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AIBU to think a 10% inheritance levy for social care is fairer?

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TourdeCrema · 06/08/2026 08:27

So Andy Burnham is looking at a 10% death tax across the board instead of the system we now have, where social care may wipe out your entire inheritance and you don’t get a penny.

paying for everyone’s social care through the death tax

so if you leave £350k house and your parent had 5 years of care, you sell the house and pay £35k to the government and keep the remaining £315k.
presently you’d walk away with £0 as the social care would take the house cost

i think this is a much more reasonable suggestion, than walking away without a penny if my parent needed care( both my parents are dead, so it won’t affect me now)

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Corianda · 07/08/2026 01:24

We definitely need to fund social care of the elderly to stop bed blocking if nothing else

and everyone paying is the fairest / at the moment it’s an advantage to stick the elderly in a home if the state foots the bill which it does for the majority where I live. Losing some inheritance might make it more likely they will be encouraged (by family and their own wishes) to stay in their own home especially if the own home care is better due to better funding.

People in care homes are molly coddled (or the home is criticised) so they live on and on. A miserable existence imv. In their own home they have some autonomy.
10% across the board is best. The poor pay something and the rich pay more.

Corianda · 07/08/2026 01:12

IwouldlikeanewTV · 06/08/2026 21:02

It would be interesting to know how Sweden or Norway fund elderly care?

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Elderly care in Sweden is largely funded by municipal taxes and government grants, with the user only paying a small fraction of the costs, typically around 4-6%. The system is designed to provide publicly subsidized services based on individual needs, ensuring universal coverage.

mosaicwasthebest · 07/08/2026 00:02

Re the boomers and having to 'get them to pay' as someone said earlier - bear in mind that if you make sure boomers don't have much to leave to people then it's millennials you're punishing, not boomers. The boomers will be dead. Fair enough to take a good slice in IHT but gleefully wiping out the savings completely of one subset of the boomers who need care while leaving others with plenty to leave will only affect millennials.

The other thing no one's mentioned is the billions of pounds of unpaid care provided usually by women. Another side effect of fewer working age adults to fund things with tax is fewer working age adults to take time out of working for unpaid caring duties. With the best will in the world even families from cultures that pride themselves on doing all the caring themselves are going to find that harder in the future. Not sure what the answer is.

mosaicwasthebest · 06/08/2026 23:48

Insurance schemes are good for spreading the risk of catastrophic costs, whatever the kind. Pay a premium, and you'll never have to find the money to rebuild your house from scratch if it burns down. Pay for private health insurance and/or pay NI and you'll never have to find the money to fund your own cancer treatments. Not having to pay either of those also leaves people with more money to pass on to their children, and yet we don't put a charge or whatever on their house or bank account to get payments back from their estate later.

If the stats are so definite about only a certain fraction of us ever needing significant amounts of nursing care, then insurance of some kind probably makes sense. So pay a fixed amount and you'll still have to pay quite a few costs (and always food and accommodation costs), but never the really catastrophic ones. Equally, it might turn out that you never would have had any costs, and just like those years and years of home and contents insurance premiums, all you'll have had out of it is peace of mind. Seems fair enough.

Surely the only thing that matters is whether the premiums are sufficient to cover the collective payouts. No idea if 10% like this would be enough. It would probably make sense for it to be on a sliding scale.

I would be really happy to pay something like that just as I'm happy to pay for house insurance. I'm also happy for IHT to come out of my estate.

Putting a certain percentage of my money into the common pot knowing others may well take more out of that than I ever will doesn't bother me. Putting ALL my money in while others (with similar financial resources to me) put nothing in - having my entire life savings and pension wiped out paying inflated fees at a nursing home because private patients are needed to subsidize non-private patients (and to help private equity firms make profits) - really would.

That's not sharing the cost (of caring for people with no savings) across the whole population, that's focusing it very directly on a small number of people who also happen to need care, and viewing their particular savings as available to spend for this 'common good', but not other people's savings. I'm not sure why that's fair.

OutOfTheOtherSide · 06/08/2026 23:35

TourdeCrema · 06/08/2026 13:10

thats what happens now- the state pay and once you're dead the house is sold and the money collected by the state. If you live for 24 months in a care home, then there maybe money left over form he 3350k but if you lived 4 and a half years the money would all be taken by the state for your care

Yes, so why is that a problem?

XenoBitch · 06/08/2026 22:52

Witchlite · 06/08/2026 22:49

Generally I think this is fair - with one exception. ATM there is no tax for a wife or husband. If the surviving partner needs to find 5% of assets on the death of spouse, it could cause severe hardship. 5% assumes partners own all money equally, so 5% of everything owned. The house (usually the greatest asset) may have to be sold. Pensions are now part of the pot - what happens to spouses pension?

