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AIBU to think an Edinburgh festival show about Meredith Kercher's murder should be stopped?

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VivienneDelacroix · 06/08/2026 01:04

Aibu to think that this show at the Edinburgh Festival should be cancelled? It mocks the circumstances around the murder of Meredith Kercher and serves it up as entertainment.

Not only is it horribly disrespectful of Meredith's family, but it also belittles the issue of violence against girls and women.

Meredith's siblings are calling for it to be pulled from the festival. There is also a petition calling for it to be stopped.

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Cagoenlaleche · 09/08/2026 10:27

11AndCounting · 09/08/2026 06:02

The allegation is evidence (witness testimony). You yourself said as much:

"The accusation of physical violence was not proven. No evidence except Knox's accusation."

Everyone agrees there is no other evidence.

We just have different opinions on whether the allegation should is likely to be true or untrue.

In your head, you think your opinion has validity, but persistently dismiss everyone else's as "just an opinion", which is extremely obnoxious.

I guess I'm less sensitive than you if someone has a different opinion to me. It's just an opinion. No need for the insults.

11AndCounting · 09/08/2026 10:25

Cagoenlaleche · 09/08/2026 10:19

I haven't signed any petitions. You seem to be arguing in a manner quite common now that criticism = cancelling. They are different things. It's a common technique of the far right at the moment.

I'm assuming you're replying to me (a genuine reminder on using the quote function to keep things coherent).

I didn't accuse you specifically of signing the petition, so please do not dishonestly impy that I did - I was merely pointing out that the assertion "she can certainly not claim to have been silenced in any way" rather minimizes that the topic of this thread is a call for her show to be canceled.

Cagoenlaleche · 09/08/2026 10:19

I haven't signed any petitions. You seem to be arguing in a manner quite common now that criticism = cancelling. They are different things. It's a common technique of the far right at the moment.

BlackRowan · 09/08/2026 10:04

Itchysidefoot · 09/08/2026 08:43

I have no idea whether she’s guilty or not.

But just taking her decision to perform a comedy show at Edinburgh festival strikes me as a character trait of someone I would not like or respect. In the slightest.

Maybe you should learn a bit more so you understand why it is considered such a gross miscarriage of justice. She is innocent because the was 100% cleared and Supreme Court of Italy confirmed it’s not on technicality or “beyond reasonable doubt” but because it is impossible for her ti be involved in any way.

in the context of gross miscarriage of justice and absolute insane witch-hunt in media (in Italian and British media) she can speak where and when she wants to in my opinion

also I’m one of the people thinking that she doesn’t owe Kerchers anything. Far from behaving with grace, they behaved like bullies over these years, personally campaigned against HER (and not for justice for Meredith) and never apologised for believing that she was involved. They probably believe she’s still guilty or whatever. Their tragedy doesn’t allow them to continue to vilify Amanda Knox.

SummerNocturnal · 09/08/2026 09:35

Paddingtonsmarmaladesandwich2 · 08/08/2026 20:03

Rachel nickels partner wrote a letter to Colin stagg apologising for their role in believing he was guilty - so different - here’s a short quote

In his letter, Mr Hanscombe, 46, says: "I am sorry for the ordeal that you have endured during virtually the whole length off this very sad affair, and any part that I might have had personally to make it worse."

people don’t seem so upset about the men wrongly accused - what about Knox’s boyfriend?

the show seems to be trying to publicise the danger to women and girls rather than dismiss it

I always thought MK family were respectful but I feel differently now

I did feel sorry for Raff as well but I was also annoyed that he let himself get played and told the police what they wanted to hear - that he couldn't be 100% certain Amanda had never left his flat that night.
The computer showed a movie had been watched at the time Meredith was murdered and early the next morning a music playlist (including Nirvana, popular in Seattle) was playing. On top of that an external witness spoke to Amanda at 8.40. I believe Amanda did stay over and the whole "see you later" text and whole other Satanic bs the prosecutor was interested in, led them down a dodgy path of quick arrests rather than awaiting DNA evidence.

