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Flying poorly (tomorrow) ?

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SENSummer · 09/08/2026 15:39

So we fly first thing tomorrow on a family holiday (me, hubby and two kids <6).

A week ago I started with cold and have had horrid sinus/general cold symptoms. Went to the doctors got a steroid spray (they were thoroughly disinterested as I didn’t have a temperature) but the sinus pain was so bad I felt sick. The steroid spray did very little, I’ve been struggling all week. Doesn’t seem to be improving and awful post nasal drip (tmi sorry). I just feel rubbish but it’s been a week now usually I shake things off or they at least improve. I’ve spent today in bed covered in Vicks and felt awfully sick.

I said to hubby I didn’t think I’d manage it tomorrow. I struggle with my sinuses on planes at the best of times and it can be really painful. He looked at me like I was nuts because it’s ’just a cold’.

We have insurance but given I’m ’not that unwell’ and the doctors shrugged it off I doubt we’d be able to claim on it. Hubby thinks I’m at the end of it and will start to feel better in the next couple of days so should just push through. I do push through things quite well usually but I just feel grotty and so disappointed that it’s a week in and I’m still this rubbish!

OP posts:
Imightbeinthewronghere · 09/08/2026 17:26

Piggywaspushed · 09/08/2026 17:22

You do like to patrol threads looking for people to scold, don't you?

What do you think people go to the GP for?

Patrol threads. Or just scroll?? Isn't that what a forum is for.

And no I don't think you should go the GP for a bloody cold.

No wonder people who actually need an appointment can't get one.

Dishwashersforever · 09/08/2026 17:25

TheWittyCyanPombear · 09/08/2026 17:24

Dr wasn’t concerned because the nhs is an outdated mess 💩 (sorry to be blunt)

Bad sinusitis (inflammation, infection) needs medical care and treatment. Doctor prescribed me the strongest steroids at risk of permanent hearing damage, doubt a general trip to the pharmacy would have sufficed.

If the lady feels she’s breathing in glass or her ears are congested, that’s an indicator to not fly.

I agree .

Dishwashersforever · 09/08/2026 17:25

SENSummer · 09/08/2026 16:18

It’s such an odd one because I’m not snotty at all and it doesn’t hurt when I bend down or lean forward etc which has always been agony in the past when I’ve had sinus issues.

Ive not had a temperature, cough, sore throat etc I’m literally just in pain between my eyebrows and nose with horrific post nasal drip (which I’ve never had before but hate).

Have you tried steam it’s my go to when i get a headache in that area

Piggywaspushed · 09/08/2026 17:25

My DH had this before we went to Prague. I would have supported him of he had decided not to go, tbh. But he was OK in the end. His ears did hurt more than usual on the flight but I think being abroad took his mind off the symptoms.

TheWittyCyanPombear · 09/08/2026 17:24

Imightbeinthewronghere · 09/08/2026 17:19

No evidence of full on sinusitis. Whatever that is.

She had general cold/sinusitis symptoms

The Dr wasn't concerned.

I still can't believe this is what people go the GP about!

Dr wasn’t concerned because the nhs is an outdated mess 💩 (sorry to be blunt)

Bad sinusitis (inflammation, infection) needs medical care and treatment. Doctor prescribed me the strongest steroids at risk of permanent hearing damage, doubt a general trip to the pharmacy would have sufficed.

If the lady feels she’s breathing in glass or her ears are congested, that’s an indicator to not fly.

Benjithedog · 09/08/2026 17:24

Benjithedog · 09/08/2026 17:18

Just get on the plain and go.

Plane not plain!

Piggywaspushed · 09/08/2026 17:22

Imightbeinthewronghere · 09/08/2026 17:19

No evidence of full on sinusitis. Whatever that is.

She had general cold/sinusitis symptoms

The Dr wasn't concerned.

I still can't believe this is what people go the GP about!

You do like to patrol threads looking for people to scold, don't you?

What do you think people go to the GP for?

Whataretalkingabout · 09/08/2026 17:22

The last time I had sinusitis with terrible pain I had an emergency appointment with an ENT doctor in France. He used two very long cotton buds on wooden sticks dipped in alcohol and stuck them way up my nose (sinuses) and left them there for 20 minutes. Instant relief. OMG.
Then gave me antibiotics.

Good luck OP, hope you can make your trip.

Dishwashersforever · 09/08/2026 17:19

I think it’s a bit harshto expect you to go if you’ve been so ill. you’ve been in bed all day. It’s horrible being ill on holiday and sinus infections really hurt . Not sure that flying is that good an idea either. Is it easy to access a dr where your holiday destination is? I’d definitely be trying to get to a walk in centre or pharmacy today.

