To ask if anyone has had a boob job and how it went?

I had mine done back in 2013 and I’ve since had two children. They are still perfect and amazing and I love them quite frankly! I also was entirely flat chested. This decision was for me, please ignore those who say otherwise.

I had mine over the muscle, and I weight train which keeps tone anyway and I believe that could be why they are still in the same position. I had 345cc’s put in.

good luck

What will happen, I predict, is that you'll get your new bolt on boobs, spend weeks taking painkillers and not being able to move your arms above your headOr it could just be morbid curiosity.

I was given two paracetamol post op that I didn’t need because there wasn’t any pain. Those were the only painkillers I took. No problems with my arms. I did have to sleep on my back for about a week.

I do agree with the overall sentiment of your post though.

What will happen, I predict, is that you'll get your new bolt on boobs, spend weeks taking painkillers and not being able to move your arms above your head and sleeping on your back, trying to avoid post surgery complications, and then.... it will be your arse. Or your lips. Because men like a big arse to smack you know. And, they love a nice big set of shiny blow job lips..

Who gives a fuck, really. Who gives a fuck about what drives men wild? Honestly, you are on this earth once, and for the blink of an eye, and there are so many other things you could angle yourself towards, than surgically inserting plastic bits into you in the hope of being more fuckable to men.

There isn't an end to this, there's no amount of bits you can add in or chop off that will do the trick. It's an inside job.

That's honestly made me sad for you. I bet you and your boobs are lovely.

We live in a workd that really is damaging towards women's mental health and confidence, and it's a billion dollar industry.

Breast implants are not necessary for that, I promise.

There's a massive gulf between what certain men find fuckable, and a man loving you.

Sorr5, I meant, that's the issue.

Yes, but often it is the only thing they are interested in. Thatcher issue.

I was a 34c before but I was so self conscious on the size and especially how they looked with no bra.
Now, they make me so confident and drive the men wild.

Don’t be scared, as long as you find a recommended surgeon and agree on the final look you want, it will be one of the best things you do.

The way you conflate big boobs and beauty is quite odd. Surely it's your face that makes you beautiful or not, and you could be ugly or plain with big tits. I don't think women like Vivien Leigh, Sienna Miller or Keira Knightley are less beautiful for having small breasts, or that my average sized breasts make me less attractive.

Hmm, I could do a Ted talk about this.
1, firstly, it's because they're big. They're in your face. Men have a thing about size. Big cars, big dicks, big tits etc. Big tits seem to shout , 'I'll shag anyone' .

Go for it. Do your research and find a well reviewed and trusted surgeon.

I went quite big, up to a 36E which I love. I feel much more attractive. Sexually they have been a game changer for me.

YANBU for wanting to have a boob job. But the implication that women with smaller boobs are 'settled' for is gross.

I agree. Big boobs are not the beauty standard. But they do get a lot of attention.

But why are you arranging yourself around, and undergoing painful, repeated and costly surgery to be applauded by men who are not interested in a woman with very normal breasts?

The fact that you've mentioned media is exactly it, you have been fed an expectation and you are now considering surgery to alter your body, to fall in line with that expectation.

There are lots of men out there who feel they are entitled to a woman who looks like the images of women they have become used to from digital pornography. A hairless wonder, with round fake boobs, bleached arshole, hair extensions, fillered face, fake nails.

I would be at great pains to avoid those men. Not start cutting bits off and sticking bits into my body surgically to attract them. Your body doesn't need to be in fashion. Spend a bit of time googling what women's body type has been deemed (*by who, who gets to decide this?) attractive over the ages. Then realise that it's only a small percentage of women who's bodies ever hit this brief at any time. It's impossible for everyone to look like what is currently "in". When I was younger having a big arse was a cardinal sin. Now, it's obligatory. It's the luck of the draw, and it's a game you will never win. You can choose not to play.