The mop used to clean Raff's leak and returned to the cottage showed no blood on it. He spoke with his sister who worked for the police. I absolutely would have relied on him too to speak with them, if my Italian was basic. Would things have been different had they just gone on their daytrip rather than go back to her flat together then ending up raising the alarm? Undoubtedly.

Under interrogation, Raff threw her under the bus and when his lawyers later said to distance from her, drove over her. Allegedly he has said he would not consider doing a show about his experiences and would move on (he did write a book though as his costs were also £££ and he received no compensation) again throwing her under the bus (especially as he has himself been accused of making comments in bad taste about the murder itself).

Knox does not do that in this show and yes, had I been up in Scotland this year, I may well have gone to see it as I like monologues and am interested in stories about others' experience of motherhood (hence why I am on MN).

ThatJadeLion · 09/08/2026 09:34

I wonder whether her separate criminal conviction, upheld by Italy’s highest court in 2025, featured in the show 🤔 After all, it arose directly from the same case.

11AndCounting · 09/08/2026 09:15

user1471460024 · 09/08/2026 09:06

For not staying silent when others wanted her to. For continuing her life. Also, the show is fully sold out for a reason. People want to hear her story and good on her. X

Same. I had no opinion on her as a human being before learning of the show, but have a tonne of respect for what she's doing.

11AndCounting · 09/08/2026 09:08

Some audience members react:

https://x.com/SkyNews/status/2085857652559544820/mediaViewer?currentTweet=2085857652559544820&currentTweetUser=SkyNews

I did laugh at the "it's not funny" as an intended defence.

user1471460024 · 09/08/2026 09:06

Itchysidefoot · 09/08/2026 09:04

You respect her more?

what made you respect her in the first place?

For not staying silent when others wanted her to. For continuing her life. Also, the show is fully sold out for a reason. People want to hear her story and good on her. X

Itchysidefoot · 09/08/2026 09:05

Lexibletheflexible · 09/08/2026 08:45

Okay

It is isn’t it? Okay

Itchysidefoot · 09/08/2026 09:04

user1471460024 · 09/08/2026 08:52

That's where we are all different. I respect her more for doing the show and having the mental strength to continue when odds have been against her. X

You respect her more?

what made you respect her in the first place?

user1471460024 · 09/08/2026 08:52

Itchysidefoot · 09/08/2026 08:43

I have no idea whether she’s guilty or not.

But just taking her decision to perform a comedy show at Edinburgh festival strikes me as a character trait of someone I would not like or respect. In the slightest.

That's where we are all different. I respect her more for doing the show and having the mental strength to continue when odds have been against her. X

Lexibletheflexible · 09/08/2026 08:45

Itchysidefoot · 09/08/2026 08:43

I have no idea whether she’s guilty or not.

But just taking her decision to perform a comedy show at Edinburgh festival strikes me as a character trait of someone I would not like or respect. In the slightest.

Okay

11AndCounting · 09/08/2026 08:45

Cagoenlaleche · 09/08/2026 08:01

Some posters won't acknowledge the pain of Meredith Kercher's family. Some are even accusing them on this thread of creating this furore, of seeking attention. Knox has been proven innocent and had many years to publicise and discuss how badly she was treated. Her books and films are available in perpetuity. She is performing in Edinburgh right now and will probably continue to do so elsewhere. It is in my opinion in very bad taste to create entertainment out of it, but she can certainly not claim to have been silenced in any way.

She has not been silenced.

Some tried, in this instance, but failed.

I do think the Kerchers were wrong to start the campaign, but I afford them (and people who personally knew Meredith) huge leeway. It's similar to how I'm opposed to capital punishment, but can be entirely sympathetic to directly impacted people feeling otherwise.

Emotions are powerful and actions based on them understandable but, fundamentally, I think foundational principles (like the promotion of justice and freedom of speech) are paramount.