Imightbeinthewronghere · 09/08/2026 17:19

TheWittyCyanPombear · 09/08/2026 17:16

You’re referring to some sinus irritation, we’re discussing full on sinusitis (which good doctors treat seriously)

No evidence of full on sinusitis. Whatever that is.

She had general cold/sinusitis symptoms

The Dr wasn't concerned.

I still can't believe this is what people go the GP about!

Benjithedog · 09/08/2026 17:18

Just get on the plain and go.

TheWittyCyanPombear · 09/08/2026 17:16

Imightbeinthewronghere · 09/08/2026 17:14

I'd have gone to the bloody chemist and got something over the counter.

You’re referring to some sinus irritation, we’re discussing full on sinusitis (which good doctors treat seriously)

Cluelessfirstimer · 09/08/2026 17:15

Teeheehee1579 · 09/08/2026 15:46

I think I’d be sympathetic but expect you to get on with it - the flight might be painful but you’ll manage - take some painkillers and whatever spray the doctor has given you. If you don’t go they can’t go and you obviously cannot claim on insurance for a bad cold/sinus problems. Sorry - it sounds painful but in your circumstances and for the family I’d suck it up and go,

Me too...

TheWittyCyanPombear · 09/08/2026 17:14

Leo800 · 09/08/2026 17:11

I honestly wouldn’t go. I flew with sinus problems & ended up with a burst ear drum. It was the worst pain ever & left me feeling so ill for ages. You don’t want to be ill abroad or unable to fly back.

The pain is something else right? I’d never suggest flying after experiencing that (and the deafness that followed)

Imightbeinthewronghere · 09/08/2026 17:14

Piggywaspushed · 09/08/2026 17:12

Well, you have clearly never had sinusitis.

I'd have gone to the bloody chemist and got something over the counter.

Imightbeinthewronghere · 09/08/2026 17:12

SENSummer · 09/08/2026 16:18

I do feel very tired and lethargic and unwell but it’s not presenting with symptoms I usually have

You seem very fixated on your health?

Do you suffer from anxiety?

Piggywaspushed · 09/08/2026 17:12

Imightbeinthewronghere · 09/08/2026 17:10

You went to the Dr because of a cold.
A cold?
The Dr?

Well, you have clearly never had sinusitis.

Leo800 · 09/08/2026 17:11

I honestly wouldn’t go. I flew with sinus problems & ended up with a burst ear drum. It was the worst pain ever & left me feeling so ill for ages. You don’t want to be ill abroad or unable to fly back.

Imightbeinthewronghere · 09/08/2026 17:10

You went to the Dr because of a cold.
A cold?
The Dr?

Ineffable23 · 09/08/2026 17:07

Seconding all the suggestions for a decongestant. You can also get a decongestant nasal spray.

On top of that, I would try steaming your head. I usually do it using a saucepan I've filled with booking water but I'm sure safety best practice would mean you should use something cooler than that. I then add a couple of drops of tea tree or peppermint essential oil, put a towel over my head and my head + towel over the bowl to trap the steam in. Breathe in and out until all the gunk comes out. Really remarkably effective.

TheWittyCyanPombear · 09/08/2026 17:06

Was on a plane with sinusitis once. Couldn’t hear for two days when we landed.

Thankfully was in a country with good healthcare so they threw steroids (tablets), painkillers and sprays at me so I could safely fly back. They took it pretty seriously as it can cause permanent damage.

Be careful with flying if your sinus’s are affected.

BashfulClam · 09/08/2026 17:05

I flew with what I thought was a bad head cold (turned out to probably be Covid but I really thought it was a bad cold). I went deaf for 2 days even using Sudafed so be careful.

TheDeftPlum · 09/08/2026 17:01

I was in your exact situation a week ago. The sinusitis had got into my ears. Pharmacist sold me pseudoephedrine and prescription strength steroid spray. The pseudoephedrine worked really quickly to unblock my ears but my heart was too sensitive to it to take more than a couple. Ended up having to cancel the holiday as it turned into maybe labyrinthitis and when seeing the GP my blood pressure was being weird so with pending tests travel insurance wouldn't cover me. Very glad I did as I feel dreadful now. No idea if it's sinuses or after effects of the various meds I've tried.

troothfairy · 09/08/2026 17:00

Flying won’t help your sinuses but it’s not worth missing a holiday which has probably cost thousands. Pharmacy asap for whatever they can give you, and just dose yourself up with meds before the flight. Hopefully you’re heading somewhere you can relax in the sun!

lordbaddingham · 09/08/2026 16:59

I'd have to be very ill not to fly on a family holiday with all the associated costs of not flying out and also the disappointment. If you genuinely feel too ill to fly at all then that's fair enough though.