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Flying poorly (tomorrow) ?

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SENSummer · 09/08/2026 15:39

So we fly first thing tomorrow on a family holiday (me, hubby and two kids <6).

A week ago I started with cold and have had horrid sinus/general cold symptoms. Went to the doctors got a steroid spray (they were thoroughly disinterested as I didn’t have a temperature) but the sinus pain was so bad I felt sick. The steroid spray did very little, I’ve been struggling all week. Doesn’t seem to be improving and awful post nasal drip (tmi sorry). I just feel rubbish but it’s been a week now usually I shake things off or they at least improve. I’ve spent today in bed covered in Vicks and felt awfully sick.

I said to hubby I didn’t think I’d manage it tomorrow. I struggle with my sinuses on planes at the best of times and it can be really painful. He looked at me like I was nuts because it’s ’just a cold’.

We have insurance but given I’m ’not that unwell’ and the doctors shrugged it off I doubt we’d be able to claim on it. Hubby thinks I’m at the end of it and will start to feel better in the next couple of days so should just push through. I do push through things quite well usually but I just feel grotty and so disappointed that it’s a week in and I’m still this rubbish!

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Arlanymor · 09/08/2026 15:49

SENSummer · 09/08/2026 15:47

I vomit really badly on ibuprofen so I’ve been scared to take sudofed as worry same thing would happen. I’d rather have the sinuses than be throwing up but I’m not sure if it’s similar or not??

Classic Sudafed doesn't have ibuprofen - there's literally about five different types of Sudafed: https://www.sudafed.co.uk/products/decongestant-tablets

timtamsarebetterthanpenguins · 09/08/2026 15:49

SENSummer · 09/08/2026 15:47

I vomit really badly on ibuprofen so I’ve been scared to take sudofed as worry same thing would happen. I’d rather have the sinuses than be throwing up but I’m not sure if it’s similar or not??

Sudafed isn't anything to do with ibuprofen, they're totally different medications.

cocochoola · 09/08/2026 15:48

It'll be ok - take sudafed max or a decongestant prior to the flight and keep the steroid spray with you. Have hard sweets to suck on and if you get some olbas oil you can put some in a cup over some tissue and get the crew to put some hot water on it to create a steam for inhalation. Im cabin crew and this is what we would do for passengers suffering from this. It seems a same to waste a trip for this though I appreciate it is very sore!

NoWordForFluffy · 09/08/2026 15:48

SENSummer · 09/08/2026 15:47

I vomit really badly on ibuprofen so I’ve been scared to take sudofed as worry same thing would happen. I’d rather have the sinuses than be throwing up but I’m not sure if it’s similar or not??

Why would it be? It's a different medication (decongestant vs NSAID).

SENSummer · 09/08/2026 15:47

Arlanymor · 09/08/2026 15:45

If it's your sinuses then Vicks will do nothing as it's not in your chest - you need Sudafed. I knew whereof I speak - I had sinus surgery in my early 20s and have an ENT consultant appointment for next month when I bet they are going to tell me they need to redo it. I sympathise because it's miserable.

I vomit really badly on ibuprofen so I’ve been scared to take sudofed as worry same thing would happen. I’d rather have the sinuses than be throwing up but I’m not sure if it’s similar or not??

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Teeheehee1579 · 09/08/2026 15:46

I think I’d be sympathetic but expect you to get on with it - the flight might be painful but you’ll manage - take some painkillers and whatever spray the doctor has given you. If you don’t go they can’t go and you obviously cannot claim on insurance for a bad cold/sinus problems. Sorry - it sounds painful but in your circumstances and for the family I’d suck it up and go,

timtamsarebetterthanpenguins · 09/08/2026 15:46

SENSummer · 09/08/2026 15:44

Son has non speaking autism and can’t manage without me so not an option unfortunately

Oh. In that case I would make the effort to go.

Arlanymor · 09/08/2026 15:45

If it's your sinuses then Vicks will do nothing as it's not in your chest - you need Sudafed. I knew whereof I speak - I had sinus surgery in my early 20s and have an ENT consultant appointment for next month when I bet they are going to tell me they need to redo it. I sympathise because it's miserable.

SENSummer · 09/08/2026 15:44

timtamsarebetterthanpenguins · 09/08/2026 15:43

Send him on his own.

Son has non speaking autism and can’t manage without me so not an option unfortunately

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SENSummer · 09/08/2026 15:43

SENSummer · 09/08/2026 15:42

2 hours it’s Europe

In fairness I’m certain I caught this on a flights a couple of weeks ago. Well, my 5 year old did and then I got it from them. Although they seemed to manage it much better than me 🙄

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timtamsarebetterthanpenguins · 09/08/2026 15:43

Send him on his own.

SENSummer · 09/08/2026 15:42

bridgetreilly · 09/08/2026 15:40

How long is the flight?

2 hours it’s Europe

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bridgetreilly · 09/08/2026 15:40

How long is the flight?