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AIBU to think an Edinburgh festival show about Meredith Kercher's murder should be stopped?

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VivienneDelacroix · 06/08/2026 01:04

Aibu to think that this show at the Edinburgh Festival should be cancelled? It mocks the circumstances around the murder of Meredith Kercher and serves it up as entertainment.

Not only is it horribly disrespectful of Meredith's family, but it also belittles the issue of violence against girls and women.

Meredith's siblings are calling for it to be pulled from the festival. There is also a petition calling for it to be stopped.

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11AndCounting · 10/08/2026 07:12

sashh · 10/08/2026 06:15

There were good reasons to arrest her.

I don't know if she is guilty or not, but there are questions she should answer.

There re huge holes in her story.

She put an innocent man in prison, he has since lost his business and I think, his home.

The police investigation was flawed but there was evidence to implicate her and Sollecito.

@randomchap

The knife from Sollecito's flat had Meredith's DNA on it. How did it get there?

Yes someone was found guilty, they said Knox and Sollecito were there too.

The murder was so brutal it had to be more than one person.

RIP Meredith

Meredith's DNA was not on the knife - that was a prosecution claim that was proven false.

A reminder that the court ultimately concluded that it was close to impossible for Knox or Sollecito to be involved, since there was no trace of their DNA at the scene.

Rudy Guede, speaking to a friend and unaware that the friend had been recruited by police, specifically denied Knox's involvement and didn't know who Sollecito was. He only implicated them after becoming aware of media reports.

11AndCounting · 10/08/2026 07:09

Itchysidefoot · 10/08/2026 06:12

@11AndCounting what drew you to spending presumably many many hours going so deep in to this researching this case that the opinion you have formed seems to be something you feel very very deeply tied to?

I've already answered a very similar question you posed, probably a few pages back.

sashh · 10/08/2026 06:15

AsHot · 06/08/2026 07:56

Yabvvvu.

Amanda Knox was falsely accused and spent years in prison. Even now she has to move through the world knowing there are people who are so hopped up on Internet conspiracy theories that they still believe she did it. We got about a dozen posts in before some Rumpole of the Facebook comments section helpfully pipes up to demonstrate.

What this means is she has every right to talk about it. It's understandable that Merediths family, having not only lost her but been lied to institutionally, struggle with this. But nobody else has any excuse.

There were good reasons to arrest her.

I don't know if she is guilty or not, but there are questions she should answer.

There re huge holes in her story.

She put an innocent man in prison, he has since lost his business and I think, his home.

The police investigation was flawed but there was evidence to implicate her and Sollecito.

@randomchap

The knife from Sollecito's flat had Meredith's DNA on it. How did it get there?

Yes someone was found guilty, they said Knox and Sollecito were there too.

The murder was so brutal it had to be more than one person.

RIP Meredith

Itchysidefoot · 10/08/2026 06:12

11AndCounting · 10/08/2026 00:48

That's not an observation, its a mistatement.

After about the 10th time you raised that Knox was convicted of slander, as an argument that she should not be given a platform at the Fringe, someone argued that, if you repeated your earlier posts in the thread, inside an Italian police station, you'd arguably be committing the same crime.

I.e., that it is a little inconsistent for you to accuse someone of murder, without evidence, while taking the position that Amanda Knox should be deplatformed for her false accusation.

The "that's speculation" or "that's just your opinion" comments have generally come from Knox's critics (save apart from people being challenged on their attempt at cancelling a show, that they havent seen, based on speculation of what its contents may be).

@11AndCounting what drew you to spending presumably many many hours going so deep in to this researching this case that the opinion you have formed seems to be something you feel very very deeply tied to?

11AndCounting · 10/08/2026 00:48

ThatJadeLion · 10/08/2026 00:29

This isn't in response to a particular poster, just a general observation that there seems to be an odd double standard around speculation on this thread. Some posters were quick to warn others about unsupported or potentially defamatory claims, while lengthy speculation that supports their own position appears to be ok.

That's not an observation, its a mistatement.

After about the 10th time you raised that Knox was convicted of slander, as an argument that she should not be given a platform at the Fringe, someone argued that, if you repeated your earlier posts in the thread, inside an Italian police station, you'd arguably be committing the same crime.

I.e., that it is a little inconsistent for you to accuse someone of murder, without evidence, while taking the position that Amanda Knox should be deplatformed for her false accusation.

The "that's speculation" or "that's just your opinion" comments have generally come from Knox's critics (save apart from people being challenged on their attempt at cancelling a show, that they havent seen, based on speculation of what its contents may be).

