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To wonder what kind of woman would want to date Stephen Bear?

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forceofhabitandnotneed · 06/08/2026 17:21

Let alone marry him and have his kids?

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RubiesandRose · 06/08/2026 17:27

I was just reading about his latest court appearance and thinking exactly the same. He’s so disgusting and despicable, anyone in their right mind would steer well clear of him.

I guess the fact his current pregnant girlfriend is only 19, means that his targets are young, impressionable and enjoy the “celebrity” of him.

As a mother I would be so ashamed of him. The whole debacle is one of the ugly sides of the whole social media, porn culture that young people are exposed to today.

gayestgal · 06/08/2026 17:28

Yanbu.

I also think he is gay anyway, wasn't he doing gay porn at a time.

I think if he just accepts himself and leaves women alone, he might feel better and therefore be free from his miserable life.

Brave Georgia, having to continue fighting for hers and her family's safety

cantsleepneedsleep · 06/08/2026 17:29

These women & men have always existed; stupid, naive, chasing money & fame, lonely, etc.

pomegranatescent · 06/08/2026 17:49

The woman he is married to is 18 and Brazilian. He met her out there. From what I saw on social media at around the time he met her, her family seemed quite poor and he convinced her that he was a major celebrity. I doubt she knows the real picture of what a prick he is.

Lmnop22 · 06/08/2026 20:32

Baffling that she could go to court with him and still stand by him, she must know the details of what he’s done and that he’s on the sex offenders register if she’s in the court room

gayestgal · 06/08/2026 20:33

Is she pregnant by him, does anyone know?

minou123 · 06/08/2026 20:42

He is a dreadful person.

I remember when he was originally convicted and he kept turning up to court in outlandish suits, like a complete dick.

The best part was when he went to court to be sentenced and he said to the journalists "im innocent till proven guilty"
In unison all the journalists shouted "You were found guilty. Now you going to be sentenced!"

Jk987 · 06/08/2026 21:27

gayestgal · 06/08/2026 20:33

Is she pregnant by him, does anyone know?

As opposed to who? She’s his girlfriend!

hugasaurus · 06/08/2026 21:31

He’s a disgusting piece of work. I can only think that his girlfriend is either very damaged, being controlled or abused by him so she can’t leave, or a horrible piece of work herself.

Abracadeborah · 06/08/2026 21:33

A young extremely poor one who believed he was something he’s not.

WiltonGal · 06/08/2026 21:37

She is a teenager, probably with limited prospects in Brazil, he tries to fool people he is rich, and had to move to Brazil to continue the myth. She fell for it and is now up shit creek with his child. Poor girl, poor child. Glad that tool has been locked up.

Fiddlesticks1 · 07/08/2026 08:07

Jk987 · 06/08/2026 21:27

As opposed to who? She’s his girlfriend!

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That is meaningless, she could have been pregnant before hitching up with him.

PollyBell · 07/08/2026 08:17

Why is it any surprise there is desperate women (and men) who will date anything it is old as time

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