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Flying poorly (tomorrow) ?

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SENSummer · 09/08/2026 15:39

So we fly first thing tomorrow on a family holiday (me, hubby and two kids <6).

A week ago I started with cold and have had horrid sinus/general cold symptoms. Went to the doctors got a steroid spray (they were thoroughly disinterested as I didn’t have a temperature) but the sinus pain was so bad I felt sick. The steroid spray did very little, I’ve been struggling all week. Doesn’t seem to be improving and awful post nasal drip (tmi sorry). I just feel rubbish but it’s been a week now usually I shake things off or they at least improve. I’ve spent today in bed covered in Vicks and felt awfully sick.

I said to hubby I didn’t think I’d manage it tomorrow. I struggle with my sinuses on planes at the best of times and it can be really painful. He looked at me like I was nuts because it’s ’just a cold’.

We have insurance but given I’m ’not that unwell’ and the doctors shrugged it off I doubt we’d be able to claim on it. Hubby thinks I’m at the end of it and will start to feel better in the next couple of days so should just push through. I do push through things quite well usually but I just feel grotty and so disappointed that it’s a week in and I’m still this rubbish!

OP posts:
SENSummer · 09/08/2026 19:11

Hubby is also adamant it isn’t sinusitis or an infection as such as no temperature he just keeps telling me ‘it’s a viral thing’ and rolling his eyes when I’ve read the comments RE antibiotics

OP posts:
SENSummer · 09/08/2026 19:09

I went to the docs because it was presenting so oddly. Intense pain in my sinuses but not cold or flu symptoms and at that point the post nasal drip hadn’t started so I didn’t know what the heck was going on.

Ive noted the comments about going deaf after flying. I’ve not struggled with my ears (touch wood) and I have had hubby (he is a doctor but not an ENT or anything) look in my ears and he thinks they look fine. Understand that congestion wouldn’t always be visible but still it’s something.

I live in a remote village and ventured to the petrol station which is the only things nearby open on a Sunday with medical stuff. There was not much unfortunately but hubby says there’s a boots in the terminal.

Ive perked up a bit tonight. It keeps happening in fairness, mornings and evenings seem ok ish but 10-4 is generally horrid.

They gave me memetosone spray which for two weeks. I took it for 5 days and stopped yesterday because it seemed to make it worse. Worried that was stupid but hubby is saying he wouldn’t re start it now. It just seemed like I was better on a morning/evening and then struggling through the day whilst I was using it much more.

I’ve just been desperate to feel better all week but no idea what to do

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RoseInBloome7 · 09/08/2026 19:08

Existentialistic · 09/08/2026 16:53

Have you tested for Covid? The last time I had it a few weeks ago the symptoms were similar.

Otherwise echo what others say about seeing a pharmacist, or depending on what time you are travelling tomorrow, could you turn up at your GP surgery first thing? Wishing you a speedy recovery.

^ This

bridgetreilly · 09/08/2026 19:06

SENSummer · 09/08/2026 15:42

2 hours it’s Europe

Do it. Dose yourself up on Day Nurse or whatever and wear a mask. But you can cope for a couple of hours and sleep when you get there.

notimagain · 09/08/2026 19:05

Overwhelmedandtired · 09/08/2026 18:46

Can you clear your ears? Congestion can cause issues with ears, and with the pressure changes you are at a higher risk of barotrauma (which is really not nice, lasts weeks, and can at worse case cause permanent ear damage).

If you can, there is obviously a risk of passing on an infection if you have one. Particularly within a recycled air tube. But you may well be past the riskiest point now. So difficult to know, if you feel up for travelling, but clearing the ears is the biggest thing I would check with a sinus infection.

You are absolutely right about the ears but sinus barotrauma all by itself can be debilitating in certain circumstances...

Bramble25 · 09/08/2026 18:48

SENSummer · 09/08/2026 16:18

It’s such an odd one because I’m not snotty at all and it doesn’t hurt when I bend down or lean forward etc which has always been agony in the past when I’ve had sinus issues.

Ive not had a temperature, cough, sore throat etc I’m literally just in pain between my eyebrows and nose with horrific post nasal drip (which I’ve never had before but hate).

I’ve had sinus issues in this area-that’s where your deep sinuses are which can be hard to reach with spray. I found after a few days of betmethazone drops they opened up, then fluticazone drops for a while after. Also had a course of steroid tablets. But I wasn’t having post nasal drip it was all trapped in my sinus then flooded out when sinuses inflammation shrank down.

Overwhelmedandtired · 09/08/2026 18:46

Can you clear your ears? Congestion can cause issues with ears, and with the pressure changes you are at a higher risk of barotrauma (which is really not nice, lasts weeks, and can at worse case cause permanent ear damage).

If you can, there is obviously a risk of passing on an infection if you have one. Particularly within a recycled air tube. But you may well be past the riskiest point now. So difficult to know, if you feel up for travelling, but clearing the ears is the biggest thing I would check with a sinus infection.

AllTheChicken · 09/08/2026 18:43

Have you tried an antihistamine to ease off the post nasal drip? It can help

Bramble25 · 09/08/2026 18:39

If the sinus inflammation is too deep in your sinuses you could see if doc thinks betmethazone steroid drops would be a good idea.