There would need to be an exemption for a spouse to inherit or the tax would need to be deferred until the second death. And any interest should be restricted to inflation, not the punitive rate HMRC use.

Not even spouses... anyone who is still living in the home that is due IHT.
I said upthread about someone who lived with her father, and she inherited the house when he died. She is on benefits and could not afford to pay 10% to stay in the home she has lived in for decades.

Witchlite · 06/08/2026 22:49

Generally I think this is fair - with one exception. ATM there is no tax for a wife or husband. If the surviving partner needs to find 5% of assets on the death of spouse, it could cause severe hardship. 5% assumes partners own all money equally, so 5% of everything owned. The house (usually the greatest asset) may have to be sold. Pensions are now part of the pot - what happens to spouses pension?

There would need to be an exemption for a spouse to inherit or the tax would need to be deferred until the second death. And any interest should be restricted to inflation, not the punitive rate HMRC use.

NorthXNorthWest · 06/08/2026 22:44

TourdeCrema · 06/08/2026 22:31

Sweden have municipal care homes - 290 of them for 2.2 million people over 65

UK has 220 municipal care homes with 12.5 million over 65s

They have fewer people in a contentious for profit sector. What is the point of introducing a social care tax if it is just lining the pockets of investors?

Sweden's for profit elderly care sector is every bit as much up for debate over whether it is fit for purpose as ours.

Broken is broken. Simply pouring more money into a broken system doesn't fix it.

Private equity isn't flocking to the care sector because it cares.

NorthXNorthWest · 06/08/2026 22:33

TourdeCrema · 06/08/2026 22:09

over 90% is spent on direct care
2% spent on admin and indirect care

How much direct care is by for profit companies?

People are told they can't leave more to their children because:
a. Their assets should fund their care
and
b. Even if that care isn't needed, it's supposedly unfair on those who will inherit nothing.

Yet a large proportion of that money paid for care ultimately ends up being paid to profit-maximising, for-profit care companies. Some are backed by private equity, that has complex tax structures, and pays salaries that require government top ups, whilst profits flow out of the country thought complex tax structures.

Seems fair...

TourdeCrema · 06/08/2026 22:31

NorthXNorthWest · 06/08/2026 22:24

Not with inhertance tax. It has been abolished.

Sweden have municipal care homes - 290 of them for 2.2 million people over 65

UK has 220 municipal care homes with 12.5 million over 65s

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NorthXNorthWest · 06/08/2026 22:24

IwouldlikeanewTV · 06/08/2026 21:02

It would be interesting to know how Sweden or Norway fund elderly care?

Not with inhertance tax. It has been abolished.

TourdeCrema · 06/08/2026 22:09

JudgeJ · 06/08/2026 22:04

An examination of where the money the NHS receives goes should precede anything. Are all those jobs on the non-direct medical side really necessary? I would like to see a breakdown of the % spent on direct patient care against the % spent on non-direct care.

over 90% is spent on direct care
2% spent on admin and indirect care

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TourdeCrema · 06/08/2026 22:06

Dishwashersforever · 06/08/2026 21:04

What makes it unfair is that a single parent who’s struggled to bring up children and buy a modest house will loose everything outright if they need care. So those kids that grew up at an arguable disadvantage with only parent are disadvantaged again. If one person in a couple needs care the other stays in the house and it won’t be used to pay fees. If you’re over 60 and live with a parent who goes into care the house isn’t sold. The system if full of injustices and it needs looking at.

even if the single parent doesn't need care and buys a modest house - any the time they die the children will pay 40% on part of the estate due to house prices. Whereas a couple married will double the protected part of the IHT £325 x 2 + £150k instead of £325 +£150k

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JudgeJ · 06/08/2026 22:04

Vaxtable · 06/08/2026 09:32

Adult social care can easily be sorted by sorting out the extremely wasteful nhs

but no government is prepared to do that due to the unions so money will continue to be thrown into that black hole

An examination of where the money the NHS receives goes should precede anything. Are all those jobs on the non-direct medical side really necessary? I would like to see a breakdown of the % spent on direct patient care against the % spent on non-direct care.

TourdeCrema · 06/08/2026 22:03

Safetoshore · 06/08/2026 21:01

Your examples are not comparable. They were not constructed expressly to protect money for inheritance.

So you think that 10% death tax is being constructed to expressively to protect money for inheritance?

