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AIBU to want a refund after this nail salon experience?

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Twinklefingers123 · 09/08/2026 23:23

I am genuinely gobsmacked by the treatment I received today, and I don’t know what I should do next.

as background, I’m going through some stressful events next week where I need to feel confident, I decided to have my nails done to boost myself a bit before Monday. It’s a rare treat for me, maybe once every couple of years. I used the Treatwell app and found a slot free not far from me in 20 minutes, so I booked via the app and prepaid.

I arrived a few minutes early and the lady at reception told me she’d receive the booking notification 10 mins ago so I would have a 5 min wait. I let her know that i was happy to wait 5-10 minutes, but I had a commitment later and I’d prefer not to wait longer than that. I went and sat in the waiting area.

after I’d waited 30 mins, I went back to the front desk. She said it would be 5 mins so I moved my evening commitment and sat down again. Then after I’d been there 50 mins I went to ask about the wait time. She said at least 20-30 minutes so I said in that case I’d rather cancel and get a refund.

it all kicked off from that point. She had a 20+ minute rant about the booking system she’d inherited from the previous owners, about Treatwell and their bookings, their commissions etc etc. she was getting more and more agitated and I did really try and deescalate. I kept saying I sympathised with her difficulties but would like a refund. Her husband, who was completing a manicure next to us then joined in, just ranting really aggressively about it not being their problem and an insane range of unrelated things (they have five children at home, one was born premature, did I understand the stress, the wife kept telling me she went to private school and designed the booking system herself etc). They were shouting to other staff in a foreign language but clearly about me from the gesticulating and use of ‘Treatwell’. The man even started telling the clients already getting their nails done that he was sick of people like me. He kept trying to coax me to come back another day and they would honour the booking but obviously I wasn’t comfortable with that.

I honestly wanted to cry, I don’t know how I held myself together. Finally the wife said she’d cancel the appointment on Treatwell. However i checked my emails and she’d marked me as a ‘no show’ which meant no refund. At this point I submitted a one star review of treatwell. All I wrote was I waited 50 minutes but did not receive the service I paid for. Honestly, I think this was mild given the ranting. The wife then absolutely lost it and kept saying they wouldn’t refund me as I left a poor review. In the end I left after an hour. I’ve contacted Treatwell, but apparently they need the salon owner to confirm I attended before they issue a refund, I feel so powerless.

I did check google reviews before I booked, they had a 4.3 but when I look more closely, the higher rated reviews seem to date back to the old owners and a few recent review note the rudeness of the team.

is there anything I can do to get my money back? I’m a quite calm woman in my 40s but I just feel so shaken by the whole thing

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Namenamchange · 10/08/2026 00:03

Do you have life 360?

you can screen shot how long you waited

KitsyWitsy · 10/08/2026 00:02

She and her husband were doing nails? Was it one of these nail bars run by Vietnamese / other foreign people? I suggest you go to a proper salon in future. I would never go to a nail bar. I don't think they are properly qualified and the polish is sometimes sub standard.

That said, it sounds awful. Probably not much you can do other than to keep harassing them for a refund.

MmeDubois7 · 09/08/2026 23:59

I wouldn't have paid for a service before it was done. You wouldn't have paid for a haircut before you had one. Keep trying to get your money back. In future, paint your nails yourself or get a friend to do it.

Evaka · 09/08/2026 23:30

Wow, absolute nutters. Push treatwell harder given how unreasoable and unhinged the business owners are. If you push hard enough they'll have to look into it properly. Alt if you can write off the cost, just move on and chalk it up to shitty luck.. Hope your week goes ok OP x