My 22 yr old daughter said she would like to accompany my two other children both with mild
sn, on holidays. Im a single and solo parent. She suggested her bf comes along so I happily agreed .
she is 22 as is he, She is also in college and only has a small part time job as there is very little available.
So we are here and they’ve hardly spent any time with us bar the odd dinner and lunch. She is moody and difficult and defensive and I'm pretty sure her bf sees a very different side to her this holiday. He is a gentleman and lovely to my other kids. She is not. I paid for her entire trip and the majority of his.
To me, this was meant to be a family holiday with her bf coming along but in reality I feel like we’re on two separate holidays and I feel used frankly.
Of course, they would be having their couple time and date nights etc but we genuinely see them for an hour per day and at that she seems resentful.
AIBU to be disappointed and hurt ?