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LeftBoobGoneRogue · 06/08/2026 21:54

LarkspurBlues · 06/08/2026 10:02

I think that making it ‘fairer’ in favour of the generation who got every financial break going is unreasonable. Boomers sell
their houses to fund their care, put unfairly annexed wealth back into the pot, then start this scheme in 20 years or so when things have evened back out.

Exactly how did ‘Boomers’ unfairly annex wealth? Pension ages have risen, final salary pensions ended apart from the public sector affecting those born towards the end of the Baby Boom period. House prices have risen because too few have been built for decades. I would prefer house prices hadn’t risen by so much because my DC are struggling to afford to buy or rent. Government policy over the last 4 decades has caused a lot of these problems (m
ost of the last 45 years the Tories were in power). Eg selling off social housing.

Dishwashersforever · 06/08/2026 21:18

Safetoshore · 06/08/2026 20:54

Inheritance is very different to the costs involved raising a child. The majority of those expecting inheritance are full adults who no longer need raising.

You can 'want' to give money to your kids but unfortunately it's not a right. If you have stuff you need to pay for then... well you pay for it.

People who can will just give their kids money early on ( to aim for 7 years before death) it’s human nature to want to secure your offspring’s future as much as you can. Some people do it through private education is that not their right to do that either?

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 06/08/2026 21:12

It isn’t fair. The state chooses to spend money on illegal immigrants, benefit fraudsters and nonsense leaving nothing for people who work hard and pay their taxes. Before someone quotes me please bear in mind that I have worked in the public sector for the last 30 years. This country is run poorly by people who are not seeing what the majority of people are seeing on a daily basis.

Dishwashersforever · 06/08/2026 21:04

Safetoshore · 06/08/2026 20:54

Inheritance is very different to the costs involved raising a child. The majority of those expecting inheritance are full adults who no longer need raising.

You can 'want' to give money to your kids but unfortunately it's not a right. If you have stuff you need to pay for then... well you pay for it.

What makes it unfair is that a single parent who’s struggled to bring up children and buy a modest house will loose everything outright if they need care. So those kids that grew up at an arguable disadvantage with only parent are disadvantaged again. If one person in a couple needs care the other stays in the house and it won’t be used to pay fees. If you’re over 60 and live with a parent who goes into care the house isn’t sold. The system if full of injustices and it needs looking at.

IwouldlikeanewTV · 06/08/2026 21:02

It would be interesting to know how Sweden or Norway fund elderly care?

Safetoshore · 06/08/2026 21:01

TourdeCrema · 06/08/2026 20:47

free nursing care, NHS, schools are a socialist idea - not sure why you are suggesting its to keep money in some families and not others

Your examples are not comparable. They were not constructed expressly to protect money for inheritance.

IwouldlikeanewTV · 06/08/2026 21:01

Itchthescratch · 06/08/2026 09:59

95% of people that die leave behind some kind of inheritance. The median value of estates is £69k in cash alone.

I would be interested in understanding where that figure comes from as I received nothing from my deceased parents. Neither did my brother. My partner has received nil, and so has his brother.

Dishwashersforever · 06/08/2026 20:55

Cornishclio · 06/08/2026 20:03

I think this is a fair proposal too. It is not fair that some people see their whole estate go on care home fees. 10% on all estates makes sense. Presumably this would be instead of inheritance tax or would it be as well as? I would also be worried the very rich would find loopholes though.

I think they do anyway . They’d might not bother for ten percent though

Safetoshore · 06/08/2026 20:54

Itchthescratch · 06/08/2026 20:23

Except we as a society rely on parents not only spending their money on themselves for things they need in their lifetime but also to fund the costs associated with raising their children. It costs £200k to raise a child in the UK and frankly anyone taking the financial hit of investing in their child is doing everyone else a huge favour as we need future workers and it's obviously financially advantageous to not have children. It is natural and normal that this parental bond extends to parents wanting to give money to their children in life and death. Both are currently liable to attract a huge IHT bill at the moment depending on timing. If you can spend crazy amounts of money on yachts and expensive holidays then why can't you give it to your children in a similar way? Why does this automatically attract a 40% tax?

I think you're trying to have it all ways. You can't on the one hand state that people should pay for their own care and then on the other hand look to socialise it so that the rich fund the poor. Do you think the poor should be denied care that they can't afford?

Inheritance is very different to the costs involved raising a child. The majority of those expecting inheritance are full adults who no longer need raising.

You can 'want' to give money to your kids but unfortunately it's not a right. If you have stuff you need to pay for then... well you pay for it.

Maybeitllneverhappen · 06/08/2026 20:51

But as I said earlier, you could use all your money on a care home (for accommodation, food, laundry etc) because only the "care" part is provided and then lose 10% after death, so there'll be even less left to heirs.

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