Itchysidefoot · 09/08/2026 08:43

Lexibletheflexible · 09/08/2026 07:12

I listened to a podcast that explained all the evidence against her and it was clear there there wasnt any. She was an idiot in many ways, but not a murderer.

Before that, I had only really read things in the media and by Merideth's family.

What makes you think she is guilty of murder? What evidence in particular?

I have no idea whether she’s guilty or not.

But just taking her decision to perform a comedy show at Edinburgh festival strikes me as a character trait of someone I would not like or respect. In the slightest.

Matronic6 · 09/08/2026 08:41

Itchysidefoot · 09/08/2026 06:15

I’m fascinated at how utterly convinced, to the extent that one would almost think that some of these posters were present at the night of the murder, that AK is not only wholly innocent in every respect, but that she 100% deserves to now do essentially anything and everything she darn well wants, without consideration of anything or anyone, to make up for her wrongful imprisonment.

Genuinely… I’m fascinated. Did the case really pique your interest, for example @AsHot ? Do you know anyone involved? Or is it just that you have a huge amount of time on your hands and so spend a disproportionate amount of time campaigning for her?

Oh… and any of her supporters on this thread planning on going to watch her at the festival????

Edited

Well, people are 100% convinced of her innocence as she has been 100% cleared of any involvement in the crime.

Also, no one is saying she can do 'whatever she wants'. To me it seems the some people will find anything she does to be unacceptable or in poor taste without knowing the actual content of the show. OP poste on here that it was a comedy show about MK's murder, which all accounts now indicate is not the case. The show is focused on her experience, which I believe she, like everyone else, is entitled to talk about as much as she wants, the fact is there will always be people there to listen because what happened to her is shocking.

I would absolutely have gone to this show at the festival if I was based in Edinburgh. The reviews are good and the audience feedback has used the word "respectful."

ThatJadeLion · 09/08/2026 08:27

Cagoenlaleche · 09/08/2026 08:01

Some posters won't acknowledge the pain of Meredith Kercher's family. Some are even accusing them on this thread of creating this furore, of seeking attention. Knox has been proven innocent and had many years to publicise and discuss how badly she was treated. Her books and films are available in perpetuity. She is performing in Edinburgh right now and will probably continue to do so elsewhere. It is in my opinion in very bad taste to create entertainment out of it, but she can certainly not claim to have been silenced in any way.

Exactly. Acknowledging Knox’s acquittal doesn’t require people to approve of how she continues to publicise and monetise the case. She has books, films, interviews and now a live show.. she has quite clearly not been silenced. People are simply entitled to find it distasteful and to consider the continuing impact on Meredith’s family.

Outside of what you said I also want to remind people who weren't aware that yes, she was acquitted of murder, but she was not cleared of everything. Her separate criminal conviction was upheld by Italy’s highest court in 2025.

DistantEarlyWarning · 09/08/2026 08:23

Cagoenlaleche · 09/08/2026 08:01

Some posters won't acknowledge the pain of Meredith Kercher's family. Some are even accusing them on this thread of creating this furore, of seeking attention. Knox has been proven innocent and had many years to publicise and discuss how badly she was treated. Her books and films are available in perpetuity. She is performing in Edinburgh right now and will probably continue to do so elsewhere. It is in my opinion in very bad taste to create entertainment out of it, but she can certainly not claim to have been silenced in any way.

I understand that’s how you feel and of course you’re allowed to express that feeling.

But that’s not what my reply was about.

You seemed to be saying that no-one is trying to silence her, whilst suggesting she should be silent. So people are trying to silence her, including you. Be honest about it.

AsHot · 09/08/2026 08:12

Itchysidefoot · 09/08/2026 06:15

I’m fascinated at how utterly convinced, to the extent that one would almost think that some of these posters were present at the night of the murder, that AK is not only wholly innocent in every respect, but that she 100% deserves to now do essentially anything and everything she darn well wants, without consideration of anything or anyone, to make up for her wrongful imprisonment.