ThatJadeLion · 10/08/2026 00:29

This isn't in response to a particular poster, just a general observation that there seems to be an odd double standard around speculation on this thread. Some posters were quick to warn others about unsupported or potentially defamatory claims, while lengthy speculation that supports their own position appears to be ok.

11AndCounting · 09/08/2026 23:57

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11AndCounting · 09/08/2026 23:57

InterIgnis · 09/08/2026 23:36

I suspect it’s also to do with the thorny issue of compensation.

Italy resisted compensating her and used the calunnia conviction as justification for this. They had to be ordered by the European Court to make a payment of a frankly nominal amount.

To say the whole case was mishandled is an understatement, and as a result Italy basically ended up being humiliated on the world stage. The calunnia conviction is one small win they want to hold onto, rather than admit total defeat.

It could well be, but the compensation entitlement would have been pretty minimal in the scheme of things.

I tend to see if similar to the mental gymnastics the investigation felt compared to perform, to protect the ego of a man who felt he'd be further tarnished if he had to admit he got it wrong (again...as with his previous satanic panic case).

Either way, it's hard to perceive it as fair-minded decision, or one that will survive outside scrutiny.

Obviously its a small-fry conviction in the context of the original one, but I would like to see a satisfying, final win.

ThatJadeLion · 09/08/2026 23:56

Speculation remains speculation only. Amanda Knox remains a convicted criminal for falsely accusing an innocent man of murder, following the final ruling of Italy’s highest court in 2025.

InterIgnis · 09/08/2026 23:36

11AndCounting · 09/08/2026 20:18

Obviously a speculative opinion, but the Italian Supreme Court's decision against her strikes me as an attempt to save face, by refusing to concede that every single decision rendered against Knox was catastrophically wrong.

I suspect it’s also to do with the thorny issue of compensation.

Italy resisted compensating her and used the calunnia conviction as justification for this. They had to be ordered by the European Court to make a payment of a frankly nominal amount.

To say the whole case was mishandled is an understatement, and as a result Italy basically ended up being humiliated on the world stage. The calunnia conviction is one small win they want to hold onto, rather than admit total defeat.

Ilovelurchers · 09/08/2026 23:28

I seem to have offended people by using the tern "fans of Knox" - please let me apologise/explain.

I did NOT mean to imply that everyone defending her right to perform her comedy show was a "fan'. I myself would defend this too, in the interests of free speech, while also still (I think, on the whole - and I am listening to other people's views) thinking that it was an error of judgement on the whole.

But I also think it's entirely possible that some people are fans of her - why not? She's now a performing artist - she sells tickets to her shows - why shouldn't she or wouldn't she have fans?

But I do realise that people could wish to defend her without classing themselves as a fan, and I am sorry that my previous post didn't acknowledge that.

And you all make good points about why she might not apologise to Lamumba even though she more than anyone knows the damage false accusation can do. If she was abused to the extent that she was incapable of understanding at the time that her accusation was a false one, I can see how she might feel that she had no need to apologise.

To those criticising the amount of speculation on the thread - isn't that exactly what her various collaborative ventures, performances etc encourage people to do - speculate? The purpose of art surely is to make people think, and talk - if she didn't want that she'd surely just keep quiet, or at the most issue a completely factual statement of events as she saw them, with no rehtorical comment......

SummerNocturnal · 09/08/2026 23:10

No, it was a one-off comment she said to a journalist in an article I read. One of the links I posted upthread. The journalist mentioned it as they were saying she is a naturally funny, quick person with a wry sense of humour. It was an example of dark, gallows humour but her show afaik is pretty bland.

Cagoenlaleche · 09/08/2026 22:53

She says 'please don't die near me' in the show? That's vile.

Paddingtonsmarmaladesandwich2 · 09/08/2026 22:30

AlphaApple · 09/08/2026 22:19

I’m not a “fan of Knox” but I do believe in (a) freedom of speech, even for people I don’t like, and even for people I don’t agree with and equally, (b) that criminal investigations and trials should not be popularity contests.

The title of this thread is about stopping a show because people either find the performer or subject matter distasteful, or think AK’s “had enough attention”. If you don’t like AK, or don’t want her to have any more attention, then just don’t buy a ticket.

I find Ed Sheeran pretty fucking offensive but I don’t think he should be stopped from singing his god-awful songs.

couldn’t agree with you more - especially ed Sheeran

I don’t really like AK - am supporter of justice and free speech not her as another poster seems to suggest - that we are fans - couldn’t be farther from the truth

AlphaApple · 09/08/2026 22:19

I’m not a “fan of Knox” but I do believe in (a) freedom of speech, even for people I don’t like, and even for people I don’t agree with and equally, (b) that criminal investigations and trials should not be popularity contests.

