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Vinted - not clicking all ok

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loveawineloveacrisp · 09/08/2026 20:40

If a buyer doesn't confirm all ok and waits for it to default so that you have to wait for their payment, is it unreasonable to leave a bad review? I posted next day as well.

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FilmsandBooks · 09/08/2026 20:50

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 09/08/2026 20:48

I was speaking to a seller about this. I don’t think forcing people to wait for a payment over simple purchase admin is reasonable actually, do the decent thing it’s one click.

Not everyone opens their packages as soon as they get them though and not everyone actually realises money isn’t released until they click it: the time limit is reached.

AzureLurker · 09/08/2026 20:50

I buy a lot from vinted, and always aim to hit OK quickly, but there are 2 times recently where I didn't as the items were not as described and so it didn't feel quite right. Don't have the energy and it's not worth it to try and get a return. In the past I have been called a B for just saying in feedback that the size listed was incorrect and therefore didn't fit at all, so I don't like giving negative feedback where it's due either!

ShetlandishMum · 09/08/2026 20:49

Madwoman94 · 09/08/2026 20:41

Yes it is unreasonable to leave a bad review

This.

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 09/08/2026 20:48

I was speaking to a seller about this. I don’t think forcing people to wait for a payment over simple purchase admin is reasonable actually, do the decent thing it’s one click.

tillyandmilly · 09/08/2026 20:47

If the item is shown as delivered you only have to wait 2/3 days and vinted automatically releases the money I believe ?

FilmsandBooks · 09/08/2026 20:45

NCForOneNightOnly · 09/08/2026 20:44

Why is it unreasonable?

Because they haven’t done anything wrong.

NCForOneNightOnly · 09/08/2026 20:44

Why is it unreasonable?

FilmsandBooks · 09/08/2026 20:42

Yes, it’s unreasonable.

Madwoman94 · 09/08/2026 20:41

Yes it is unreasonable to leave a bad review