Genuinely… I’m fascinated. Did the case really pique your interest, for example @AsHot ? Do you know anyone involved? Or is it just that you have a huge amount of time on your hands and so spend a disproportionate amount of time campaigning for her?

Oh… and any of her supporters on this thread planning on going to watch her at the festival????

Edited

Funny that you've only highlighted a poster who's been on a lot who holds a view you don't like, and didn't feel the need to comment on the motives of frequent thread users who believe she's guilty and/or shouldn't be performing. Perhaps people who agree with you are proportionate by definition?

But in case you missed yesterday's posts, what with you being brand new to the thread and all, it descended a bit and we were specifically told to focus on the subject of the thread, not to speculate about people's motives for posting and identities (there's a button at the very top of the thread where you can click to see all MNHQs posts). As it was verging on weirdo territory, I'm not going to share personal information.

ThatJadeLion · 09/08/2026 08:03

Cagoenlaleche · 09/08/2026 08:01

Some posters won't acknowledge the pain of Meredith Kercher's family. Some are even accusing them on this thread of creating this furore, of seeking attention. Knox has been proven innocent and had many years to publicise and discuss how badly she was treated. Her books and films are available in perpetuity. She is performing in Edinburgh right now and will probably continue to do so elsewhere. It is in my opinion in very bad taste to create entertainment out of it, but she can certainly not claim to have been silenced in any way.

Many people feel the same way.

Cagoenlaleche · 09/08/2026 08:01

DistantEarlyWarning · 09/08/2026 07:42

Noone has told Knox to go away and shut up.

So, what does It's just too much imo mean, if not that you think she shouldn’t go away and shut up?

Some posters won't acknowledge the pain of Meredith Kercher's family. Some are even accusing them on this thread of creating this furore, of seeking attention. Knox has been proven innocent and had many years to publicise and discuss how badly she was treated. Her books and films are available in perpetuity. She is performing in Edinburgh right now and will probably continue to do so elsewhere. It is in my opinion in very bad taste to create entertainment out of it, but she can certainly not claim to have been silenced in any way.

SpaceRaccoon · 09/08/2026 07:58

Itchysidefoot · 09/08/2026 06:15

I’m fascinated at how utterly convinced, to the extent that one would almost think that some of these posters were present at the night of the murder, that AK is not only wholly innocent in every respect, but that she 100% deserves to now do essentially anything and everything she darn well wants, without consideration of anything or anyone, to make up for her wrongful imprisonment.

Genuinely… I’m fascinated. Did the case really pique your interest, for example @AsHot ? Do you know anyone involved? Or is it just that you have a huge amount of time on your hands and so spend a disproportionate amount of time campaigning for her?

Oh… and any of her supporters on this thread planning on going to watch her at the festival????

Edited

The case really piqued my interest at the time, and I always thought she was innocent. I kind of identified with her, as another awkward fucker who was quite a daft, unboundaried young woman who not everyone took to.

Growing up somewhere religious and conservative, I also recognised the batshit satanic panic stuff and the misogyny.

I thought the prosecution was absolutely perverse and salacious, and the general public lapped it up. They WANTED it to be true, it was far more interesting than the reality of what really happened. They wanted a young woman to vility, and details of a group orgy murder. It was gross, tbh.

ThatJadeLion · 09/08/2026 07:57

It's amazing how many people would want to support the show of a convicted criminal just one year ago.

DistantEarlyWarning · 09/08/2026 07:49

DistantEarlyWarning · 09/08/2026 07:42

Noone has told Knox to go away and shut up.

So, what does It's just too much imo mean, if not that you think she shouldn’t go away and shut up?

Should, not shouldn’t. Damned autocorrect.

AsHot · 09/08/2026 07:47

Cagoenlaleche · 08/08/2026 23:45

The second part was obviously an opinion. As it is the opinion of many that just because Knox accused the police of hitting her it must be true.

Yes, it was. Which is why you don't have any business telling other people who are expressing opinions to fact check. What's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.