The title of this thread is about stopping a show because people either find the performer or subject matter distasteful, or think AK’s “had enough attention”. If you don’t like AK, or don’t want her to have any more attention, then just don’t buy a ticket.

I find Ed Sheeran pretty fucking offensive but I don’t think he should be stopped from singing his god-awful songs.

SummerNocturnal · 09/08/2026 21:55

prh47bridge · 09/08/2026 13:03

The evidence is that it was Guede who did not flush the loo after defecating in it, not Knox.

By the way, I have had someone who continues to believe in Knox's guilt explain their reasoning. They continue to believe the discredited forensic evidence given by Patrizia Stefanoni, the police forensic scientist. I have been told confidently that Kercher's DNA was on the blade of the knife the police claim was the murder weapon despite the fact that we know from her notes that Stefanoni was lying about this (and, indeed, much of her other evidence such as the claimed bloody footprints).

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Not what I am curious about. I have an ND child who constantly forgets to flush. Now in fairness, I am related to him and expect it now. He's a work in process.
But if I was in a flat share I guess what I'm saying is if I found the loo like that, even if it wasn't the bathroom I'd usually use, I would flush it automatically.
💩
If she left it like that because she had the fear rather than the ick, you'd have thought she'd have pushed the ajar door sooner or brought Raff back sooner.
That's the only thing I'm curious about. I still feel very sorry for her though because it really feels like a Sliding doors scenario. There's another version of this whole thing whereby she showers at Raff's, has her clothes with her already, no leak to mop and they take a picnic as planned to Gubbio. And live happily ever after.
Filomena comes back to the flat first, shows the "right" reactions and the police await DNA.
That's fucking heartbreaking.
Or it's a pipe dream because the police were incompetent enough to have gone for them anyway and play them off against each other, all for a faster result.
This is interesting summing up of why things occurred although needs an update following their vindication.
https://www.lrb.co.uk/the-paper/v35/n20/nick-richardson/nothing-fits

As to the show, did I find the clips/and material on the reviews I read funny?
Please don't die near me, is dark but wry.
Wouldn't be the first time I signed something without understanding it, again wry.
Dr Seuss stuff Knox in box etc and rhyme - oof, less funny but can still see it working in a monologue.
Cartwheeling off the stage - a bit bad taste, but would work solidly as an end note to a tight hour on the Fringe.
TLDR: I've seen all sorts of shite and experimental crap at Edinburgh over the years. This would be me QLTM/a wry smile of acknowledgement rather than LOL but won't be the first or last dramedy one-woman show, reciting a monologue/story.
And I think she has balls of steel performing it. It is bloody brave, given the detractors she has. Edinburgh for heckling can be a bearpit. This clearly is Theatre rather than Stand up, and she seems to have a respectful rubbernecking audience who want to be there. But by God, I admire her for doing it.

Nick Richardson · Nothing Fits: Amanda Knox

None of the stories we’ve been told about Meredith Kercher’s death really works...

https://www.lrb.co.uk/the-paper/v35/n20/nick-richardson/nothing-fits

11AndCounting · 09/08/2026 20:48

@Ilovelurchers

I posted it earlier, and an except again later, so I'll avoid repeating it again, but I'd reccomend taking a look at Denise Huskins' post about her reaction to watching the show (and, if you're not familiar with her, reading her story).

Itchysidefoot · 09/08/2026 20:44

11AndCounting · 09/08/2026 20:42

Indeed! Who'd have thought it on a thread about "should this thing none of us have ever seen be canceled?"

Like moths to a flame though

11AndCounting · 09/08/2026 20:42

Itchysidefoot · 09/08/2026 20:19

A speculative opinion??? On this thread???

Indeed! Who'd have thought it on a thread about "should this thing none of us have ever seen be canceled?"

Itchysidefoot · 09/08/2026 20:19

11AndCounting · 09/08/2026 20:18

Obviously a speculative opinion, but the Italian Supreme Court's decision against her strikes me as an attempt to save face, by refusing to concede that every single decision rendered against Knox was catastrophically wrong.

A speculative opinion??? On this thread???

11AndCounting · 09/08/2026 20:18

Obviously a speculative opinion, but the Italian Supreme Court's decision against her strikes me as an attempt to save face, by refusing to concede that every single decision rendered against Knox was catastrophically wrong.

