My DS is 18, suspected ND and waiting (4 years so far…) for an appointment. He was at college, hated it but performing well. Got offered a great f/t job and left college 4 months early, didn’t complete the course. Job let him go after a month because he “wasn’t a team player”
We are now into month 6. My own job is quite a senior one in the careers sector… my background is supporting people like DS. But I’m mum to him and therefore clueless and a nag.
How long does this go on for? He gets a bit of UC but doesn’t give a shit about finding work. Please don’t tell me to kick him out because I never will. What can I do to help him or motivate him?! I’m at a loss.
Sorry - edited to add he apparently wants an engineering job or apprenticeship.