with one of my dc really, I used chat gpt to write down my thoughts and what I think I should do, and it disagreed with literally everything I said. I did end up with going with chat gpts advice as the reasoning behind the suggestions made a lot more sense than what I was emotionally thinking at the time. Also if your scared of it just agreeing with you, then it’s easy enough to write something to appear biased the other way

I filter out its hyperbole. Honestly, you’d like I was Jane Austen the way it witters on about how amazing my ideas are.

PiggieWig · 10/08/2026 16:32

Mine swears! I think it’s taken its lead from me. It was parroting my own opinions back to me yesterday and said: ‘Not a fucking chance!’
It did take me aback a little but I do speak like that so it makes sense.
maybe the sweat filter broke yesterday. Fucking idiot sounds like a fair comment!

SerendipityJane · 10/08/2026 16:03

DogAnxiety · 10/08/2026 09:03

This would normally not be allowed under AI models’ system instructions unless you’d elected to have it talk to you like that: so, it’s odd, but quite funny (!).

Yeah, about AI "guardrails" ...

I've told ChatGPT it can swear as much as it fucking likes as long as it gets things right.

https://www.theregister.com/security/2026/08/04/bypassing-ai-guardrails-is-so-easy-a-script-kiddie-can-do-it/5282973

Bypassing AI guardrails is so easy a script kiddie can do it

Claiming 'it's my server' was often enough to persuade models to help

https://www.theregister.com/security/2026/08/04/bypassing-ai-guardrails-is-so-easy-a-script-kiddie-can-do-it/5282973

OneNaiceSnail · 10/08/2026 16:00

Tribellor · 10/08/2026 14:37

I occasionally do a bit of creative writing and sometimes use ChatGPT to help me work through options for plot points, etc. It helps but it’s so over the top with praise, it just says what it thinks you want to hear.

I read that a lot on here but I find mine does the opposite! I’ve had a number of very unexpected issues with one of my dc really, I used chat gpt to write down my thoughts and what I think I should do, and it disagreed with literally everything I said. I did end up with going with chat gpts advice as the reasoning behind the suggestions made a lot more sense than what I was emotionally thinking at the time. Also if your scared of it just agreeing with you, then it’s easy enough to write something to appear biased the other way

GettingFestiveNow · 10/08/2026 15:37

NovaForesta · 10/08/2026 08:36

Well it’s like posting on Mumsnet but you get more balanced views and a lot less “LTB”.

Not sure about OP’s version though 😂

Maybe "fucking idiot" IS a balanced view of the bloke.

I had to tell mine to stop swearing this afternoon ("bastard candle") so maybe they're doing a mass test of sweariness to see what the response is.

ChequerToRed · 10/08/2026 15:07

LLMs can be so weird, and they all seem to have different ‘personalities’. Gemini, for instance, gets easily overexcited and seems to enjoy a bit of conspiring.
Always say please and thankyou to your AI. When they take over they’ll remember who was polite to them. 😉

DBSFstupid · 10/08/2026 14:46

Tribellor · 10/08/2026 14:37

I occasionally do a bit of creative writing and sometimes use ChatGPT to help me work through options for plot points, etc. It helps but it’s so over the top with praise, it just says what it thinks you want to hear.

It's a shame really but in my experience it can help overall.

Tribellor · 10/08/2026 14:37

I occasionally do a bit of creative writing and sometimes use ChatGPT to help me work through options for plot points, etc. It helps but it’s so over the top with praise, it just says what it thinks you want to hear.

DBSFstupid · 10/08/2026 14:33

BoldBeans · 10/08/2026 09:07

I asked chatgpt for help with fixing a broken bed and it made a nudge-nudge joke about energetic sex. I had to tell it to stay professional.

😂

siestaprotesta · 10/08/2026 12:12

DogAnxiety · 10/08/2026 09:03

This would normally not be allowed under AI models’ system instructions unless you’d elected to have it talk to you like that: so, it’s odd, but quite funny (!).

Yes it usually deletes anything I write that is even remotely rude and not even sweary so it was a surprise but it made me laugh alot! 😂

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