11AndCounting · 09/08/2026 20:08

Ilovelurchers · 09/08/2026 19:20

You make a really valid point about the cathartic potential of comedy - and I'm also aware that I am talking about this from a position of ignorance, not having actually seen the show, apart from the clip linked to above, which was just a sequence of "look at me, I'm so unique, don't you all love to hate me" quasi-jokes but could well have been curated by whoever originally posted it to social media to make exactly this point, and may not be representative of the show in it's entirety.

If, as a whole, Knox uses her show as a platform to ridicule and satirise mysogyny, and if it has been received as positively helpful by sex abuse survivors, then these are laudable things - and perhaps I ought to at least watch it before I say too much more about it....

As a slight side note, I am curious about what fans of Knox think about the fact that she has never directly apologised to Patrick Lumumba for falsely accusing him, leading to his arrest and, in his opinion, permanent damage to his reputation and career? I am aware that she alleges that she accused him under duress - and this might well be true, but there are different degrees of duress - though she no doubt faced pressure, possibly malpractice on the part of the interrogators, unless subjected to physical torture surely she should accept some responsibility for doing this degree of harm to a former friend, and at least give him the apology he has requested?

On Lumumba, her account is broadly:

  • she was in a state of sleep deprivation and extreme exhaustion;

  • she was persistently yelled at by the police who wrongfully and persistently insisted she and Lumumba were present at the scene, and that they had proof;

  • her "interpreter" convinced her she was repressing her memories;

  • she was repeatedly struck on her head, while being yelled at to "remember";

  • this produced an imagined vision of Patrick at the scene, which did not feel real to her but what she thought it must be like to recall a repressed memory.

The ECTHR finding was that she was subject to intense psychological coercion and placed in an unbearable situation of stress and oppression, to induce the allegation.

She promptly recanted when outside of the interrogation - but not conclusively so (i.e. that she did not have confidence the visions she experienced were real).

What she describes is highly consistent with documented psychological patterns observed in other false confessions and experimental research (termed Coerced-Internalized False Confession). She'd probably need to have had an extensive working knowledge of criminology and psychology to have faked it (given the contemporary evidence of her state of mind - i.e. her note).

I view it very much as something the police did to her and Patrick. The Italian Supreme Court, of course, do not agree with that (though I look forward to the ECTHR judgment, and expect it's quite likely we'll see another finding against Italy).

And yes, an apology could be weaponizes against her in the ongoing proceedings.

AsHot · 09/08/2026 20:02

InterIgnis · 09/08/2026 19:38

She was almost certainly advised by her lawyers not to apologize, publicly or privately.

Apologizing would be an admission of culpability. The lawsuit concerning the false accusation concluded in 2025, so she certainly wouldn’t have been wise to accept responsibility whilst that was ongoing. It would have completely undermined her entire legal case. It would/could also leave her vulnerable to potential legal action against her by Lumumba.

Yes as a general rule I wouldn't expect apologies from anyone involved in legal proceedings over the thing at issue, which Knox still is.

SpaceRaccoon · 09/08/2026 19:47

@Ilovelurchers see I took it more as self-awareness on her older self's part that she did come across as a bit of a twat.

InterIgnis · 09/08/2026 19:38

Ilovelurchers · 09/08/2026 19:20

You make a really valid point about the cathartic potential of comedy - and I'm also aware that I am talking about this from a position of ignorance, not having actually seen the show, apart from the clip linked to above, which was just a sequence of "look at me, I'm so unique, don't you all love to hate me" quasi-jokes but could well have been curated by whoever originally posted it to social media to make exactly this point, and may not be representative of the show in it's entirety.

If, as a whole, Knox uses her show as a platform to ridicule and satirise mysogyny, and if it has been received as positively helpful by sex abuse survivors, then these are laudable things - and perhaps I ought to at least watch it before I say too much more about it....

As a slight side note, I am curious about what fans of Knox think about the fact that she has never directly apologised to Patrick Lumumba for falsely accusing him, leading to his arrest and, in his opinion, permanent damage to his reputation and career? I am aware that she alleges that she accused him under duress - and this might well be true, but there are different degrees of duress - though she no doubt faced pressure, possibly malpractice on the part of the interrogators, unless subjected to physical torture surely she should accept some responsibility for doing this degree of harm to a former friend, and at least give him the apology he has requested?

She was almost certainly advised by her lawyers not to apologize, publicly or privately.

Apologizing would be an admission of culpability. The lawsuit concerning the false accusation concluded in 2025, so she certainly wouldn’t have been wise to accept responsibility whilst that was ongoing. It would have completely undermined her entire legal case. It would/could also leave her vulnerable to potential legal action against her by Lumumba.

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