Am I cooking shit or being stingy??

No the portion control…the claims that 75 grams of pasta (plus all the bolognese) and 2 loaves of garlic bread isn’t enough. That breakfast must be a fry up every day and granola and porridge isn’t cutting it…but mainly the portion sizes.

I don’t understand the hosting thing. Op rented a holiday house. Realised there’s extra room and invited sister and family to stay for free.
I’d expect sister to have chipped in with food.
A few years ago my sibling kindly offered for me and dd to share their holiday house as it had an extra bedroom. I contributed to food and helped cook/prep food. I certainly didn’t sit on my bum waiting to be served. They are vegetarian I’m not, I certainly didn’t complain it wasn’t meat based meals. It was very kind to invite us.

It sounds fine and adequate,I think many people over eat. However, this is why I hate self catering.

Really, I thought 50g was standard?

I find this bupa healthy portion guide helpful. It recommends 75g dry pasta a person.
https://www.bupa.co.uk/newsroom/ourviews/portion-size-guide

It's sobering isn't it. The Bolognese sauce with all the extra ingredients sounds delicious. I love bacon in ours too.

Blimey this is why I would never go on holiday with anyone else!
Your breakfast is almost my ideal. I would add some crusty bread and honey. I don't like pastry or cooked food for breakfast. In fact I'm away myself ATM with Adult DC and while I won't be cooking I have brought breakfast bits. Granola and toastie bread. If that's not enough they can go out for breakfast!
Your spag bol sounds lovely but I would always do more pasta than I think is enough.

Whether or not 75g of pasta is enough or if people do or don't like porridge, nothing excuses the bil saying 'prison food', 'where's the rest of it' and 'here comes the catch' when he has contributed nothing, and the teen making faces and calling the food 'shit'. They can eat what the OP provides, feed themselves or go home.

So you don't like cooking on holiday. Why is it bonkers that the op does?

I do 70g of pasta per person! With bolegnese, parmesan and garlic bread it's plenty and I'm not a competitive undereater by any stretch 😂

They are incredibly rude. Although that doesn’t sound like what I would want to eat on holiday (nothing wrong with it, just very normal and unexciting) they have some nerve complaining. That said, if I was cooking on holiday for a group I would probably try to plan something everyone would like and also split the costs between us.

600g mince for 6/7 people is ridiculously stingy!

your dd attitude is awful- spoilt, ungrateful, entitled. Bil is rude.

And tell your rude guests to piss off and feed themselves.

They sound very rude.

But anyone who regularly ate the right amount of food would probably not want extra on holiday.

I agree - it’s terrible how rude and ungrateful they are and it shouldn’t matter if you are stingy, a bad cook or not to their taste they can be grateful and help or sort themselves out. But yes the pasta and sauce sounds very small (we do 500g pasta and 450g mince and for 2 adults and 2 children under 9 and there may be a portion left over depending on the day) - and we are slim / try to be healthy ish house

Though I have to say I tend to cook for an army and be generous when I don't know people's appetites, rather than ration out so much per person. People might be super hungry and want seconds.

I'm sometimes more active on holiday so want to eat more as I'm hungrier.

I genuinely can't believe how many people are saying 75g uncooked pasta is stingy. I think some people just have never made a really solid spag bol and are thinking miserable watery jarred sauce. With meat, mushrooms and vegetables - various veg the OP says, I'd use peppers, aubergine, maybe courgette too - it's such a filling meal. Garlic bread for dipping.

The breakfast sounded fine too. Again, as a big fatty, I don't eat breakfast but yoghurt with fruit is nice.

Their behaviour is awful even if the food wasn't what they expected or wasn't quite enough for them.

Don't cook another thing for them and if they don't like it, they can go home.

Well exactly.

Well no, she was going on holiday but then she invited her sisters family as an Act. Of. Generosity.

When I stay at a nice hotel with a big breakfast buffet I’d go for yoghurt, fruit, nuts. That to me is a nice treat. I also have also ordered porridge a few times on recent holidays, one was delicious with strawberries and pecans so not prison food. It sounds like you are just on a totally different page food wise to them. But no excuse to be rude. If really not to their taste they can buy a toastie loaf and box of cereal for rest of week.

I wasn't as serious as the waterypasta-gate poster was...

Oh, whoops.