Imightbeinthewronghere · 09/08/2026 18:38

Dishwashersforever · 09/08/2026 18:26

You’re berating people for going to the GP . If you are unwell you should be able to see a doctor, as I said the state of the NHS isn’t the general publics fault

Are you actually aware of the crap that people go to their Dr with?

youdeserveit · 09/08/2026 18:31

Dishwashersforever · 09/08/2026 18:29

Agree with sterimar

It’s useless against true sinusitis

Dishwashersforever · 09/08/2026 18:29

Dobeebeedah · 09/08/2026 17:37

Try Sterimar nasal spray. It's a nasal cleanser rather than medication. Sainsburys, Boots etc sell it. You will probably pay a lot less in Europe (I did). It just washes out your nose. You will probably be able to use it alongside your normal nasal spray just at a different time. On the flight try menthol/spearmint chews.

Agree with sterimar

youdeserveit · 09/08/2026 18:29

Imightbeinthewronghere · 09/08/2026 17:37

Well clearly I'm not putting off people going am I, if the op went with symptoms of a cold!

There’s a difference between sinusitis and a cold.

ThreeplusI · 09/08/2026 18:28

Pharmacy first thing for antibiotics. They are able to prescribe one, be warned follow the directions exactly, I didn't and threw the first dose back up! Worked a treat by day 2 and we had a lovely holiday.

Dishwashersforever · 09/08/2026 18:26

Imightbeinthewronghere · 09/08/2026 17:37

Well clearly I'm not putting off people going am I, if the op went with symptoms of a cold!

You’re berating people for going to the GP . If you are unwell you should be able to see a doctor, as I said the state of the NHS isn’t the general publics fault

Beeloux · 09/08/2026 18:17

Is it a country where you can buy antibiotics over the counter? I used to do this when I suffered with my sinuses whilst living in the ME. No other remedies helped. You can also buy them on online pharmacies but they’re pricey. Cheaper buying over the counter if possible.

You need to be careful flying with ear/sinus infections as it increases your chances of barotrauma/perforation.

I used to be a cabin crew and once had a sinus infection. Got pulled out for a short 45 minute turnaround and had an awful earache during landing. Went straight to the airline medical centre and was grounded for 2 weeks. The GP said my eardrum was very close to perforating.

I would reevaluate in the morning. I remember when I was a kid, my brother was complaining of earache at the check in desk and we were turned away.

bgi · 09/08/2026 18:15

I flew long haul with a sinus infection and the plane pressure was horrendous. As soon as I got off the plane, I burst into tears because I just felt so awful.
if it's a 2 hr flight, will some strong over the counter sudafed work or sinutab?

Gabby8 · 09/08/2026 18:08

MyDarlingRose · 09/08/2026 16:03

Well you’d likely be spreading it to every person on the plane to ruin their holidays so from that perspective I wouldn’t go

This … I’d be furious if me and my two young children ended up sat next to someone obviously unwell.

BotterMon · 09/08/2026 18:02

Have you done a Covid test?

BagsyTimBradford · 09/08/2026 17:56

Tralalalalatata · 09/08/2026 16:08

Think very carefully about doing this. I once did exactly the same with same symptoms and was totally deaf upon landing for 24 hours, then deaf in one ear for the next 48 hours. Then I had to fly home and it started all over again 🙃

I felt I had to go as it was a vital work trip. It went well, happily - industry colleagues found it "charming" that I was ploughing on once I was only deaf in one ear... (!)

Edited

I experienced the same after flying long haul home with a sinus infection (and taking antibiotics for). The pain as we descended for landing was something else and I realised once in the car for the drive home I couldn't hear the satnav. My hearing came back after a few days so could have been a lot worse but I'd never risk it again.

SunnyRedSnail · 09/08/2026 17:55

@SENSummer try a steroid nasal spray then lots of hot drinks. Particularly lemon and honey tea!

I assume you've tried a super hot flannel across your face/sinus area? Or a neti pot thing?

RockSolidRobot · 09/08/2026 17:55

Sudafed often does contain ibuprofen - and it's an NSAID and usual if you are allergic and ill with one it's the entire family...

TaleOfTwoHalves · 09/08/2026 17:51

This is not an ailment to cancel a family holiday for. Sounds like you’ll just need to get on with it.

TheGirlWhoLived · 09/08/2026 17:50

Tesco “blocked nose relief” is just pure phenlyephrine so you can still take whatever paracetamol/ibuprofen etc you wish with it

notimagain · 09/08/2026 17:46

For infos sake from UK CAA's Guidance for Health Professionals:

"The decrease in ambient pressure in the cabin as the aircraft climbs to its cruising altitude will cause any gas to increase in volume by approximately 30%. As the aircraft descends to land, the increasing cabin pressure will lead to a corresponding reduction in volume. Gas within body cavities may cause problems if it is trapped and unable to expand freely or if there is obstruction to the free flow of air preventing equalisation of air pressure. The effects of this are most commonly seen in passengers suffering from upper respiratory tract infections, who may suffer ear or sinus pain and bleeding (otic / sinus barotraumas)."

All the talk of ears, COVID etc is fine but the OP really has to find a way of unblocking their sinusitis.

https://www.caa.co.uk/air-passengers/about-your-trip/health-and-medical/guidance-for-health-professionals/physiology-of-flight/

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