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Original poster

Is feeling like you're an unbearable vibrating tedious goer oner who can't shut their face and everyone probably correctly finds disturbing a symptom of perimenopause

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CurdinHenry · 07/08/2026 22:24

Or just me

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ToKittyornottoKitty · 07/08/2026 22:24

Vibrating?

BIWI · 07/08/2026 22:25

In English?

EligibleTern · 07/08/2026 22:25

I hope so, or else I've recently discovered a horrible home truth about myself! I know exactly what you mean.

Wherethedogsits · 07/08/2026 22:26

For me, yes!

Do you have adhd? Symptoms worsen!

Kalkancrazy · 07/08/2026 22:26

Not just you!!

SpareMe · 07/08/2026 22:26

YABU. Tedious goer oners are never that self aware

WhatNextImScared · 07/08/2026 22:27

I was told by an older friend about this, which was useful when it arrived

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CurdinHenry · 07/08/2026 22:34

Wherethedogsits · 07/08/2026 22:26

For me, yes!

Do you have adhd? Symptoms worsen!

Yes

Find myself googling bipolar tonight after an awful day (I know it's not even called that any more)

Thanks for the solidarity feeling

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Dilemma999 · 07/08/2026 22:36

On the sauce?

TallSturdyGirls · 07/08/2026 22:38

I dont really understand what a is "goer oner" and I mighr be useful as I am quite functioning in life but yet am bipolar and have adhd and am menopausal 😂

ToKittyornottoKitty · 07/08/2026 22:40

CurdinHenry · 07/08/2026 22:34

Yes

Find myself googling bipolar tonight after an awful day (I know it's not even called that any more)

Thanks for the solidarity feeling

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Yes it is?

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 07/08/2026 22:40

A goer oner - someone who goes on (and on and on)

Possibly OP. I've been finding myself worrying about that quite a bit recently, would be a relief if it's a menopause symptom rather than sudden insight!

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CurdinHenry · 07/08/2026 22:44

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 07/08/2026 22:40

A goer oner - someone who goes on (and on and on)

Possibly OP. I've been finding myself worrying about that quite a bit recently, would be a relief if it's a menopause symptom rather than sudden insight!

I definitely wasn't always like this I feel so embarrassed tbh

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